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re: How do you go about brining up a Pre-Nup before marriage???

Posted on 1/23/19 at 1:35 am to
Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 1/23/19 at 1:35 am to
You determine that issue before you get engaged.
Posted by mattchewbocca
houma, la
Member since Jun 2008
5432 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 1:56 am to
If you’re not even sure how to bring it up maybe you should rethink getting married at all.
Posted by magildachunks
Member since Oct 2006
32531 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 2:50 am to
In the State of Louisiana, the spouse is not entitled to a thing gained before the marriage, only assests gained after.


Just saying.
Posted by castorinho
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Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 1/23/19 at 4:07 am to
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Generally, what I have always done is bring up pre-nup and not wanting kids usually in first couple weeks of a relationship.
Posted by Mizz-SEC
Inbred Huntin' In The SEC
Member since Jun 2013
19273 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 6:09 am to
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True story:

First assignment out of law school for my buddy was to go to a church on wedding day with a prenup. If the bride signed, my buddy made the phone call and the groom showed. If she didn’t sign, groom stayed at the hotel.

She signed.



Ain't love grand??
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
91176 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 7:06 am to
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preparing for failure is not romantic or confident


No but it’s smart
Posted by deltaland
Member since Mar 2011
91176 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 7:07 am to
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married forever



quote:

pure happiness


Does not compute
Posted by bird35
Georgia
Member since Sep 2012
12349 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 7:55 am to
I worked with a young women who had come from a modest background.

She was engaged to a wealthy young man whose family owned a profitable business.

I will add the young women was an attractive red head with pretty green eyes and a cute, tight body going about 5'6 120.

About 6 weeks before the wedding the pre-nup was brought up. The man saying he did not want one but his parents were just trying to protect the business.

The girl said no.

The man's parents thought they could convince her to sign by buying the couple a nice house as a wedding present.

The girl asked if the house was to be both of theirs or just his house that she got to live in at the discretion of her new husband.

The wedding was called of 2 weeks before the day and at the time both parties thought the other would give in before the wedding.

The wedding never happened.

The girl then went through the most amazing transformation I have ever seen.

She gained 140 pounds and was over 250 pounds.

You could almost watch this women get fatter each week.

Most of the guys at work said the man really dodged a bullet.

My theory was she knew she could only maintain her thin body for so long and there was a fat girl in there ready to eat which is why she was so adamant there would be no pre-nup.
Posted by Macavity92
Member since Dec 2004
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Posted on 1/23/19 at 8:39 am to
Preferably before the proposal but when marriage is a serious consideration have a full financial discussion --- income, assets, accounts, debts, retirement, everything --- then bring up the issue of the prenup if you think it is needed or wise. Make it a part of a family financial strategy.
Posted by Jon Ham
Member since Jun 2011
28661 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 8:42 am to
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First assignment out of law school for my buddy was to go to a church on wedding day with a prenup. If the bride signed, my buddy made the phone call and the groom showed. If she didn’t sign, groom stayed at the hotel.

She signed.


Good luck finding a judge to enforce it when it was signed under those circumstances. Judge won’t endorce it and probably think less of the dude for pulling that. Brilliant legal strategy.
Posted by HDAU
Member since Nov 2014
1582 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 9:38 am to
I think it depends on how far along you are in the relationship. If early, start talking about it now. If it late in the process and includes family money/interests you are protecting, have your parents or their advisors bring it up with both of you. If it is new money, have your attorney/financial advisor do it.
Posted by 777Tiger
Member since Mar 2011
73856 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 9:47 am to
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Most of the guys at work said the man really dodged a bullet.

and they was right!
Posted by Tegre
Baton Rouge, La.
Member since Jan 2008
1128 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 9:57 am to
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Pre nups aren't honored by courts anymore anyway. True story.

BS.Good as gold in Louisiana if done properly.
Posted by Tegre
Baton Rouge, La.
Member since Jan 2008
1128 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 10:02 am to
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How do you go about brining up a Pre-Nup before marriage???
We are talking about pre-nups that negate the community property regime. Assets owned by a spouse before marriage remain the separate property of that spouse. You are talking about the reservation of fruits (income, interest, etc.) from separate property as separate property even though a community property regime exists. 2 different things. Trust me.




Kim you are correct and get an "A" on the exam.Obviously you passed the Bar Exam
Posted by keakar
Member since Jan 2017
30152 posts
Posted on 1/23/19 at 11:06 am to
first you have to grow up and not be a pussy
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