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Anyone else probably stuck in their current house forever?

Posted on 6/8/23 at 2:44 pm
Posted by ghost2most
Member since Mar 2012
7490 posts
Posted on 6/8/23 at 2:44 pm
Bought in 2018. Refinanced to 2.75% during the pandemic. House appreciated by a couple hundred thousand.

I doubt I could afford it at its current value, interest rate, and tax bill.

Not the worst thing in the world, but some things about it are not ideal with young kids. Pretty much stuck.

Even downgrading doesn't make sense. You would just get lesser house for the same or more price at a higher tax and interest rate.

I say stuck forever - that's probably not true because I could pay this off and pay in cash for a new house in the future but definitely stopped us from moving in the next 5-10 years minimum.
Posted by Salmon
I helped draft the email
Member since Feb 2008
85096 posts
Posted on 6/8/23 at 2:50 pm to
Kinda feel like right now.

I got a fairly significant raise in 2021, plus the equity that I have in my house (12 years) had us primed to upgrade to something with land, but now with interests rates, our buying power got hit so hard.

We like our house and its certainly nice enough and big enough to continue raising our family for the rest of our lives, but we were looking to get out of the city.

Just doesn't seem feasible right now.

Posted by Im4datigers
Northern Virginia
Member since Oct 2003
4555 posts
Posted on 6/8/23 at 2:52 pm to
Stuck in a house forever is much better than being stuck in a job or career forever.
Posted by hiltacular
NYC
Member since Jan 2011
19958 posts
Posted on 6/8/23 at 2:53 pm to
So in 5 years your house has gained value a couple hundred thousand and yet you are complaining about being stuck?
Posted by La Place Mike
West Florida Republic
Member since Jan 2004
30182 posts
Posted on 6/8/23 at 2:54 pm to
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ghost2most


Consider it you mausoleum and make it a monument to yourself.
Posted by VermilionTiger
Member since Dec 2012
38255 posts
Posted on 6/8/23 at 2:55 pm to
My wife and I bought our house in late 2018 too. 3 bedroom, 2 bath. Great school zone, great neighborhood

But I work from home so it’s essentially a 2 bedroom home. We have 2 kids now. It’s not a problem now, but it will be soon

ETA - we also purchased land to build. Our house has probably gone up in equity by $40,000.
This post was edited on 6/8/23 at 2:57 pm
Posted by vistajay
Member since Oct 2012
2678 posts
Posted on 6/8/23 at 2:55 pm to
I prefer to think of it as my "forever house."
Posted by MrJimBeam
Member since Apr 2009
12896 posts
Posted on 6/8/23 at 2:57 pm to
Bought in 2018 as well and refinanced to 2.75, too. Same situation but I love my house layout; however, I know I will need to do some updates at some point. All the major hits are taken care of in recent years like the AC, roof, etc. Next it's finding the money to get new floors throughout for nearly 3k sq ft. before overhauling the master bath so I'm eating ramen for next year

All that said to say you're in great position and stuck is not the right word when you consider the amount of appreciation you created out of thin air.
Posted by ghost2most
Member since Mar 2012
7490 posts
Posted on 6/8/23 at 3:07 pm to
quote:

So in 5 years your house has gained value a couple hundred thousand and yet you are complaining about being stuck?


It’s not the value as much as the interest rates and property tax hits we’d take moving. 2.75 to 6 percent or whatever it is today is a huge jump. Not to mention the rebaselining of taxes. I fight the assessment every year. Hard to fight value when you purchase.
Posted by grsharky
Member since Dec 2019
232 posts
Posted on 6/8/23 at 3:12 pm to
I feel like we're going to be here for a while now, which has upsides and downsides.

We've been in our house for 8 years, have a 20 year mortgage at 3.62%, and it's 12.5% of our take home pay each month. Our house was very affordable and its allowed us to save a lot for retirement, 529's, and basically do what we want in life. With that being said, I've never loved our house (my wife does though). We have a massive yard with trees and the upkeep is brutal, and the leaves in the fall can be a full time job. We live in the country so any time we want to do something, it's a minimum 15 minute drive.

So right now we can sock money and that's awesome, but I'd like to move into something newer within a few years.
Posted by ghost2most
Member since Mar 2012
7490 posts
Posted on 6/8/23 at 3:15 pm to
quote:

I feel like we're going to be here for a while now, which has upsides and downsides.

We've been in our house for 8 years, have a 20 year mortgage at 3.62%, and it's 12.5% of our take home pay each month. Our house was very affordable and its allowed us to save a lot for retirement, 529's, and basically do what we want in life. With that being said, I've never loved our house (my wife does though). We have a massive yard with trees and the upkeep is brutal, and the leaves in the fall can be a full time job. We live in the country so any time we want to do something, it's a minimum 15 minute drive.

