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Random Office Conversation - Servicing vs. Paying Off $150k non-housing debt
Posted on 8/29/26 at 10:35 am
Posted on 8/29/26 at 10:35 am
Walked in on the following scenario:
Family has approx $150k non-housing debt ($60k vehicles, $80k student loans, $10k signature loan). All being serviced properly monthly.
Family income slated to drop due to job change from a RIF. Lower income has family at max capacity in normal month of expenses.
Many at the table were suggesting taking $130k from IRA during rollover from old job. I got strange looks when I said don’t do that due to taxes + penalties and setting them back in retirement planning. Their argument was from the peace of mind standpoint and family could use the freed up monthly cash to boost retirement.
Late 30’s family. 3 kids. Retirement above $500k. Pre-Tax HHI around $175k. I asked about equity in home - unknown.
What would MT do?
Family has approx $150k non-housing debt ($60k vehicles, $80k student loans, $10k signature loan). All being serviced properly monthly.
Family income slated to drop due to job change from a RIF. Lower income has family at max capacity in normal month of expenses.
Many at the table were suggesting taking $130k from IRA during rollover from old job. I got strange looks when I said don’t do that due to taxes + penalties and setting them back in retirement planning. Their argument was from the peace of mind standpoint and family could use the freed up monthly cash to boost retirement.
Late 30’s family. 3 kids. Retirement above $500k. Pre-Tax HHI around $175k. I asked about equity in home - unknown.
What would MT do?
This post was edited on 8/29/26 at 6:42 pm
Posted on 8/29/26 at 10:40 am to CapitalTiger
Have the party being RIFed to find another job.
Prioritize the outstanding debt as to carrying expense and get it paid down.
Prioritize the outstanding debt as to carrying expense and get it paid down.
Posted on 8/29/26 at 10:46 am to soccerfüt
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Have the party being RIFed to find another job.
They found one. It’s just for less. Part of why I suggested not panicking because they could bring that income up sooner than they think.
Posted on 8/29/26 at 11:25 am to CapitalTiger
Seems like you gathered a lot of information, but shared nothing relevant.
Is the current income $175 or the previous income? Either way, you follow up they have new jobs…but want to withdraw $130 for peace of mind? It sounds like they had their hearts set on a new side by side before a RIF got in the way.
Is the current income $175 or the previous income? Either way, you follow up they have new jobs…but want to withdraw $130 for peace of mind? It sounds like they had their hearts set on a new side by side before a RIF got in the way.
Posted on 8/29/26 at 11:28 am to CapitalTiger
Sell and downgrade vehicles to start.
Maybe a 401k loan but almost never early withdrawal during accumulation phase.
Point out 401k and IRAs have protections against bankruptcy and creditors. So even in a worst case situation where they default they're probably better off having held onto their retirement funds just walk away with wrecked credit.
Maybe a 401k loan but almost never early withdrawal during accumulation phase.
Point out 401k and IRAs have protections against bankruptcy and creditors. So even in a worst case situation where they default they're probably better off having held onto their retirement funds just walk away with wrecked credit.
Posted on 8/29/26 at 11:53 am to CapitalTiger
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Late 30’s family.
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Family has approx $130k non-housing debt ($60k vehicles, $80k student loans, $10k signature loan).
80k in student loans left in your late 30s and unnecessary vehicles. Just kill me to get me out of debt and use the life insurance to pay it off.
Posted on 8/29/26 at 12:51 pm to lsuconnman
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Seems like you gathered a lot of information, but shared nothing relevant.
Yeah. I walked in on it late and also didn't care enough to have them answer all the details again.
I was more shocked at the responses I got when I suggested against IRA withdrawal.
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Is the current income $175 or the previous income? Either way, you follow up they have new jobs…but want to withdraw $130 for peace of mind? It sounds like they had their hearts set on a new side by side before a RIF got in the way.
Based on what I gathered. The $175k is the new income. They were around $225 HHI and that $50k drop is what was servicing the non-housing debt.
Honestly, I think they're still in panic mode and not thinking it through fully. Unless there's something drastic that wasn't shared. $175k should be around $10k take home unless there's some additional outflows we weren't made aware of. Didn't gather they were looking to keep spending money. Just trying to figure out how to continue saving and covering bills.
My ultimate suggestion was to look at downgrading one vehicle, pausing any retirement, and tightening expenses. If that didn't get them to break-even or they didn't want to downgrade cars...then find some freelance work and grow income.
Posted on 8/29/26 at 2:51 pm to CapitalTiger
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Yeah. I walked in on it late and also didn't care enough to have them answer all the details again
I’m fascinated and need to know more.
Where do they live? Median US income is $85k. This family rocks $250k and has a team of advisors?
Honestly, I think the first step is eliminate the number of people on their payroll.
