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re: 18-year-old guy from Maine places an ad looking for a wife in 1865.

Posted on 10/24/24 at 6:35 am to
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
51952 posts
Posted on 10/24/24 at 6:35 am to
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This dude owned a house, land, with multiple animals, all at only 18. Yet today's 18 year olds could hardly even be considered adults.

I read Peter Hopkirks The Great Game, dealing with a hundred years of competition between Russia and Great Britain over Central Asia. Early on they both were sending adventurers out just to map the land and terrain.

Two men set out from NW India, took separate arcs through the Khans of of Central Asia, and ended in the safety of Persia, which was Great Britain’s ally. One of the men travelled 2,500 miles through dangerous tribal areas, in which capture by slavers was a constant danger. He had to know several unusual languages, had to pose as a holy man at times, and at other times a merchant.

It took him four months. He met with powerful chieftains and negotiated treaties on Britain’s behalf. When he returned to Great Britain he was a hero and was inducted into the British Royal Society. He was 20 years old.
Posted by nealnan8
Atlanta
Member since Oct 2016
3915 posts
Posted on 10/24/24 at 6:38 am to
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I think people in general were scarce in Aroostook County. Easily the most isolated place on the East Coast.


and for some perspective, the state of Maine lost 9,000 men in the war. The 1860 census showed 628,000 people in Maine. With all those men lost in the war, you would think that there would be lots of available widows, say down Bangor way. Get on a buggy and head on down!
Posted by Psych23
Member since Aug 2024
731 posts
Posted on 10/24/24 at 6:44 am to
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This dude owned a house, land, with multiple animals, all at only 18. Yet today's 18 year olds could hardly even be considered adults.


I bet that guy didn't have helicopter parents with Life360.
Posted by rowbear1922
Houston, TX
Member since Oct 2008
15753 posts
Posted on 10/24/24 at 6:48 am to
Jody must have taken his first wife
Posted by PJinAtl
Atlanta
Member since Nov 2007
13987 posts
Posted on 10/24/24 at 6:55 am to
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I think people in general were scarce in Aroostook County. Easily the most isolated place on the East Coast.

and for some perspective, the state of Maine lost 9,000 men in the war. The 1860 census showed 628,000 people in Maine. With all those men lost in the war, you would think that there would be lots of available widows, say down Bangor way. Get on a buggy and head on down!

Presque Isle, which is in Aroostook County, took the heaviest toll of losses in the state, and maybe country, percentage-wise.

In 1860 the population was 723 - about half men and half women. About half the eligible men (22% of the town) either enlisted or were drafted. Of those, about a third died during the war.

In a town of less than 800, over 50 men were lost.
Posted by ned nederlander
Member since Dec 2012
5504 posts
Posted on 10/24/24 at 7:06 am to
This guy definitely jerked it to erotic scrimshaw a time or two in Maine.
Posted by auwaterfowler
Alabama
Member since Jan 2020
2866 posts
Posted on 10/24/24 at 7:08 am to
That almost reads like a buddy pranked him by putting that ad in the paper.
Posted by Floating Change Up
Member since Dec 2013
12865 posts
Posted on 10/24/24 at 7:12 am to
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shite...now I have to know what happened!


He ended up with 1.5 acres of unusable land, 1 sheep, 2 top round steaks, a retarded goat, and 5 featherless chickens.
Posted by Crawdaddy
Slidell. The jewel of Louisiana
Member since Sep 2006
19098 posts
Posted on 10/24/24 at 7:33 am to
Sounds like he recently lost his help
Posted by Longhorn Actual
Member since Dec 2023
2871 posts
Posted on 10/24/24 at 7:37 am to
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Compare that 18 year old to an 18 year old today.

Owned a home and farm and seemed relatively accomplished


Yeah, but Boomers hadn't come along yet and ruined everything, making home ownership unaffordable for baristas.
Posted by Squirrelly
Member since May 2022
21 posts
Posted on 10/24/24 at 7:48 am to
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Speaking of…what does “purchasing waterfalls” mean in the 19th century?


Little fake curls. Basically a Victorian version of a weave.
Posted by Chicken
Jackassistan
Member since Aug 2003
26803 posts
Posted on 10/24/24 at 7:50 am to
"But:I don't know how to do it."

His parents never had the talk with him...
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
88361 posts
Posted on 10/24/24 at 8:49 am to
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Boomers hadn't come along yet and ruined everything, making home ownership unaffordable for baristas.
Posted by nateslu1
Mr. Belvedere Fan Club
Member since Apr 2012
6933 posts
Posted on 10/24/24 at 9:56 am to
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18 years old. this kid was a go-getter. Ambitious fella.


Well the average lifespan of a baw back then was like 40 so people had to get moving.
Posted by WWII Collector
Member since Oct 2018
8572 posts
Posted on 10/24/24 at 10:04 am to
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18 years old. this kid was a go-getter. Ambitious fella.


Had 18 acres, House, Barn, Cattle...

Got more than I have at 60... I bet the letters flooded in.

Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
295371 posts
Posted on 10/24/24 at 10:32 am to
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Well the average lifespan of a baw back then was like 40 so people had to get moving.


Mainly due to child mortality rates.

Adults could still grow old in those days.
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