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re: A day I've long feared has arrived - Updated OP coming clean with the full story
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:24 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:24 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
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that would likely damage his relationship with his father.
He obviously knows that guys not his father. And you don’t know he even wants a relationship with you. Even if he did, that would never replace the relationship he has with the man who raised him.
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It would upset my children's lives as well.
You didn’t cheat on their mom(s). They don’t even have to meet him. Hell, they don’t even have to know he exists. But how do you know they wouldn’t want to know a half brother? You’re robbing them of a potential relationship with a sibling.
The kid likely needs medical background info and a little closure. Providing that to him costs you nothing.
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Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:25 pm to el Gaucho
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Cmon man we just need a dna sample so we can get the 18 years of back child support pay you owe. I don't know how else I'll be able to afford to go to college
Yep. It’s a money grab. He’s wanting back child support, because he “suffered” by not having your love and financial support.
How did Jr find you? Facebook? Momma had to give up your name, she probably needs new steps on the double wide and a cash settlement to make up for those 18 years of financial duress she endured raising your love child.
Don’t admit to anything, and whatever social media he contacted you on you need to delete. They can make your life miserable. Last thing you need is to admit to anything, then having a shyster lawyer serve you with papers demanding $1000/month for 18 years back payment.
With interest.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:26 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
Have you told your wife at this point?
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:27 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
Did you cheat on your wife to make this kid?
Sure, it would rock our world for a bit, but I wouldn’t be pissed if my husband had a kid he didn’t know about; however, I would be pissed he knew he possibly had a kid and he never told me about it.
Sure, it would rock our world for a bit, but I wouldn’t be pissed if my husband had a kid he didn’t know about; however, I would be pissed he knew he possibly had a kid and he never told me about it.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:28 pm to Bayou
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You all look alike.
Oh? All of us Irish, English, Scottish, with a touch of Viking mixes, look alike?
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:31 pm to fr33manator
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Still, I'd a least hear the grown man out.
I'll respond to him, but he doesn't know anything and I don't know anything. All he can ask is if it's true that I was banging his mom. All I can say is yes. Beyond that it would take a test to determine who is the father. I'm not doing that. I feel his curiosity is a bad reason to potentially damage his family and mine. Just because someone asks you to throw a grenade into a room full of people, doesn't mean it's a good idea.
This post was edited on 10/18/24 at 8:32 pm
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:31 pm to Evil Little Thing
This. I truly think I’d be stunned but I don’t think I could be pissed .. how do you get angry about something he didn’t even know about???
Also what if he IS yours and needs like bone marrow transplant or has some rare blood disorder and needs a transfusion??
Also what if he IS yours and needs like bone marrow transplant or has some rare blood disorder and needs a transfusion??
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:33 pm to tiger91
Do you know how to contact the mother of the young man? Can you get info from her before you talk with him??
Man this sucks.
Man this sucks.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:33 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
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I'll respond to him, but he doesn't know anything and I don't know anything. All he can ask is if it's true that I was banging his mom. All I can say is yes. Beyond that it would take a test to determine who is the father. I'm not doing that. I feel his curiosity is a bad reason to potentially damage his family and mine. Just because someone asks you to throw a grenade into a room full of people, doesn't mean it's a good idea.
It could be your kid, douchebag.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:33 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
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he doesn't know anything
He has at least received information that makes him think that you may be his biological father. That's more than you knew (not that you're at fault for that) and you should at least want some context.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:34 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
OP mad that he’s about to get knuckle checked by his bastard son at Sonic at 350 baw
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:35 pm to tiger91
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Also what if he IS yours and needs like bone marrow transplant or has some rare blood disorder and needs a transfusion??
Lol then he better fricking come in hot and lead with that extremely rare possibility. But I do like to imagine this is the case and as long as OP never responds be just quietly dies from a rare blood disorder with his “sup :)” message going unanswered forever on Facebook
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:36 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
quote:did you lie to your wife about having sex with other people before you were married?
I have a wife and kids to worry about.
If you didn’t lie to her, then I’d tell her about the situation. Then I’d see what this guy wants and do the paternity test. If you’re not his father then everyone can rest. If you are then you can give him whatever info he needs, tell him you really don’t want a relationship, and then move on.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:36 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
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Again, if I knew the kid was mine, I'd try to have a relationship. Hell, if I was single or married without kids I'd take a pat test. With 6 kids living at home and the best wife I could ask for, I'm going to pass on a DNA test.
You know full well the kid is yours. Otherwise, you wouldn't be making such a big deal out of NOT proving he's not yours. If you were absolutely sure he wasn't yours, you'd take the DNA test and call it a day. You know full well he's yours. You are a piece of shite.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:37 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
A tale as old as time.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:38 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
Her body, her choice.
Your wallet, your choice.
(or fake your death and start over in Liberia)
Your wallet, your choice.
(or fake your death and start over in Liberia)
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:40 pm to riverdiver
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Momma had to give up your name
It was her sisters. They thrive on drama. His mom did the right thing and didn't raise any red flags when she got back with her boyfriend. Her sisters were trying to stir shite when she got pregnant and after the baby was born. I haven't seen or talked to anyone in that family in 30 years but I'm sure they haven't changed.
I only ever pulled out during this time, so it's probably the other guy's kid and the sisters are just creating drama for the sake of it. His mom has dark hair and eyes like me, so the kid having dark hair/eyes isn't evidence.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:40 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
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All he can ask is if it's true that I was banging his mom. All I can say is yes.
Hopefully this goes down in a much more classy and respectful way. It’s definitely his mom regardless of being yours or not.
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:40 pm to tiger91
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Have you told your wife at this point?
No
Posted on 10/18/24 at 8:43 pm to olgoi khorkhoi
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His mom did the right thing and didn't raise any red flags when she got back with her boyfriend.
So, in your mind, "doing the right thing" was lying to her boyfriend (now husband) about a kid being his, and lying to her kid about who his real father was?
Seems like her doing the right thing to you is simply leaving you out of it.
You really are coming off like a total piece of shite in this thread.
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