re: Am I nuts for ending it?

Posted by lsusteve1

Member since Dec 2004

48527 posts

Posted on 7/20/15 at 9:30 pm to foj1981

quote:
Your marrying the gf not the family

Not true at all

Posted by arcalades

USA

Member since Feb 2014

19276 posts

Posted on 7/20/15 at 9:35 pm to oleyeller

quote:
your an idiot.

How can you tale?

quote:
you do not marry the parents

Depends. How far away do they live?

Posted by Wolfhound45

Member since Nov 2009

127626 posts

Posted on 7/20/15 at 9:36 pm to lsusteve1

quote:
Not true at all

Preach brother.

Posted by Cruiserhog

Little Rock

Member since Apr 2008

10460 posts

Posted on 7/20/15 at 9:40 pm to pidianske

quote:
Am I nuts?

yes you are stupid, wtf are you thinking....killer boobs, great girl, rich and you are not man enough to tell those in her family that need to frick off to frick off.

swallow your pride and crawl your way back to this chick before someone else beta's your arse. Then at the next opportunity sack up and tell the ones in her family what they need to hear for your relationship with their sibling to work.

This post was edited on 7/20/15 at 9:42 pm

Posted by RedlandsTiger

Greenwell Springs, LA

Member since Jan 2008

3219 posts

Posted on 7/20/15 at 9:43 pm to pidianske

It's a package deal, but everyone has problems with their in-laws or relatives, that's life. Get over it if you love her.

Posted by JinFL

Duuuval

Member since Oct 2004

4518 posts

Posted on 7/20/15 at 10:10 pm to RedlandsTiger

Posted by HaveMercy

Member since Dec 2014

3000 posts

Posted on 7/20/15 at 11:04 pm to pidianske

I might not be the best one to give you advice here based on recent thread about my in-laws; but here goes: my In-laws are certifiably crazy as frick. I have asked myself on occasion, if I had known about them before I married my husband, would I have married him?? The answer has been yes, every time...
Does that help??

Posted by Kashmir

Member since Dec 2014

10386 posts

Posted on 7/20/15 at 11:10 pm to pidianske

quote:
Am I nuts?

no, but you need to grow a pair!!

Posted by New Boy

Member since Aug 2009

908 posts

Posted on 7/21/15 at 9:32 am to pidianske

The question you need to ask yourself is; If FebrirTheBeard started banging her, would you care?

Posted by WhiskerBiscuitSlayer

Your Mom’s Sperm Donor

Member since Jan 2013

13901 posts

Posted on 7/21/15 at 4:26 pm to General Anesthesia

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Ya dun goofed boy

How do you have less than 20 posts and know about a hidden emoticon?

Posted by Hawkeye95

Member since Dec 2013

20293 posts

Posted on 7/21/15 at 4:37 pm to WhiskerBiscuitSlayer

i like my wife's family better than my own. But yes, you are crazy.

Posted by Buttoncollector

S'boro

Member since Jun 2011

583 posts

Posted on 7/21/15 at 4:38 pm to pidianske

I will feed the troll......I had somebody's father say the worst stuff ever to his daughter and I thought right there that if she was my wife I would've had to go find him and beat his brains in.....and I refuse to go to jail over a female for any reason much less one I could choose to avoid.....

Oh and shame on OP for not posting killer boob pics

Posted by SCwTiger

armpit of 'merica

Member since Aug 2014

7053 posts

Posted on 7/21/15 at 4:46 pm to pidianske

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just can't get over the family.

You don't frick the family son. Speaking from 20 yrs of flat secks marriage here - if she's good in the sack and will do anything for you, you might want to

quote:
give the relationship another chance

Ask for a threesome with the maid.

Posted by Bard

Definitely NOT an admin

Member since Oct 2008

60322 posts

Posted on 7/21/15 at 4:50 pm to pidianske

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Years ago, I fell in love with a girl—hard—and she loves me more than anything in the world. She’s intelligent, kind, thoughtful, and the most interesting person I’ve ever met. She also has a good career (makes well into the six figures). Most importantly, though, she has killer boobs , and we still have a good time, anytime we’re together.

In other words, everything is great—but for her family. I really liked them initially, and they liked me, but I soon realized that one of her siblings is evil, and I have no respect for the way her parents coddle the crazy sibling. Her family was a deal-breaker, so I’ve ended it.

Am I nuts?

Yes. How the parents coddle the demon seed has little to do with you and your gal other than provide something to talk about.

The most you should do is tell your SO how you feel about the sibling, mention you think the parents are doing the wrong thing by enabling him/her and leave it at that.

If it truly, truly bothers you so much, the problem is you worrying too much about other people not doing what you think they should. You should focus on fixing that.

Posted by pidianske

Boar Tush, Alabama

Member since Jun 2014

4 posts

Posted on 7/21/15 at 5:04 pm to Buttoncollector

You want pics, Buttoncollector?--You share yours and I'll share mine.

You didn't give us much background information to work with regarding your girl, but want pics of mine. Does she have killer boobs? A six-figure income? Tell us the good, bad and ugly.

BTW, mine wouldn't even flinch at the suggestion of a threesome with the maid if she thought it would salvage the relationship

, but I just don't know that I can ever get past the family.