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Would it be weird to bring a non-traditional side to Thanksgiving?

Posted on 11/16/18 at 6:45 am
Posted by UFownstSECsince1950
Member since Dec 2009
32600 posts
Posted on 11/16/18 at 6:45 am
Even if it has fall/thanksgiving type ingredients?

They will already have all the turkey, stuffing, green beans, corns, potatoes, desserts, etc etc

Thinking about making something random as a side dish, but with “thanksgiving themed” items.

So I’m thinking about a big spaghetti squash casserole with ground turkey, onions, tomatoes, jalapeños, garlic, cheese, peppers, etc

Would that be weird to show up to a thanksgiving dinner with something like that, even if it is squash & turkey?
Posted by hungryone
river parishes
Member since Sep 2010
11987 posts
Posted on 11/16/18 at 6:52 am to
What an odd question. I assume you actually know the people with whom you will share Thkgiving, so think about whether they’re rigid, ridiculous people who think that meal can only contain certain dishes. Translation: bring what you’d like, as long as the host knows and approves. You don’t want to show up, dish in hand, to someone else’s carefully planned meal. You’re a guest, so ask if what you are bringing will be welcome and don’t be offended if the host suggests an alternative or tells you she already has everything covered.

Not all gatherings are meant to be potluck.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83510 posts
Posted on 11/16/18 at 6:56 am to
I'm bringing andouille dip, so no, I don’t think so
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124049 posts
Posted on 11/16/18 at 7:24 am to
A had a friend that showed up with a few bags of onion rings from Burger King years ago. It was the only place open he said. We just threw them in the oven to reheat. That was his last Thanksgiving.

He was killed in Afghanistan a few months later.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171024 posts
Posted on 11/16/18 at 7:41 am to
Way to be depressing as shite, Walt.
Posted by hungryone
river parishes
Member since Sep 2010
11987 posts
Posted on 11/16/18 at 7:45 am to
RIP to your friend, glad we could help you remember him.
This holiday makes me think of my late uncle, who never showed up on time and always arrived with a bag of McKenzies pistolettes in hand, after the meal was over.
Posted by jmon
Mandeville, LA
Member since Oct 2010
8398 posts
Posted on 11/16/18 at 7:58 am to
quote:

andouille dip


QUe? Care to share?
Posted by List Eater
Htown
Member since Apr 2005
23559 posts
Posted on 11/16/18 at 8:13 am to
I get asked to bring my stuffed meatballs every year for Friendsgiving. Who cares as long as you bring something?
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81164 posts
Posted on 11/16/18 at 8:47 am to
quote:

Not all gatherings are meant to be potluck.


OP - As long as they don’t care that you bring something, I doubt they care if it varies a little from tradition.

But hungryone, thank you for saying this just in general. It’s awkward when you invite people over for a dinner and someone insists on making random things, especially in your kitchen. (Awkward for me because I’m pretty non confrontational) I have a small kitchen and my one friend means well, but he always shows up to already-planned dinners at my house with 30+ ingredients to make some super involved salad that uses the oven and 2 chopping boards and half the counter space. Makes a massive salad that probably cost $70 in ingredients and it barely gets touched.
This post was edited on 11/16/18 at 8:48 am
Posted by Trout Bandit
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Dec 2012
13180 posts
Posted on 11/16/18 at 8:50 am to
That casserole sounds pretty good to me. I would leave the turkey out of it but that's just me. I would add shrimp or crab or both just to have something different.
Posted by Sus-Scrofa
Member since Feb 2013
8100 posts
Posted on 11/16/18 at 8:55 am to
Bring what you want. We're ham people. We did a turkey and a ham for years. Then it went to doing some large turkey breasts just to have some turkey.

Finally we just quit the turkey. We still have a good thanksgiving.

Sides should take even less consideration.
This post was edited on 11/16/18 at 8:56 am
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
102937 posts
Posted on 11/16/18 at 9:15 am to
Many Thanksgiving are ruined because everyone wants to go their own way and bring some random shite that doesn't flow with the meal. You end up with turkey and ham and 14 different carb heavy sides that barely get eaten. bullshite
Posted by Rep520
Member since Mar 2018
10406 posts
Posted on 11/16/18 at 9:59 am to
It depends on your audience. Some people are cool with nontraditional stuff, others less so.

Just don't be an a-hole, roll up and demand they take the turkey out so you can heat your Totinos pizza rolls in the oven.
Posted by hungryone
river parishes
Member since Sep 2010
11987 posts
Posted on 11/16/18 at 10:21 am to
And don’t show up demanding oven space at all. If you can’t cook it at home and get it to the meal in ready to eat condition, then think of bringing something that doesn’t require reheating. It’s not really helpful to show up and then need attention/kitchen space. Crock pots, warmers, insulated carriers, etc are wonderful things.

Hosting is a big task, so be a considerate guest and don’t impose on the host. Also, volunteer to do dishes/take out the trash/pick up the leftovers. Can’t tell you how many shared holiday gatherings I’ve attended where ppl swoop in, eat, then either disappear into televised sports or have to rush off to another branch of the family. Those of us left behind in the cleanup can and do talk smack about y’all, LOL.
Posted by little billy
Orange County, CA
Member since May 2015
8317 posts
Posted on 11/16/18 at 10:26 am to
you're underrated Walt
Posted by GeauxTigers0107
South Louisiana
Member since Oct 2009
9704 posts
Posted on 11/16/18 at 10:28 am to
quote:

And don’t show up demanding oven space at all. If you can’t cook it at home and get it to the meal in ready to eat condition, then think of bringing something that doesn’t require reheating. It’s not really helpful to show up and then need attention/kitchen space. Crock pots, warmers, insulated carriers, etc are wonderful things.




As the yearly host, I can't upvote this enough.

Posted by Saskwatch
Member since Feb 2016
16527 posts
Posted on 11/16/18 at 10:45 am to
quote:

Would that be weird to show up to a thanksgiving dinner with something like that, even if it is squash & turkey?


Most will probably pass on it. If you want to bring a side for all to enjoy then the answer is wine. Holiday wine buzz is enjoyable.
Posted by hungryone
river parishes
Member since Sep 2010
11987 posts
Posted on 11/16/18 at 10:49 am to
Agree w wine, or with a nonalcoholic alternative like sparkling lemonade.
Whatever happened to guests showing up,with flowers, or a simple box of candy for the hosts to enjoy after the party? I like both of those options. Everyone I know has too much food at thanksgivIng anyway.
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
47332 posts
Posted on 11/16/18 at 10:57 am to
I would ask if there's a certain food or side the host would like to have brought and if it should arrive ready to serve. As others have mentioned, don't assume there's oven or stove top space available to cook your dish or hold it to stay warm.

Those of us who bring casseroles or other hot dishes all have the insulated carriers. We cook at home and bring it hot.

From your general list of foods they will have, perhaps another green vegetable or salad type dish would be appreciated.
Posted by Fight4LSU
Kenner
Member since Jul 2005
9751 posts
Posted on 11/16/18 at 11:14 am to
Only thing to do is have Burger King onion rings at every Thanksgiving to honor him.
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