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Parents assemble: kids age & bed time

Posted on 8/26/21 at 8:50 pm
Posted by BoogaBear
Member since Jul 2013
6958 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 8:50 pm
Wife and I are not in agreement here.

We have 2 girls 7, 5
One boy 1

She is adamant about getting them in bed by 7:30 minimum every night. Weekend rolls around and life happens, softball, dinner, etc. And at 8:00 they are tired and bratty.

I think we need to bump the bed time up for at very minimum the 7 year old, and probably the 5 year old too.

What say you?
Posted by joshnorris14
Florida
Member since Jan 2009
46671 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 8:51 pm to
How do you feel about spending essentially no time with your children during the week?
Posted by LSUJML
Central
Member since May 2008
51893 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 8:52 pm to
Are you saying you think the kids should be in bed by 7 every night, including weekends?

Disclaimer: I don’t have kids
Posted by Rossberg02
Member since Jun 2016
2591 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 8:52 pm to
When are they waking up? Do they wake up at the same time regardless of bedtime?
Posted by LSU-MNCBABY
Knightsgate
Member since Jan 2004
25148 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 8:53 pm to
6 and 3, 8:00 pm during the week and we try on the weekends unless there’s something going on.

6 year old is always tired, goes 100 mph all the time, have to wake him up during the week, gets up earlier on the weekends, never naps

3 yo will At least randomly pass out in the car or while watching tv still.

Earlier bed times seem impossible, 8 is hard a lot of nights
Posted by Maytheporkbewithyou
Member since Aug 2016
13856 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 8:53 pm to
On school nights:

4 year old goes to bed around 8:30

12 year old goes to bed at 9:30

We let them stay up later on Friday and Saturday.
Posted by CoachChappy
Member since May 2013
34071 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 8:53 pm to
8 weeknight. Whenever on the weekend.
7year old kid
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
42862 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 8:53 pm to
Shoot for 8:00 on school nights but usually 8:30.

Around 9:00-9:30 on weekends. Mine are around the same age but no baby.
Posted by Oilfieldbiology
Member since Nov 2016
41242 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 8:54 pm to
I thought my family was early in that we get in bed at 8 on school nights.

Weekends…
Posted by AUbagman
LA
Member since Jun 2014
11151 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 8:54 pm to
My 2 year old daughter likes 730, my 4 year old son likes 830. Just let them naturally find it after trying to force it on them, makes for a much more peaceful bedtime.
This post was edited on 8/26/21 at 8:55 pm
Posted by Cajunhawk81
Member since Jan 2021
2511 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 8:54 pm to
7 & 10.

7 year old son likes to cockblock so he’s melatonin’ed earlier. 10 year old Daughter does her own thing and is usually out before 9.
Posted by Huey Lewis
BR
Member since Oct 2013
5052 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 8:55 pm to
8 and 6
In bed around 8 or 8:30 during the week and they're typically sleeping before 9. On Friday/Saturday I don't care when they go to bed but they generally get tired and want to go to bed by 9 or 10 at the latest.
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
53025 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 8:56 pm to
7:30 is pretty early imo. Mine was always 8-8:30 when she was little. Hell I didn't get home from work until 6 most days.

Now she's a teenager and stays up later than me. I don't care if she stays up until 3am. Her arse is getting up at 6:30.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
60602 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 8:57 pm to
quote:

7 year old son likes to cockblock so he’s melatonin’ed earlier.
what? Jesus, my kids are out before they get flat on the bed.

9 at 9
12 at 930
Posted by dallastiger55
Jennings, LA
Member since Jan 2010
33053 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 8:57 pm to
Kids are 12 and 9

9:30 on school nights and DGAF on weekends. I knew I was old when I start going to bed before them on weekends
Posted by Tiger1242
Member since Jul 2011
33055 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 8:58 pm to
7:30 is our bedtime for a 3 yr old.

You saying bump up as in earlier?
Posted by Tigers13
New Orleans
Member since Feb 2005
1795 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 8:58 pm to
We shoot for 830 for 4, 6, and 8 year old. Wake up at 630. The earliest we ever put them down was 8 and our kids do well with it but I do think it depends on the kid. Ours will stay up til ~11 on the weekends if we let them. They’re supposed to get 10-12 hrs/day, including naps.
Posted by LSUGrrrl
Frisco, TX
Member since Jul 2007
44873 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 8:58 pm to
8:00 pm is about as early as I would go. There has to be some time as a family together after work and dinner. We started the bath and book process at 7:30.
Posted by RandySavage
9 Time Natty Winner
Member since May 2012
34741 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 8:58 pm to
9, 7, and 2

Try to get them in bed by 8:30, usually closer to 9, sometimes after. Don't even know how 7:30 would be possible most nights if you have them doing any sort of activities.
Posted by Rex Feral
Member since Jan 2014
15884 posts
Posted on 8/26/21 at 8:59 pm to
8, 10, 14, 16
The 16 goes to bed when wants to which is usually 10. The 14, 10, and 8 year old go to bed around 9 on weekdays unless practice runs over and around 10 on weekends.
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