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re: Reasons women lose respect for their husbands (by a woman)

Posted on 8/31/18 at 8:59 am to
Posted by teke184
Zachary, LA
Member since Jan 2007
96902 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 8:59 am to
This works if each side actually knows what the other speaks and they are honest about it.

It sucks when the partner tries to claim they speak 2-3 different love languages and aren’t happy when the wrong one is spoken at the wrong time, especially since a few of them are contradictory.
Posted by ksayetiger
Centenary Gents
Member since Jul 2007
68503 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 9:01 am to
quote:

.and you aren't being a little affectionate to her....she is gonna interpret this in her head as her emotional needs aren't being met.



Then the dumb bitch needs to open her mouth and tell her man what she needs. Men are simple, straight forward creatures. We aint mind readers.
Posted by TigerFanInSouthland
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
28065 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 9:01 am to
You could both be adults and just let it be known what you want from the other?

But I do know what book you’re talking about, my SO read it and what she said to me about her language was something that I already knew about her and what she wanted out of me just from taking the time to make her happy.
This post was edited on 8/31/18 at 9:06 am
Posted by wallowinit
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2006
15029 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 9:03 am to
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We start losing respect when you stop meeting our emotional needs.


You want respect, we want emotional support.

That's what your girlfriends are for.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 9:03 am to
quote:

5 Love Languages in your life


I’ve read that book and taken those tests. It’s silly stuff that sounds nice. Is not unlike the horoscope-like DISC tests that companies sometimes administer to employees.

“He’s not meeting my emotional needs” is a meaningless phrase. Emotional needs change. Your “love language” changes as your moods change and as situations change.

There are general principles that all successful couples adhere to. You don’t need to attempt to track someone’s ever-evolving love language

“My love language is receiving gifts!”

Yeah, well then you have a warped idea of what love is and your expectations of gifts is destructive because you’ll never truly appreciate them as they’re now obligatory.
This post was edited on 8/31/18 at 9:06 am
Posted by The Pirate King
Pangu
Member since May 2014
58062 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 9:04 am to
I stopped reading after number 1. I guess I finished too early
Posted by SDVTiger
Cabo San Lucas
Member since Nov 2011
75099 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 9:04 am to
Yeah you outed yourself as someone who never gets chicks
Posted by LSUFanHouston
NOLA
Member since Jul 2009
37311 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 9:08 am to
I don't want a woman who cares about what vehicle a man drives. Those women are way too vain for me. Who gives a crap what kind of car a guy has, as long as it works.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32738 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 9:10 am to
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I’ve read that book and taken those tests. It’s silly stuff that sounds nice. Is not unlike the horoscope-like DISC tests that companies sometimes administer to employees.

Meh, it more or less just adds words to the things a good husband should know or learn on their own.

My wife would rather I tend to the dogs and dishes than rub her back in the evening.

My wife would rather I compliment her dress than bring home flowers

That's not to say you never do the other things, just prioritize the things she really appreciates. And it goes both ways. Not just man -> wife.
This post was edited on 8/31/18 at 9:11 am
Posted by Cromulent
Down the Bayou
Member since Oct 2016
2829 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 9:10 am to
“If” ?!?!?
That’s a guaranty my man.
Posted by WallsAllAroundMe
Member since Jan 2016
1064 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 9:10 am to
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This post was edited on 4/30/19 at 2:06 pm
Posted by jmcwhrter
Member since Nov 2012
6612 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 9:13 am to
I enjoy these stories where a wife who only fricks her husband once a month complains that he only lasts 3 minutes
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
84535 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 9:14 am to
quote:

but guys like LNCHBOX still think there's no reason for a man to last more than 3 minutes in bed. The message he pushes is destructive. His minivan message is also unhealthy.


I'd say you're better than this, but you're not. You've completely misrepresented what I said, but that's cool.

If you'll recall from that thread, your buddy goldennugget said he jackhammers girls for 45 minutes. Anyone that knows any actual women knows they do not want or enjoy that. And what I actually said was that if you needed longer than 3-7 minutes to satisfy a woman with at least one orgasm, then your technique needs work. But hey, your version of what I said is fun too.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32738 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 9:15 am to
And it begins... Again
Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
25455 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 9:15 am to
quote:

I'd say you're better than this, but you're not. You've completely misrepresented what I said, but that's cool.

If you'll recall from that thread, your buddy goldennugget said he jackhammers girls for 45 minutes. Anyone that knows any actual women knows they do not want or enjoy that. And what I actually said was that if you needed longer than 3-7 minutes to satisfy a woman with at least one orgasm, then your technique needs work. But hey, your version of what I said is fun too.


BUTT HURT NATION
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
84535 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 9:16 am to
It's not beginning again. No woman wants to be jackhammered for 45 minutes. I don't need a 30 page thread to know that
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
84535 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 9:17 am to
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Mingo Was His NameO


Have you ever been with a girl or do you just jack it thinking about Pecker? You post like an overcompensating virgin.
Posted by Mootsman
Charlotte, NC
Member since Oct 2012
6025 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 9:17 am to
quote:

We start losing respect when you stop meeting our emotional needs.


Shut the hell up and get back in the kitchen.
Posted by DisplacedBuckeye
Member since Dec 2013
73520 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 9:18 am to
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LSUFanHouston:

Maybe you could tackle them or something or chase them off.


Posted by Mingo Was His NameO
Brooklyn
Member since Mar 2016
25455 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 9:19 am to
quote:

Have you ever been with a girl


Only your wife, sport
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