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Advice on being the middle man at work

Posted on 11/2/16 at 7:02 pm
Posted by athenslife101
Member since Feb 2013
18557 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 7:02 pm
I'm the go between at work between my boss, their boss, and our oversight people. No one is even close to being on the same page and they come to me for answers. I obviously don't want to make any parties look bad and I want to be helpful as I can but when I'm constantly asked about progress and I known parties are unwilling to make progress on their end at all, what do I do?
Posted by Chuker
St George, Louisiana
Member since Nov 2015
7544 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 7:04 pm to
Tell the fryer guy to just yell over to the cashier if he needs to tell her something.
Posted by ILikeLSUToo
Central, LA
Member since Jan 2008
18018 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 7:05 pm to
You tell them the truth. Sounds like you're in a typical corporate environment, so you owe no one any loyalty.
Posted by Btrtigerfan
Disgruntled employee
Member since Dec 2007
21426 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 7:05 pm to
Wait until something big is coming up. Take 2 or 3 days off. Return. Ask for raise.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
35086 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 7:05 pm to
Do they pay you?
Posted by PairofDucks
Member since Jul 2016
4992 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 7:05 pm to
I am the middle man at work.

Know your job, bite your tongue, and be glad that you're not the boss.
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19054 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 7:06 pm to
Bite a towel, it will hurt
Posted by prostyleoffensetime
Mississippi
Member since Aug 2009
11434 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 7:09 pm to
I can't stand people not wanting to be on the same page and not really giving a shite... Be blunt and honest. You don't owe anybody anything. Sometimes being an a-hole is just what you need to do. If you cut the bullshite out, you'll come across as a bit of a social oddity sometimes, but people will respect your opinion.
This post was edited on 11/2/16 at 7:11 pm
Posted by TigerFanInSouthland
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
28065 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 7:09 pm to
quote:

Wait until something big is coming up. Take 2 or 3 days off. Return. Ask for raise.


Les Miles would be proud.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
63266 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 7:10 pm to
You sure have been having some issues with work this year.
Posted by LSUtoOmaha
Nashville
Member since Apr 2004
26578 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 7:11 pm to
He didn't say 2-3 years
Posted by Mr Gardoki
AL
Member since Apr 2010
27652 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 7:20 pm to
I constantly have to balance not throwing anyone under the bus and not taking the blame either. It's a tough spot to be in but don't let yourself get screwed.
Posted by athenslife101
Member since Feb 2013
18557 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 7:27 pm to
Well, it's my first real big job and I have unique responsibilities to the job that no one else in my unit shares. I'm not going to get into it on here. It I'm in s very awkward position. I want to do my best and sometimes I don't know what the right answer is.

So I ask an anonymous resource.

Simple
As
That
Posted by CptBengal
BR Baby
Member since Dec 2007
71661 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 7:31 pm to
Honest answer.

Be straight up at all times.

Hedge or hold nothing
Posted by PrisonMike
Member since Jan 2015
1528 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 7:44 pm to
Serious question: are you a midget?
Posted by BayouWrangler
Member since Feb 2011
1231 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 7:48 pm to
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
117692 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 7:53 pm to
Have you tried throwing a BBQ for everyone?

Get them wasted. Then, armwrestle.
Posted by mikrit54
Robeline
Member since Oct 2013
8664 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 7:53 pm to
Posted by Hangit
The Green Swamp
Member since Aug 2014
39110 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 7:56 pm to
Continue to cover for their non-performing, sorry asses. When you get fired, find a job working with competent people.

Stop covering for them. It will not end well for you if you don't.

Van by the river and whatnot.
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43030 posts
Posted on 11/2/16 at 8:00 pm to
I was sort of a mole at one job I had. All I can say is remember who the boss is
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