So right now we can sock money and that's awesome, but I'd like to move into something newer within a few years.



I have a ton of Oaks but the ice storm this year took a lot down. Still tons of leaves.

My major gripe is the lot isn't level. We're on a hill so the yard slopes up. My other major 1st world problem complaint is the pool. I wish I never bought a house with one. Such a money and time suck.
Posted by grsharky
Member since Dec 2019
232 posts
Posted on 6/8/23 at 3:19 pm to
quote:

I have a ton of Oaks but the ice storm this year took a lot down. Still tons of leaves.

My major gripe is the lot isn't level. We're on a hill so the yard slopes up. My other major 1st world problem complaint is the pool. I wish I never bought a house with one. Such a money and time suck.


For living in the mountains, our yard is very flat, but almost 3 acres total. We have a pretty good mix of maples and oaks. The maples aren't too hard to deal with, I mulch up the leaves and they go away nicely. The oaks are brutal to clean up after, plus the thousands of acorns they dump.

This post was edited on 6/8/23 at 3:21 pm
Posted by lsujro
north of the wall
Member since Jul 2007
4025 posts
Posted on 6/8/23 at 3:27 pm to
in pretty much same boat. i'm at 2.5%, note is less than rent on a 2br apartment

really need another bedroom and better layout for my family, but i'll never again get a deal this good.
Posted by FLObserver
Jacksonville
Member since Nov 2005
15196 posts
Posted on 6/8/23 at 3:28 pm to
Purchased my house 10 years ago . I'm up 400k from what i paid to its value now. Did a refi to 2.25 a few years ago. Lord willing it doesnt look like im going anywhere for a while. Around 3000sqft house so space is not an issue with a acre and a quarter of land. The next house will be much smaller because it will be me and the wife. Hoping to pay that with cash and not have to worry about payments. Tempting to sell but where you going to go right now?especially in Jax.
This post was edited on 6/8/23 at 3:37 pm
Posted by HailToTheChiz
Back in Auburn
Member since Aug 2010
51967 posts
Posted on 6/8/23 at 3:34 pm to
Yeah. Because wife won't stop spending
Posted by AUHighPlainsDrifter
South Carolina
Member since Sep 2017
3179 posts
Posted on 6/8/23 at 3:42 pm to
quote:

But I work from home so it’s essentially a 2 bedroom home. We have 2 kids now. It’s not a problem now, but it will be soon


It sounds like you have the perfect reason/excuse to put a detached office/man cave in the back yard!
Posted by TigerTatorTots
The Safeshore
Member since Jul 2009
81678 posts
Posted on 6/8/23 at 3:44 pm to
Happily yes - we bought this house as our forever home in 2018. Refi'ed from 4.5% to 2.5% in January 2021. This mortgage is worth a lot of value for us right now. Very happy things played out like they did for us.
Posted by Phate
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2006
11772 posts
Posted on 6/8/23 at 3:56 pm to
I've only been in my house for 4 years but with a 2.625% rate I don't think I'll ever sell it. I told my wife that if we decide we want to move we could rent it out for a lot more than what it costs us.
Posted by ThatsAFactJack
East Coast
Member since Sep 2012
1592 posts
Posted on 6/8/23 at 4:00 pm to
quote:

Salmon

quote:

got a fairly significant raise in 2021, plus the equity that I have in my house (12 years) had us primed to upgrade to something with land, but now with interests rates, our buying power got hit so hard.

We like our house and its certainly nice enough and big enough to continue raising our family for the rest of our lives, but we were looking to get out of the city.


Similar to us. We wanted to buy this spring but rates have had us reevaluate. So we just purchased 3+ acres in the country closer to both our parents. Will pay off aggressively and build in 2-3 years once the oldest starts highschool. In the meantime I will be digging our pond, putting up a barn and adding chicken coop for eggs, 2 cows a year for butchering and mini goats for the kids.

Screw the city. I am 43 she is 36 and we are ready to get out the rat race.

Posted by MSTiger33
Member since Oct 2007
20979 posts
Posted on 6/8/23 at 4:17 pm to
Yep! And I couldn’t ask for a better situation. Bought in 2020, sellers had listed it for the two prior summers and not one offer. They put the house back on the market during Covid without adjusting the price for the flight out of NYC. I jumped on it 15 minutes after listing and we had an acceptance 5 hours after listing. Interest rate is 2.8% and it’s still up 50% in value.

This post was edited on 6/8/23 at 4:23 pm
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