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re: Has Anyone Here Had Their Heart Truly Broken Before?
Posted on 5/23/18 at 8:49 pm to 4thQuarterAndButch
Posted on 5/23/18 at 8:49 pm to 4thQuarterAndButch
Broke up with you on a Monday?
Interesting...
Interesting...
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Posted on 5/23/18 at 8:49 pm to whit
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Have you displayed any behavior that triggers these serious trust issues?
Yes. It didn't escalate to cheating and it didn't happen when times were good. I didn't say I was blameless.
Posted on 5/23/18 at 8:50 pm to 4thQuarterAndButch
Better now than after 3 kids.
This too will pass.
She’s not the one.
Hang in there.
This too will pass.
She’s not the one.
Hang in there.
Posted on 5/23/18 at 8:51 pm to 4thQuarterAndButch
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This girl is a knockout. Most beautiful girl I've dated. Won a couple beauty pageants. I'm not gonna do better than this, looks-wise.
One day you're going to realize you really didn't love her, you simply loved the idea of her.
Posted on 5/23/18 at 8:52 pm to damnedoldtigah
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state all of that to tell you the following:
A.) Be thankful you did not have too much invested in the relationship.
B.) Women seem to be able to break off a relationship and walk away from it easier than men. Oddly, they can either wake up one morning and end it or they can take some time (stealing some of your money) to plan their exit.
C.) Flip side, a female has some options ..... for a while. They have the pussy and can have sex whenever and wherever they want. However, there will come a time that the warranty expires, she hits the wall and finds herself with few if any wanting her anymore. Meanwhile, if we're smart, we accumulate power and money .... and with that new pussy will show up.
D.) Everyone has their secrets. The person you are sharing a bed with lets you know only what they want you to know.
E.) It seems that when females flip the switch, it's flipped for good.
F.) Most females are moody and crazy. The only issue is the degree,
G.) There is more pussy out there. You need to take a little time to settle down and then go hunting. Only gun you'll need is the one between your legs.
F.) Some relationships have less of a shelf life than others. Be glad it happened now and not after you two became legally entwined with a couple of rug rats.
G.) If you want the relationship to work and she doesn't, then no matter what you do, it won't work.
H.) She may have panicked and was scared she was hitting the gas pedal too hard, or she may have been attracted to someone else. Either way, she is indecisive and you don't want that. Either of these speak more about her than you.
I.) In time, there will be happiness again, and you will find it. Just don't try to force a square peg into a round hole on a relationship. Keep in mind, that your happiness and success are your best revenge.
J.) If she tries to come back, whatever the hell you do, DON'T LET HER BACK INTO YOUR LIFE! Remember the proverb that "once the toilet paper is soiled it is almost impossible to clean."
K.) Spend more time with your friends. When you get into another relationship, keep those friends no matter what. You never know when one of them will need you to have their back or you needing them to have yours.
L.) No matter how bad things are right now, things will eventually be ok.
Some good stuff here. Upvote.
Posted on 5/23/18 at 8:53 pm to 4thQuarterAndButch
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This girl is a knockout. Most beautiful girl I've dated. Won a couple beauty pageants. I'm not gonna do better than this, looks-wise
Prettiest one I ever dated and landed in bed was in her md 40's and had a body that could make girls in their mid-20s hang their heads in shame. I think there was even a point that my son was tempted to ask if I would like to trade. LOL
In addition to her beauty, she was intelligent.
However, there so many landmines around her it wasn't funny and you never knew when you were going to step on one.
She's now in her 50's and has hit the wall. Most males are on to her and want nothing to do with her.
Posted on 5/23/18 at 8:53 pm to 4thQuarterAndButch
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Yes. It didn't escalate to cheating and it didn't happen when times were good. I didn't say I was blameless.
I'm warning you, I'm not saying she cheated on you, but to quote the great wise Jeff Foxworthy:
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If a woman says to you "I think we should start seeing other people," trust me, she has already cut a pony from the herd, and if she ain't ridin' him yet, she has pulled the saddle out of the barn.
This post was edited on 5/23/18 at 8:55 pm
Posted on 5/23/18 at 8:55 pm to 4thQuarterAndButch
When I was around 17 years old. My first real girlfriend told me she wanted to just be friends so she could try and persue a relationship with my best friend. It hurt like hell and I literally spent the whole night crying and trying to write her a poem. What hurt the worst is I knew my friend had zero interest in her. Once she realized that, we got back together, but I felt played by her.
About a year later she went off to some horse riding camp and she came back at the end of the summer saying one of her friends brother was showing her attention. At this point I had to let her go.
Looking back on it 20 years later, I thank God everyday that it didn’t work out. She’s a lesbian now and has that full lesbian butch look going on, and I’m happily married with two kids.
About a year later she went off to some horse riding camp and she came back at the end of the summer saying one of her friends brother was showing her attention. At this point I had to let her go.
Looking back on it 20 years later, I thank God everyday that it didn’t work out. She’s a lesbian now and has that full lesbian butch look going on, and I’m happily married with two kids.
Posted on 5/23/18 at 8:56 pm to 4thQuarterAndButch
Too may times 
Posted on 5/23/18 at 9:00 pm to luke18
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Buy a dog
Dog's don't bitch.
