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re: 5 Things Wives Value Most In Their Husbands Above All Else, According To Psychology

Posted on 2/11/25 at 11:10 am to
Posted by el Gaucho
He/They
Member since Dec 2010
59175 posts
Posted on 2/11/25 at 11:10 am to
1. Money
2. Money
3. Money
4. Money
5. Money
Posted by lsupride87
Member since Dec 2007
111439 posts
Posted on 2/11/25 at 11:11 am to
As a whole, women are inherently unhappy and need to be made happy

As a whole; men are inherently happy and something has to happen for them to be made unhappy


Now I will say the OT is inherently more like women
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
33640 posts
Posted on 2/11/25 at 11:13 am to
#6

Women are crazy and will find any shite with you that pisses her off..
Posted by Jack Daniel
Gold member
Member since Feb 2013
29341 posts
Posted on 2/11/25 at 11:26 am to
So 4 of the 5 is read her mind. That’s about right
Posted by Jcorye1
Tom Brady = GoAT
Member since Dec 2007
76373 posts
Posted on 2/11/25 at 11:26 am to
My wife read it and called them pussies. God I love that woman.
Posted by blueboxer1119
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2013
9785 posts
Posted on 2/11/25 at 11:32 am to
1. Money

2. Money

3. Money

4. Money

5. Money
Posted by Dire Wolf
bawcomville
Member since Sep 2008
40342 posts
Posted on 2/11/25 at 11:35 am to
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1. When you listen and don’t try to fix her



"damn that's crazy" instead of offering practical advice

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2. When you anticipate her needs



buy some flowers

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3. When you notice her


"you look good" from time to time

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4. When you hold her hand



yeah whatever

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5. When you learn her love language


make money
Posted by Locoguan0
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2017
7270 posts
Posted on 2/11/25 at 11:37 am to
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1. When you listen and don’t try to fix her


This was an episode of Scrubs. Empathy goes a long way.
Posted by White Bear
probably
Member since Jul 2014
17628 posts
Posted on 2/11/25 at 11:40 am to
Well I’m fricked and not in a literal sense.
Posted by bcoop199
Kansas City, MISSOURI
Member since Nov 2013
9178 posts
Posted on 2/11/25 at 11:41 am to
When you listen and don’t try to fix her

It's always funny when I see this. They want us to accept them for what they are but won't do the same. That's all they do is try to fix us. Men are hard wired to try/want/need to fix things.
Posted by Pettifogger
I don't really care, Margaret
Member since Feb 2012
87349 posts
Posted on 2/11/25 at 11:42 am to
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This thread is going to turn into a shite show, but this is a big thing people, in general, need to learn. Something I've worked hard to get better at. Sometimes, just listen, let them know you're sorry this is happening (depending on the situation), and don't try to be the hero all the time.


"Honey I hear you and I see you. I understand that you think you have an extremely rare and deadly genetic disorder and I totally validate that."
Posted by slutiger5
Parroquias de Florida
Member since May 2007
12320 posts
Posted on 2/11/25 at 11:43 am to
When you give them money.
Posted by BayouBlitz
Member since Aug 2007
18126 posts
Posted on 2/11/25 at 11:44 am to
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According To Psychology


Who is this? Lol.
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
16107 posts
Posted on 2/11/25 at 11:44 am to
Love language:
Posted by FightinTigersDammit
Louisiana North
Member since Mar 2006
46425 posts
Posted on 2/11/25 at 11:44 am to
I had an ex-GF who said she couldn't figure out my "love language". Why?
I'm here with you.
Sometimes I cook for you.
I buy things I think you like.
I go places you want to go to.
I reach out to touch you when we watch TV.

I mean, I'm dating you and no one else. Accept it and enjoy it.
Posted by Nole Man
Somewhere In Tennessee!
Member since May 2011
9100 posts
Posted on 2/11/25 at 11:47 am to
Nothing about that paycheck?

Your friend Tyrese from work?
Posted by Bayou
Boudin, LA
Member since Feb 2005
42863 posts
Posted on 2/11/25 at 12:08 pm to
Trust




No porn
No wacking
Posted by Obtuse1
Westside Bodymore Yo
Member since Sep 2016
30482 posts
Posted on 2/11/25 at 12:10 pm to
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I can’t fathom why you would want someone to listen and not try to help. The point in talking about something is to get help


I don't know about your wife but my wife almost always has worked the problem, has a solution and has either started to implement it or has plans to. Unless she specifically asks me for help, ideas or simply to take care of it for her she simply wants someone to commensurate with.

It's like if a buddy comes over and starts bitching about rounding off a bolt trying to remove a head from an engine you don't interrupt him you just let him roll and in the end you will find out he either found a way to get the bolt out, paid someone to do it, is there to borrow a tool or wants you to do it for him. Sometimes you need to just get shite off your chest. In his frustration, it is probably not a good time to start explaining head bolts are torque to yield and he needs to replace them all anyway.


Almost everyone of the threads about women on tOT make me wonder why a large chunk of the men here even claim to like women outside their OEM lady bits.
Posted by mmmmmbeeer
ATL
Member since Nov 2014
10189 posts
Posted on 2/11/25 at 12:11 pm to
I'm horrible about #1. My wife will correct me..."you're just supposed to say that sucks, babe". Well shite, alright, I guess I'll keep this easy solution in my pocket so that you can bitch and moan about a really dumb problem.

There are times where I know she just wants to bitch and moan about something that happened at work. She'll just go on and on and on...while I am very clearly not paying attention (on my phone/tablet) just uttering an occasional 'huh' or 'mmhmm'. She knows damn well I'm not listening. But she just keeps talking. I just don't understand it.
Posted by SquatchDawg
Cohutta Wilderness
Member since Sep 2012
20088 posts
Posted on 2/11/25 at 12:14 pm to
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This thread is going to turn into a shite show, but this is a big thing people, in general, need to learn. Something I've worked hard to get better at. Sometimes, just listen, let them know you're sorry this is happening (depending on the situation), and don't try to be the hero all the time.


So just listen to endless complaining about things that can be easily remedied?

Gotcha.
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