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Why don't people dress up any more for occassions, like weddings, church, grads, etc?

Posted on 11/21/17 at 2:18 pm
Posted by The Mick
Member since Oct 2010
44885 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 2:18 pm
Society has gotten more and more casual each year. Funerals and weddings used to be a suit/tie but now half the men don't even wear a jacket. Graduations and things like that were dress-up time but not anymore.


Why do you think this trend is occurring?
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
176007 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 2:19 pm to
global warming, its hotter
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19120 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 2:19 pm to
:gaaaaayyyygif:
Posted by Ed Osteen
Member since Oct 2007
58842 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 2:20 pm to
Isn’t a problem in my circles, I didn’t wear a tie with my jacket for a rehearsal dinner last weekend and felt under dressed. Forgot the tie at home so just had to own it.

Maybe find some classier friends?
Posted by Loungefly85
Lafayette
Member since Jul 2016
7930 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 2:22 pm to
I'll always wear a tie for those occasions, but if it's hot I'm not wearing a jacket.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32982 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 2:23 pm to
People are trashy and graduation isn't that big of an accomplishment these days.
Posted by gamatt53
Member since Nov 2010
4934 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 2:25 pm to
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George, LA
Member since Aug 2004
80481 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 2:26 pm to
1. People prefer comfort.
2. Churches are probably happy to see butts in the seats.
Posted by Packer
IE, California
Member since May 2017
8686 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 2:27 pm to
quote:

Funerals and weddings


Suit for sure, unless it's a beach wedding.

quote:

Graduations


Not wearing a suit to somebody's HS graduation, it isn't an accomplishment. College graduation I could see a shirt and tie at minimum.
Posted by Rossberg02
Member since Jun 2016
2591 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 2:27 pm to
Probably the same reason guys aren’t skipping around in this shite...

Posted by Saskwatch
Member since Feb 2016
17984 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 2:28 pm to
People used to wear 3 piece wool suits with hats and pocket watches every day as well.


j/k aside I see no reason for people not to have suit & tie at these events. Being dressed properly does not take a ton of money these days.
Posted by notiger1997
Metairie
Member since May 2009
61275 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 2:28 pm to
I do
Posted by Crowknowsbest
Member since May 2012
26812 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 2:28 pm to
A lot of offices have gotten more casual, but I haven't noticed this in the other settings you mentioned.
Posted by RedPop4
Santiago de Compostela
Member since Jan 2005
15109 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 2:28 pm to
Forgive me, if you will, for injecting socio-political ideas into this, but American cultural "elites" see: TV and movies, and whoever else, have been pushing us toward less formal ideals of address, discourse, dress, etc. for 70+ years.

What we have today is the goal of "egalitarianism" where "arbitrary" mores, norms, etiquette, etc. are disavowed. They're derided as old-fashioned, stupid, "who are you to tell me how to __________________?" (insert dress, speak, whatever you like in the blank.) And the justification of "well, it's polite, or appropriate" is often met with a shurg and "so, the frick, what?"

How many threads on here do we see where at least more than one poster will post " why do you care how another grown man dresses?"

I'm guilty of it too, often enough, wearing dress or even khaki pants with a dress shirt, only, to Church on Sunday instead of at least a tie and coat if not a suit.
Posted by BrohemAlem11
Ratchet City, LA
Member since Oct 2014
13283 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 2:28 pm to
In my experience it's a country people thing. Since moving to North Louisiana and meeting much more rural groups of people, I've noticed they don't think anything of going to weddings in a short-sleeve button down and sometimes even jeans....I would be uncomfortable as hell doing that.
This post was edited on 11/21/17 at 2:29 pm
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
19974 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 2:31 pm to
quote:

Why do you think this trend is occurring?


Same reason kids are shits in school. Parenting.
Posted by deeprig9
Unincorporated Ozora
Member since Sep 2012
73048 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 2:31 pm to
It’s all the LSD people starting doing in the 60’s. Cultural downfall of most sorts in this country can be traced back to this period.
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
129236 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 2:35 pm to
Not wearing a suit and tie to an evening indoor wedding is trashy AF
Posted by geaux4a
Nola
Member since Sep 2013
293 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 2:37 pm to
Tie without a jacket looks like shite
Posted by Jor Jor The Dinosaur
Chicago, IL
Member since Nov 2014
7210 posts
Posted on 11/21/17 at 2:47 pm to
Who doesn't wear a suit to a wedding? The jacket is supposed to come off toward the end of the reception, not before the ceremony.
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