They're loyal, which is more than what I can say for some females who impress me as being lower than whale shite.
They don't care what you order for supper. All food is good food to them.
Again, dogs don't bitch.
Posted on 5/23/18 at 9:02 pm to Big Jim Slade
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They’re like parking spots. There’s another one out there, maybe even a better one. Keep circling the lot.
Like this one.
Posted on 5/23/18 at 9:08 pm to 4thQuarterAndButch
Having to put my dog down for cancer sucked.
Posted on 5/23/18 at 9:08 pm to 4thQuarterAndButch
I was in this exact situation a little over a year ago. Felt like the world would end. Sleepless nights wondering what she was doing. We were together 3 years and marriage was the next step.
Literally one day she woke up and said she was done. No warning or anything. Looking back on it now it was the best thing that could have happened because I would have made myself miserable trying to please her the rest of my life
Like many others have said the only thing that heals this is time. Time and putting yourself out there and putting your mind and thoughts toward new and exciting things. Best of luck to you!
Literally one day she woke up and said she was done. No warning or anything. Looking back on it now it was the best thing that could have happened because I would have made myself miserable trying to please her the rest of my life
Like many others have said the only thing that heals this is time. Time and putting yourself out there and putting your mind and thoughts toward new and exciting things. Best of luck to you!
Posted on 5/23/18 at 9:10 pm to 4thQuarterAndButch
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Won a couple beauty pageants.
Probably will always be looking to upgrade throughout her life.
Posted on 5/23/18 at 9:10 pm to 4thQuarterAndButch
Also, think of this...... twenty years from now you might run into her ...... she will gain about five pounds a year until she looks like her fricking mother; she will have had two or three kids, tits hanging around her waist, big arse, thinning hair, have gone through two or three divorces, and look like she's been through hell as she's fricked 2/3's of the white pages in the phone book. You see that and you will fall to your knees and thank the Almighty that you didn't get stuck with her.
P.S. Forgot to mention .. frequently broke financially.
P.S. Forgot to mention .. frequently broke financially.
This post was edited on 5/23/18 at 9:18 pm
Posted on 5/23/18 at 9:11 pm to 4thQuarterAndButch
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This girl is a knockout. Most beautiful girl I've dated
This usually makes them feel as if you have to try harder than them. It also gives them a pass on growing up and becoming adults. They succeed in life on their looks until the looks fade. Then they are left as a shell of a person.
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I won't post pictures of her because I respect her.
She doesn't respect, or care about you. She already had the bigger and better deal lined up. Women do not break up without that next option lined up.
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Had her best friend text me
Wait about a month, then text the friend and tell her one of the worst aspects of the breakup is that you miss seeing her. (The friend) This is if she doesn't contact you. Many times, the friends see good qualities in you that the girlfriend misses, or takes for granted. You may end up banging the friend(s).
Someone better will come along. Take a little time to get it together, then open your eyes. In the meantime, there is nothing wrong with banging some enthusiastic 7's.
Posted on 5/23/18 at 9:14 pm to TheBigHurt
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Having to put my dog down for cancer sucked.
Been there, done that. Still hurts 25 years later. Last dog died a couple of months ago at home. Just old age.
Taking a little time to grieve, clean up the house, and bring in a new puppy for the Christmas holidays.
At my age, it will probably be my last dog. Want to enjoy it.
Posted on 5/23/18 at 9:14 pm to CelticDog
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Breathe deeply.
Put your attention on other things.
Forgive yourself.
Forgive her.
Write down her issues.
Consider if any of it is about you. Be vulnerable and take feedback.
You will get plenty of chAnces because you will repeating until you grow beyond your current vibration.
Take a course.
Love more.
You should write for Huffington Post
Posted on 5/23/18 at 9:15 pm to little billy
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Probably will always be looking to upgrade throughout her life.
To be honest “women who win a couple of beauty pageants” means one of two things:
A) The parents are trashy psychopaths.
B) She’s a total narcissist.
Either way you dodged a bullet. Stop looking for chicks that compete in beauty pageants, especially in your late 20s for God’s sake. Look for ones who know how to cook, have fun, or are creative instead of simply relying on their looks.
To quote another Blue Collar Comedy Member Ron White:
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If I could offer one piece of advice to the planet, it would be this: Don't marry for looks alone, and I'll tell you why. In a few years, when Barbara's boobs start sagging, she can get plastic surgery, have them lifted, move the nipple wherever. You can actually go to a titty bar, pick out a set of titties and say, "I want those titties on that woman." If her belly gets too big, she can get a tummy tuck and have a belly like a cheerleader. If her vision goes bad, you can have LASIK surgery and have 20/20 vision. If her hearing goes bad, they can install a device in her ear that will give you hearing as clear as it was the day you were born. But let me tell you something, folks: You can't fix stupid. There's not a pill you can take; there's not a class you can go to. Stupid is forever.
This post was edited on 5/23/18 at 9:20 pm
Posted on 5/23/18 at 9:15 pm to 4thQuarterAndButch
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This girl is a knockout. Most beautiful girl I've dated. Won a couple beauty pageants. I'm not gonna do better than this, looks-wise.
Pageant girls are usually high maintenance social climbers. Count your blessings
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