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re: Who should I put in my will?

Posted on 1/12/23 at 12:39 pm to
Posted by robchand58
Denham Springs LA
Member since Nov 2012
630 posts
Posted on 1/12/23 at 12:39 pm to
My uncle is a former Marine with no kids. Wife died last year, and he's alone. His heart has always been for kids. He divvied up his will into percentages to Toys For Tots, St Judes, Dreams Come True, then a local church and the local Food Bank. Just an example.
Posted by RobbBobb
Matt Flynn, BCS MVP
Member since Feb 2007
27968 posts
Posted on 1/12/23 at 7:21 pm to
Blow someones mind

Give it to a family with young kids that are good people, but appear to be struggling. Give them a leg up on life
Posted by Lutcher Lad
South of the Mason-Dixon Line
Member since Sep 2009
5790 posts
Posted on 1/13/23 at 6:56 am to
Give it to the Shriners...or St. Jude's. Both are for kids!
Posted by wheelr
Member since Jul 2012
5149 posts
Posted on 1/13/23 at 8:00 am to
Lots of great ideas. Appreciate it.

Posted by MSTiger33
Member since Oct 2007
20402 posts
Posted on 1/13/23 at 8:04 am to
I also suggest naming a donor advised fund as your charitable beneficiary. Fidelity has the one. The benefit is that you can change the ultimate charitable beneficiaries on the fund through the website without having to revise your will.
Posted by TIGERSby10
Central Lafourche
Member since Nov 2005
6956 posts
Posted on 1/13/23 at 4:00 pm to
Give it to my family. I'm dying of cancer and my wife and three kids are going to have a hard time making ends meet. We would really appreciate it.

Not kidding and not too ashamed to ask.
Posted by Jag_Warrior
Virginia
Member since May 2015
4127 posts
Posted on 1/13/23 at 7:53 pm to
quote:

I also suggest naming a donor advised fund as your charitable beneficiary.




A lady and her husband who work with me on a nonprofit board recently brought this to my attention and I’m also looking into it.
Posted by Fat Bastard
coach, investor, gambler
Member since Mar 2009
73006 posts
Posted on 1/13/23 at 10:02 pm to
quote:

Give it to my family. I'm dying of cancer and my wife and three kids are going to have a hard time making ends meet. We would really appreciate it.

Not kidding and not too ashamed to ask.






Posted by Retrograde
TX
Member since Jul 2014
2900 posts
Posted on 1/13/23 at 10:42 pm to
If I was you I would give it to someone I know. I would rather my house cleaning ladies get a big chunk than some bullshite charity
Posted by Hankg
Member since Feb 2011
631 posts
Posted on 1/14/23 at 6:44 am to
I have always thought that if I had serious money I would find a good, honest general contractor and put him on payroll. I would set up a foundation to repair homes for needy / deserving in my community. Not full remodels but repairs, roof replacement, handicap access, etc. I would get a lot of joy and satisfaction from that.
Posted by Twenty 49
Shreveport
Member since Jun 2014
18812 posts
Posted on 1/14/23 at 7:07 am to
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Would love feedback on the general process and cost of having an attorney handle this stuff. Also interested in what mechanism ensures I don't get robbed by said attorney and the state.


Call and ask a lawyer for a price. If you keep it simple, like "I am a single man with no children and want a will that leaves all my estate to XYZ Charity," they can likely tell you over the phone. Call more than one. Prices vary.

But if you want trusts, conditions (but only if she graduates college and is not stripping, etc.), multiple beneficiaries in various amounts, then it's going to be less predicable and more expensive. Some people have $400 in the bank, but want to estate plan like they are the Rockefellers. Settle down and keep it simple.

If you have a nice chunk, you might approach a charity or university and tell them you are interested in leaving it to them. They may well refer you to a lawyer to handle the estate planning.

St. Jude's has a group of employees who will, if you tell them the charity will inherit your estate, kiss your arse, take you to lunch, and call you on your birthday to the day you die, then sue your family members if they try to claim any proceeds.

St. Jude Fights Donors’ Families in Court for Share of Estates
Posted by idlewatcher
County Jail
Member since Jan 2012
79349 posts
Posted on 1/14/23 at 10:56 am to
Give your estate to the most deserving yet least aware of your plans.
Posted by 18handicap
Member since Jul 2014
5377 posts
Posted on 1/15/23 at 12:07 pm to
I'm in the same boat. No kids, no siblings, no contact with relatives since my parents passed away. I'm about to turn 60, and everyone tells me to do a will soon. I'm just going to have to sit down and figure out what charities or schools I want to donate to. It's not real easy.

I do want to leave enough for a friend and his wife who will probate my will and take my pups.
Posted by MSTiger33
Member since Oct 2007
20402 posts
Posted on 1/15/23 at 4:18 pm to
Again, donor advised fund is your best bet for flexibility in the charitable portion of your planning.
Posted by scuppernong
Member since Jan 2013
564 posts
Posted on 1/16/23 at 12:14 pm to
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Tunnel to Towers


Scam.
Posted by mallardhank
Atlanta
Member since Feb 2006
1277 posts
Posted on 1/16/23 at 8:33 pm to
And if you decide to give to a St Jude or Shriners, make sure they get the money and not the crooks that get sixth five percent off the top for advertising and handling. That’s total bs
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