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Dating question for the ladies?

Posted on 9/14/20 at 9:53 pm
Posted by Cycledude
Member since Jul 2018
1724 posts
Posted on 9/14/20 at 9:53 pm
If a guy ask you out, and you turn him down, do you like it when he continues to pursue you? I read where an athlete married his wife after refusing to take no for an answer when he was trying to go out with her.
Posted by NotoriousFSU
Atlanta, GA
Member since Oct 2008
10266 posts
Posted on 9/14/20 at 9:55 pm to
No always means yes.
Posted by The Truth 34
Chavez Ravine
Member since May 2010
41175 posts
Posted on 9/14/20 at 9:55 pm to
She’s not into you. Move on. It’ll be ok.
Posted by Tiguar
Montana
Member since Mar 2012
33131 posts
Posted on 9/14/20 at 9:55 pm to
Are you attractive?
Then yes

Are you ugly?
Then restraining order.
Posted by WestCoastAg
Member since Oct 2012
145262 posts
Posted on 9/14/20 at 9:55 pm to
Yes. They love it. If they didnt, why are there so many movies about it? Don't give up dude. Keep trying even if she keeps telling you no. Bitches get wet on determination. Its just her way of flirting
Posted by RICHIE APRILE
Essex County, NJ
Member since Aug 2020
791 posts
Posted on 9/14/20 at 9:57 pm to
Not a woman but I can answer this. It depends. If you act like you give a shite that she turned you down and seem needy, she will view it as a turn off

If you act like its no big deal and give no fricks that she rejected you and go out and pursue other women, she will wonder why you were able to get over it so quickly and start to wonder if there is something wrong with her and then perhaps she will try to prove herself to you and try to draw you back in

It all comes down to how invested you are in her. If she knows you are too invested, turn off. If she thinks you aren't invested at all in her, she may be open to giving you a second look.

Take it from me. I went on some dates with a girl a few years ago, she called it off, and I acted like a whiny bitch about it. I tried to win her back and all of that and it just pushed her further away.

I learned my lesson. I went on a couple dates with a girl a few months later, and she also called it off. I simply said "OK" and acted like it was no big deal and went back out there. Even though I was secretly disappointed, I didn't let it affect me outwardly. I didn't try to win her back, I didn't try to ask why, I didn't try to get answers from her. I just let it be. Guess who came crawling back a few days later?
Posted by Brosef Stalin
Member since Dec 2011
39298 posts
Posted on 9/14/20 at 9:57 pm to
quote:

I read where an athlete married his wife after refusing to take no for an answer when he was trying to go out with her.

Athletic, in shape millionaires can get away with that.
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10325 posts
Posted on 9/14/20 at 9:57 pm to
Restraining order?
Posted by Jimbeaux
Member since Sep 2003
20154 posts
Posted on 9/14/20 at 9:58 pm to
quote:


If a guy ask you out, and you turn him down, do you like it when he continues to pursue you? I read where an athlete married his wife after refusing to take no for an answer when he was trying to go out with her.


This is a long shot unless you’ve got serious game.

You’ve got to pursue with confidence, not desperation, and then maybe, MAYBE,,,,
Posted by fallguy_1978
Best States #50
Member since Feb 2018
48862 posts
Posted on 9/14/20 at 9:59 pm to
I wouldn't chase anyone. There's always someone else.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81255 posts
Posted on 9/14/20 at 10:03 pm to
She probably later found out he was a professional athlete
Posted by Boo Krewe
Member since Apr 2015
9810 posts
Posted on 9/14/20 at 10:06 pm to
never worked for me
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
20297 posts
Posted on 9/14/20 at 10:07 pm to
It’s her code way of saying call and text me 40 times a day
Posted by BeachDude022
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Posted on 9/14/20 at 10:09 pm to
I was expecting this to be a Boo Krewe thread
This post was edited on 9/14/20 at 10:10 pm
Posted by Patfic15
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2018
3275 posts
Posted on 9/14/20 at 10:10 pm to
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This post was edited on 9/24/20 at 6:12 pm
Posted by Slagathor
Makin' jokes about your teeny tiny
Member since Jul 2007
37907 posts
Posted on 9/14/20 at 10:12 pm to
Why would you want someone that rejected you? That gives off a super rapey vibe.
Posted by chRxis
None of your fricking business
Member since Feb 2008
23678 posts
Posted on 9/14/20 at 10:12 pm to
quote:

I read where an athlete married his wife after refusing to take no for an answer when he was trying to go out with her.

yeah, I'm sure it was a real hard "no" he was getting in the first place...
Posted by OWLFAN86
The OT has made me richer
Member since Jun 2004
176221 posts
Posted on 9/14/20 at 10:17 pm to
wheres Trillhog when you need him ?
Posted by Eightballjacket
Member since Jan 2016
7322 posts
Posted on 9/14/20 at 10:17 pm to
Women find it romantic when you ride your bike continually past their house.
Posted by LSUJML
BR
Member since May 2008
46364 posts
Posted on 9/14/20 at 10:28 pm to
If she’s the type of girl that wants you to chase her it just means she’s immature
Either way, walk away
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