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re: An Open Letter To The Girl Who Let The Nice Guy Go

Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:41 pm to
Posted by Bama and Beer
Baldwin Co, AL
Member since Oct 2010
85839 posts
Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:41 pm to
I feel like that was you who wrote that
Posted by timbo
Red Stick, La.
Member since Dec 2011
7900 posts
Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:48 pm to
quote:

the guy who posted this is wearing a fedora in his profile pic on FB. he also is unshaven and...not in shape


I'm shocked. Shocked I tells you. Shocked.
Those sort of fedora/neckbeard guys either post rants like this, or rants about how they should be getting bjs on the regular from Jennifer Lawrence-look alikes because they're "nice guys".
Posted by TheOcean
#honeyfriedchicken
Member since Aug 2004
46738 posts
Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:50 pm to
quote:

nice guy red-pillers


Yeah, you don't know what you're talking about
Posted by DayBowBow
Member since Jun 2011
5060 posts
Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:51 pm to
Posted by TheOcean
#honeyfriedchicken
Member since Aug 2004
46738 posts
Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:51 pm to
quote:

both are in the wrong.


The girl isn't in the wrong. It's in her nature to seek attention. They're just doing what they're programmed to do.
Posted by colorchangintiger
Dan Carlin
Member since Nov 2005
30979 posts
Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:53 pm to
m'lady awaitith.


It's so hard waiting on your one and only.
This post was edited on 6/19/15 at 1:55 pm
Posted by Feral
Member since Mar 2012
12809 posts
Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:54 pm to
quote:

Women find Mr. Close enough and then set out to turn him in to Mr. Right. Then they eventually say, "You're not the man I fell in love with"


My wife has a friend like this. She fell for a guy who was/is a pretty big POS and pretty much begged him to marry her. Now she's unhappy as frick because the reclamation project didn't quite go according to plan.

I don't feel that bad for "nice guys" when they don't learn from their mistakes, but I sure as hell don't feel bad for the girls who spurn them and end up in shite situations with no good ending.
Posted by TigerPanzer
Orlando
Member since Sep 2006
9476 posts
Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:55 pm to
quote:

If a one-night stand is what you’re looking for, leave the good guys alone

frick THAT shite. I'm one helluva motherfricking good guy, I am a motherfricking prince among motherfricking princes--and one-night stands are ALL I WANT.


Who's the fricking dick wart who wrote that garbage?
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56777 posts
Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:57 pm to
There is a substantial difference between a 'nice' guy and a 'good' guy. A 'nice' guy is nice because he tries to cloak his intentions as a supplicant, a sycophant. Not nice because he is truly nice - but because he wants something, yet is too emasculated to make a manly effort. He tries to use traditional female wiles - which, obviously, do not work. Society did not prepare him, nor give him a guideline for being a man.
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
76373 posts
Posted on 6/19/15 at 2:03 pm to
I'm starting to think people don't know what a "Nice Guy" is and just assume I'm talking about all guys that are kind and don't backhand women on a regular basis.
Posted by CadesCove
Mounting the Woman
Member since Oct 2006
40828 posts
Posted on 6/19/15 at 2:08 pm to
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My wife has a friend like this. She fell for a guy who was/is a pretty big POS and pretty much begged him to marry her.


We used to call that "missionary dating." Girls who did it generally tried to nurse injured animals and such when they were little. Then the mangled chipmunk, or the douchebag, bites the shite out of them and they feel more depressed. It's a sad cycle.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
83171 posts
Posted on 6/19/15 at 2:12 pm to
CptBengal: same here. I'm actually pretty passionately AGAINST the disregard for men's rights that a lot of quasi-feminists advocate.

But this is just manipulation in a costume.

And slow, you're right. Women should be honest and up front. It's gets blurry when the nice guy is swearing up and down that he is your friend.. Not admitting he wants more.
And then when that guy finally fesses up, is angry that the female "led him on".

Of course that's just one example of one guy. There are absolutely girls who keep nice guys around for comfort (beyond just friendship) and toe the line. And that's fricked up.

Wonderful example of both people fricking up is (500) Days of Summer.
This post was edited on 6/19/15 at 2:13 pm
Posted by HempHead
Big Sky Country
Member since Mar 2011
56777 posts
Posted on 6/19/15 at 2:17 pm to
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It's gets blurry when the nice guy is swearing up and down that he is your friend.. Not admitting he wants more.
And then when that guy finally fesses up, is angry that the female "led him on".


That's more on the man than the woman, IMO.

Amorous intentions should be forthright - more specifically, from a man. This goes back to my previous post - a 'nice' guy will be nice in the hope that his supposed positive qualities will make a woman realize that HE is the one she wants. It almost never happens that way.

I am not platonic friends with any women whom I would like to sleep with. To do so would be incredibly frustrating.
Posted by BowlJackson
Birmingham, AL
Member since Sep 2013
52881 posts
Posted on 6/19/15 at 2:23 pm to
Is this Beta or Omega?
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 6/19/15 at 3:14 pm to
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43031 posts
Posted on 6/19/15 at 3:36 pm to
Women want to nurture a guy to make them better (in thEurope eyes). It's natural for one, and it's exciting along the way for two. If you take a complete vagina that's already what their end game is, they aren't going to want him. Simple as that
Posted by OWLFAN86
Erotic Novelist
Member since Jun 2004
198191 posts
Posted on 6/19/15 at 3:53 pm to
quote:

LouisianaLady
hey





wanna get a beer ?
Posted by hoopsgalore
Chicago
Member since Nov 2013
9162 posts
Posted on 6/19/15 at 3:56 pm to
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Sounds like the type of guy who will take the female's last name in marriage.



Posted by TigerNutwhack
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2004
4256 posts
Posted on 6/19/15 at 3:58 pm to
I read an interesting article on the phrase "nice guy", and how it reflects the kindif people the Internet refers to as nice guys. It's the most generic, forgettable description someone could have. An example they used was a girl would describe a guy she went on a good date with as "handsome, funny, exciting, etc". However, she would very likely describe guy she had a boring date with as "nice". Then, of course, "guy" is about as generic descriptor as you can have.

It's interesting how a "nice guy" sabotages himself even by calling himself a "nice guy".
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33964 posts
Posted on 6/19/15 at 4:05 pm to
quote:

I think the point is that a "nice" guy and a "good" guy are two completely different things


Good point.

A "nice" guy often is a duplicitous one, being "nice" because he thinks that's what women want.
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