Posted on 8/29/26 at 3:12 pm to CapitalTiger
Sell the expensive cars and drive beaters til they can pay off their student loans and signature loan
Posted on 8/29/26 at 3:28 pm to Upperdecker
Late 30s is way too late to have student loans unless you’re a doctor
Posted on 8/29/26 at 6:12 pm to CapitalTiger
Never take from a 401k IMO. I would sell the cars and buy cheaper ones before anything else
Posted on 8/29/26 at 6:25 pm to CapitalTiger
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$130k non-housing debt ($60k vehicles, $80k student loans, $10k signature loan)
is my math bad? Shouldn't that be $150K
I agree they shouldn't take the $ out of retirement. But if they do, could they consider doing it for only part of the debt?
Maybe someone said that, but I've been adding those numbers repeatedly
Posted on 8/29/26 at 6:41 pm to Stateguy
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is my math bad? Shouldn't that be $150K
Can’t believe I didn’t catch that earlier.
This post was edited on 8/29/26 at 7:21 pm
Posted on 8/30/26 at 12:05 am to CapitalTiger
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Many at the table were suggesting taking $130k from IRA during rollover from old job.

Posted on 8/30/26 at 12:57 am to CapitalTiger
Reading this stressed me out.
Posted on 8/30/26 at 2:26 pm to The Boat
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80k in student loans left in your late 30s
Had wayyy more than this at that point, law school loans. Paid off finally in early 40s. However, it is a reality for many.
Posted on 8/30/26 at 3:51 pm to nola tiger lsu
We're about 5-8 yrs from retiring so I don't have much valuable advice to folks in their 30's BUT for some reason, I think that even with a substantial bump up in income, they'd still be having these discussions. And with 3 kids, the expenses will soon get out of hand.
Posted on 8/30/26 at 4:35 pm to CapitalTiger
A middle ground option, instead of taking an immediate disbursement during rollover: rollover 401k to IRA (not new employer's 401k plan) but leave it untouched for now.
That way, it is there just in case for "peace of mind" just in case all else fails and they still want to tap it and pay taxes plus penalty. This gives them time to calm down, weather the storm and hopefully adjust budget to new income reality.
An astonishingly large # of people erroneously believe splitting assets into multiple accounts reduces compounding. So be prepared to get push back and explain the commutative property of multiplication.
That way, it is there just in case for "peace of mind" just in case all else fails and they still want to tap it and pay taxes plus penalty. This gives them time to calm down, weather the storm and hopefully adjust budget to new income reality.
An astonishingly large # of people erroneously believe splitting assets into multiple accounts reduces compounding. So be prepared to get push back and explain the commutative property of multiplication.
This post was edited on 8/30/26 at 5:19 pm
Posted on 8/30/26 at 4:47 pm to CapitalTiger
Let me guess, these idiots around the table didn't bother doing the math on the tax and penalty.
At they're already in 22% bracket and another $130k would spill into 24%
So, tax and penalty on a $130k withdrawal would be 22-24% federal plus 10% penalty and state tax if applicable. That's between $28-$31k tax plus $13k penalty and state tax. So $41k+ for peace of mind and to net less than $90k leaving $60k of debt.
Drives me nuts because the loudest morons are always the most confident ones offering workplace financial advice. I have a relative that took a 401k loan to pay off a truck in his 20s because the loudmouths persuaded him and he didn't follow my advice.
At they're already in 22% bracket and another $130k would spill into 24%
So, tax and penalty on a $130k withdrawal would be 22-24% federal plus 10% penalty and state tax if applicable. That's between $28-$31k tax plus $13k penalty and state tax. So $41k+ for peace of mind and to net less than $90k leaving $60k of debt.
Drives me nuts because the loudest morons are always the most confident ones offering workplace financial advice. I have a relative that took a 401k loan to pay off a truck in his 20s because the loudmouths persuaded him and he didn't follow my advice.
Posted on 9/1/26 at 2:07 pm to TorchtheFlyingTiger
You shouldn't take from retirement unless its an emergency, and this certainly is not an emergency. They need to wake up and pay this shite off. If they are making $225k with $80k in student loans and $10k consumer debt or whatever it is, they are idiots.
They need to stop trying to keep up with the Jones', sell a car, buy a beater, and pay off their debt. One of them can get a new car when they are debt free as a reward. Put it on loan, I don't care.
But until people hit the bottom of the barrel they will never learn financially. They will blow through their retirement, and be financially in bad shape for the rest of their lives including needing to work until they are 70+.
They need to stop trying to keep up with the Jones', sell a car, buy a beater, and pay off their debt. One of them can get a new car when they are debt free as a reward. Put it on loan, I don't care.
But until people hit the bottom of the barrel they will never learn financially. They will blow through their retirement, and be financially in bad shape for the rest of their lives including needing to work until they are 70+.
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