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re: An Open Letter To The Girl Who Let The Nice Guy Go

Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:12 pm to
Posted by SlowFlowPro
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Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:12 pm to
oh man...
Posted by SlowFlowPro
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Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:13 pm to
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You're pretending to be someone's friend hoping that you earn enough friendship points to either date or bang'em. That's misrepresenting yourself in my opinion.

basically

but these poor souls were socialized to think in this way. it's the feminization of the US

yes, i was a victim of this
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:14 pm to
Posted by CadesCove
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Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:15 pm to
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cptbengal posted a pretty cringeworthy blog/article like this


Yeah, that article was really bad. And the guy who wrote it should feel bad.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
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Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:15 pm to
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Because I am a man and it’s not up for debate.


dude is showing his cis priv
Posted by Jcorye1
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Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:15 pm to
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yes, i was a victim of this



Me too. Then I sat there and realized in that situation, you give women all the power in the relationship, and that's just not healthy even if it did form how I wanted it to.
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:17 pm to
The false dichotomy is hilarious to me. Plenty of nice/good guys want to casually date. Plenty of nice/good guys want to get laid and don't have to lie to do it.

Posted by jamsmiley
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Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:21 pm to
the article was written by a woman
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:24 pm to
Yeah, so?
Posted by Smalls
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Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:29 pm to
Pretty sure it's a chick who let a nice guy go, writing to herself/other chicks.

?
Posted by LouisianaLady
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Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:30 pm to
quote:

I think "Nice Guys" are lying sacks of shite. You're pretending to be someone's friend hoping that you earn enough friendship points to either date or bang'em. That's misrepresenting yourself in my opinion.


Yep. Most of the guys who actually refer to themselves as a nice guy aren't really nice at all . Guilt tripping someone and making them feel bad when they don't feel a certain way about you is the opposite of nice .

Most commonly, The guys who call themselves nice guys are the same ones who are extremely jealous and insecure and who want to smother you. Again, nothing nice about that.

Someone who has the confidence to speak their mind and say no sometimes isn't an a-hole. These "nice guys" think women love assholes. No. Women love someone who won't hold the fact that they agree with everything you say over your head.

A lot of these nice guy red-pillers think that they're entitled to dates, girlfriends, sex, etc. because they're nice. Uh no. Being nice doesn't entitle you to shite. And a woman isn't the devil if she's not into you--no matter how much you think you can give her.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
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Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:31 pm to
Good luck out there
Posted by SlowFlowPro
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Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:31 pm to
quote:

Pretty sure it's a chick who let a nice guy go, writing to herself/other chicks.

?

how does this create conflict with the OP?
Posted by Smalls
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Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:32 pm to
Personal experience?
Posted by SlowFlowPro
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Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:34 pm to
quote:

Guilt tripping someone and making them feel bad when they don't feel a certain way about you is the opposite of nice .

well to be fair

doing irrational shite the "nice guy" warns you about (and is a symbolic pole of) and then going to him for comfort is pretty fricked up and borderline evil

most times with these guys, it's parasitic and both are in the wrong. if a girl is not not into him, then she should treat him like a dickhead that she's not into. she's not going to be dangling a carrot in front of that guy or seeking his consolation
Posted by Smalls
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Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:35 pm to
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how does this create conflict with the OP?



It doesn't. Just clearing up confusion for the dumb asses.
Posted by SG_Geaux
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Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:36 pm to
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but I think "Nice Guys" are lying sacks of shite.


Not every man is lying sack of shite douchebag like you seem to think.
Posted by Wally Sparks
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Member since Feb 2013
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Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:37 pm to
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Yep. Most of the guys who actually refer to themselves as a nice guy aren't really nice at all . Guilt tripping someone and making them feel bad when they don't feel a certain way about you is the opposite of nice .

Most commonly, The guys who call themselves nice guys are the same ones who are extremely jealous and insecure and who want to smother you. Again, nothing nice about that.

Someone who has the confidence to speak their mind and say no sometimes isn't an a-hole. These "nice guys" think women love assholes. No. Women love someone who won't hold the fact that they agree with everything you say over your head.

A lot of these nice guy red-pillers think that they're entitled to dates, girlfriends, sex, etc. because they're nice. Uh no. Being nice doesn't entitle you to shite. And a woman isn't the devil if she's not into you--no matter how much you think you can give her.



This.
Posted by SlowFlowPro
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Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:39 pm to
nice guys often lie...to themselves
Posted by CptBengal
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Posted on 6/19/15 at 1:40 pm to
quote:

A lot of these nice guy red-pillers think that they're entitled to dates, girlfriends, sex, etc. because they're nice. Uh no. Being nice doesn't entitle you to shite. And a woman isn't the devil if she's not into you--no matter how much you think you can give her.



well said.

I'm all for men's rights, but these neckbeards missed the point of the message.
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