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Always treat your mother right!

Posted on 5/10/26 at 5:03 pm
Posted by scrooster
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Posted on 5/10/26 at 5:03 pm
Posted by MikeyFL
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Posted on 5/10/26 at 5:07 pm to
Be Somebody, or Be Somebody's Fool was truly the pinnacle of American culture.
Posted by Jim Rockford
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Posted by HailHailtoMichigan!
Mission Viejo, CA
Member since Mar 2012
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Posted on 5/10/26 at 5:42 pm to
My mother no longer deserves a day honoring her.

She has had severe mental illness/clinical depression for years and refused to do Jack shite about it. Her life for the past 10+ years has been going to medical appointments, sitting in her pajamas until 4 pm, and going to one of two restaurants with her chiropractor boyfriend.

She would ruin my weekends and summer vacations growing up with her constant screaming and screeching, her anger, and her bitterness.

What’s sad is that from what my father and older siblings say, she was once a complete joy. She was adventurous, fun, and of healthy mind.

I despise what she put my twin sister and I through. It took me *years* to get the poisonous fog out of my mind that she initially pumped in there.
Posted by LSUballs
RayVegas LA
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Posted on 5/10/26 at 5:45 pm to
I feel like I've seen this on Cajunomics
Posted by OWLFAN86
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Posted on 5/10/26 at 5:45 pm to
1/2 the mothers in the world are below average



DVer not a fan of math?
This post was edited on 5/10/26 at 5:53 pm
Posted by TulaneLSU
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Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 5/10/26 at 5:52 pm to
Friend,

It is the mark of a vulgarian, a man cast adrift from all refinement and grace, that he would level insult upon a mother. For she who has borne the full weight of mortality in her very body stands beyond reproach, and any tongue that rises against her reveals not her flaw, but the rottenness at the root of the man who wields it.

Yours,
TulaneLSU
Posted by OWLFAN86
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Posted on 5/10/26 at 5:55 pm to
quote:

TulaneLSU
how is mother?

Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
105257 posts
Posted on 5/10/26 at 6:00 pm to
Nobody deserves to be mistreated, and mental illness is not an excuse. Sometimes going no contact is the only solution. But having dealt with a loved one's intractable mental illness myself, I'll offer this advice: try to keep in mind that she didn’t ask for this and very often the treatments are incomplete or don't work at all. It's hard not to be bitter, but bitterness doesn't change anything and only hurts you.
Posted by Da Sheik
Mar a Lago
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Posted on 5/10/26 at 6:41 pm to
I saw my once vibrant social incredible super Mom in her memory care room today. Bed/wheel chair bound. She just stared at me with her beautiful eyes. she didn’t look to the left or to the right, just at me. No doubt in my mind she knew who I was but just couldn’t communicate it.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 5/10/26 at 6:57 pm to
quote:


I saw my once vibrant social incredible super Mom in her memory care room today. Bed/wheel chair bound. She just stared at me with her beautiful eyes. she didn’t look to the left or to the right, just at me. No doubt in my mind she knew who I was but just couldn’t communicate it.


been there baw, it’s gut wrenching, I feel for you
Posted by BoogaBear
Member since Jul 2013
7332 posts
Posted on 5/10/26 at 7:19 pm to
Blanket statements apply to holidays too. Not all mothers are worth a shite. Mine left my dad and 3 kids to go off on a fling with some dude. In hindsight, she was as shitty as a mother could be. There was no raising us right, it was raising us on the path of least resistance, the path that got her where she wanted.

My wife though, we throw down for momma at the house. Some needed gifts, good drinks, good dinner, etc.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
105257 posts
Posted on 5/10/26 at 7:30 pm to
quote:

I saw my once vibrant social incredible super Mom in her memory care room today. Bed/wheel chair bound. She just stared at me with her beautiful eyes. she didn’t look to the left or to the right, just at me. No doubt in my mind she knew who I was but just couldn’t communicate it.


I held my mother's hand as she died. I was the last face she saw before she closed her eyes for the last time. Even through the dementia, she knew who I was right up to the end. That was a blessing not everyone gets, and I'm grateful for it.
Posted by andouille
A table near a waiter.
Member since Dec 2004
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Posted on 5/10/26 at 8:58 pm to
To all the mommas out there, thank you for your cervix.
Posted by MemphisGuy
Germantown, TN
Member since Nov 2023
14627 posts
Posted on 5/10/26 at 9:08 pm to
quote:

That was a blessing not everyone gets, and I'm grateful for it.


True. I got a call from my sister and dad telling me I better hurry up and get over there. (Mom was doing hospice in home at my sister's house). By the time my wife and I got over there, she was already gone.
Posted by Kafka
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Posted by Cheese Grits
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Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
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Posted on 5/10/26 at 9:23 pm to
No.
Posted by TexasTiger08
Member since Oct 2006
30092 posts
Posted on 5/10/26 at 9:26 pm to
quote:

My mother no longer deserves a day honoring her.


I’m torn on this too. My daughter’s mom was seeing my friend behind my back while pregnant. I mean, she seems to be a great mom to my kid, but she’s done some awful shite.
Posted by TakeAGander
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2010
584 posts
Posted on 5/10/26 at 9:33 pm to
Love my mom and so thankful, and grateful that she is a part of my life. She is a wonderful person and a wonderful mom.
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