re: "Allow Men To Be Men"

The demise of the nuclear family is killing America

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"Allow Men To Be Men"

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This is the heart of the problem right here, in the headline.

Don't wait for someone to "allow" you to be a man. Be a man.

Do whatever the frick you want to do, when you want to do it. Ignore the voices crying about the "patriarchy." Go do man shite. They can deal with it. You don't need to deal with them.

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This does not a man, make.

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You're reading my meaning wrong. Do what you want to do.

If you want to act like a man, act like a man. If you want to act like something else, act like something else.

What I'm saying is you don't need anyone's approval or permission to do so.

One of my good friends is the ultimate sjw feminist.

Born in Chile, moved to SF, went to Cal for undergrad. Has lived on communes. She's gender fluid or nonbinary. She doesn't shave, which is a shame because she's really one of the most beautiful girls I've ever met. It's interesting to say the least, but she and I will always be good friends.

Is this behavior behind the MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) movement? A lot of guys seem to be avoiding marriage due to what their fathers and uncles went through.

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Men Going Their Own Way is a statement of self-ownership, where the modern man preserves and protects his own sovereignty above all else. It is the manifestation of one word: “No”. Ejecting silly preconceptions and cultural definitions of what a “man” is. Looking to no one else for social cues. Refusing to bow, serve and kneel for the opportunity to be treated like a disposable utility. And, living according to his own best interests in a world which would rather he didn’t.

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With the neutering of married men, their portrayal in media, losing half of their shite and kids in a divorce, they see this and it's becoming a trend. Sucks for our future big time.

does she have a vagina or a penis?

Every new commercial on TV or ad in a magazine never fails to show men as weak and effeminate with a strong gay vibe (even if they are straight).

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Agreed. For all the red pill shite I read on here I have not met a single girl who actively seeks out less masculine men. She may bitch about it on facebook, but when it's 2:30am and the bar is closed, she ain't texting skinny jeans.

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What is the obsession with skinny jeans?

And I may be going out on a limb here, but if you're in the population that is regularly present in a bar at 2:30 a.m., you're probably not in a group that exerts much societal influence such that feminization of men (real or imagined) would be viewed as problematic.

So, I read the link and it does acknowledge the possibility of sampling bias and concludes (correctly, IMO) that changing work habits are the primary cause. But this...

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The average 20-to-34-year-old male was able to apply 98 pounds of force when gripping something with his right hand...

Millennial women between 20 to 34 actually squeezed much harder than their forebears did, able to generate 98 pounds of force...

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There is no way in heck the average 20-34 year old male has the same grip strength as the average 20-34 year old female.

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I want to start a new "No means no" movement where people just respond to requests for apologies and such by laughing and saying "no". No in depth rebuttal. No debate on CNN. Just nope.

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Al Bundy saw this shite coming long ago....