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re: Am I an a$$hole for thinking that V-Day is pointless and dumb?
Posted on 2/13/20 at 10:26 am to Funky Tide 8
Posted on 2/13/20 at 10:26 am to Funky Tide 8
95% of men and probably 60% of females agree with you.
IMO if you’re dating a girl that is obsessed with valentines days and what she’s going to get, it’s a bad sign for the future of that relationship and how difficult it would be to sustain a more serious relationship.
IMO if you’re dating a girl that is obsessed with valentines days and what she’s going to get, it’s a bad sign for the future of that relationship and how difficult it would be to sustain a more serious relationship.
Posted on 2/13/20 at 10:27 am to Funky Tide 8
No. I married a girl that thinks it's dumb and pointless as well, so no worries in my life this week.
I'll get her a card or something, but that's about it.
I'll get her a card or something, but that's about it.
Posted on 2/13/20 at 10:27 am to Funky Tide 8
No, it’s made up to sell flowers, cards and candy..
This post was edited on 2/13/20 at 10:29 am
Posted on 2/13/20 at 10:29 am to Funky Tide 8
December: "Christmas is awesome! Favorite time of the year!"
February: "Valentine's Day is a made up corporate holiday to sell candy and flowers!"
Every.Single.Year.
February: "Valentine's Day is a made up corporate holiday to sell candy and flowers!"
Every.Single.Year.
Posted on 2/13/20 at 10:30 am to Funky Tide 8
Posted on 2/13/20 at 10:30 am to Funky Tide 8
quote:you march on ahead being a Martyr, im staying on the sideline
I am trying to be more honest and open in this relationship than my last. Honesty makes me come across as an a-hole
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so I guess I just need to be smart about it.
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Favorite team: Alabama
You already missed the boat if you were hoping to ever be 'smart'
Posted on 2/13/20 at 10:31 am to Funky Tide 8
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Am I an a$$hole for thinking that V-Day is pointless and dumb?
Nope, just an a-hole for starting this thread about it.
Posted on 2/13/20 at 10:32 am to Salmon
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December: "Christmas is awesome! Favorite time of the year!"
February: "Valentine's Day is a made up corporate holiday to sell candy and flowers!"
Every.Single.Year.
You got the wrong guy, buddy. I feel the same about the obscene mass-consumption part of Christmas as well.
Posted on 2/13/20 at 10:33 am to jclem11
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Congrats on the no sex.
If you have to buy gifts for sex, you are doing it wrong beta.
Posted on 2/13/20 at 10:33 am to Steadyhands
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Am I an a$$hole for thinking that V-Day is pointless and dumb?
Nope, just an a-hole for starting this thread about it.
what does that make you since you posted in said thread?
Posted on 2/13/20 at 10:33 am to Funky Tide 8
Subtle “I have a GF” brag
Posted on 2/13/20 at 10:33 am to Funky Tide 8
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I have a lot of shite going on this week,
You must be pretty damn important with your busy schedule that you can't find time to buy a card or a bottle of wine or something for Friday. That would take 10 minutes of your precious time.
I don't need an excuse or "holiday" to do something nice for my wife, but I'm not going to ignore a special day that can take very little effort to do something for her.
Posted on 2/13/20 at 10:34 am to Funky Tide 8
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I feel you. I am trying to not be an a-hole, but I am trying to be more honest and open in this relationship than my last. Honesty makes me come across as an a-hole sometimes though, so I guess I just need to be smart about it.
It’s not a big deal for some. My wife and I never found it to be a big deal either (even when we first started dating). Would just get a pizza and watch a movie on Valentine’s Day. I’ll get her flowers randomly once or twice a year and that seems to mean a lot more than on the day they’re dramatically marked up.
This post was edited on 2/13/20 at 10:49 am
Posted on 2/13/20 at 10:38 am to Funky Tide 8
It's a BS Hallmark holiday and my wife sort of agrees..
Posted on 2/13/20 at 10:40 am to Funky Tide 8
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I feel like I am being insensitive to my gf, but I just don't give a frick about this "holiday." I have a lot of shite going on this week, and Valentines day is on the back burner.
If it matters to the girlfriend it should matter to you.
Posted on 2/13/20 at 10:43 am to Funky Tide 8
It mostly is. It’s okay for dating or newer relationships but it stupid for people that don’t need fake occasions to express their feelings.
Posted on 2/13/20 at 10:46 am to Funky Tide 8
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Am I an a$$hole for thinking that V-Day is pointless and dumb?
No. My wife and I feel the same way. It's a made up holiday to sell cards, flowers and chocolates. Have sex whenever you want to have sex. Why do you need a day dedicated to giving your SO shite he or she doesn't want or need just to try to frick him or her. Just go and frick.
Posted on 2/13/20 at 10:48 am to Funky Tide 8
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Am I an a$$hole for thinking that V-Day is pointless and dumb?
Nope, just an a-hole for starting this thread about it.
what does that make you since you posted in said thread?
A bored a-hole.
Posted on 2/13/20 at 10:49 am to Funky Tide 8
You don't need to go all out and litter the walkway with rose petals and shite. It's a good excuse to have a solid date night or cook something special at home.
Posted on 2/13/20 at 10:50 am to Funky Tide 8
I had some fights in the beginning of our relationship, but we no longer celebrate valentines.
The last straw for me is when I had to put a deposit down for a reservation in Nola. I said we can celebrate it another day, but I’m not risking a dime for a reservation.
The last straw for me is when I had to put a deposit down for a reservation in Nola. I said we can celebrate it another day, but I’m not risking a dime for a reservation.
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