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re: Updated** 11/29 8:38am. Cheating and forgiveness

Posted on 11/22/17 at 12:13 pm to
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
Lurking the Tin Foil Hat Board
Member since Jul 2009
47746 posts
Posted on 11/22/17 at 12:13 pm to
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Because sometimes as a father you do what is best for your children and not just yourself.


You know what's worse for kids than having divorced parents?

Having two parents that are stuck in shitty marriage.
Posted by HollyWoodCole
CA
Member since Nov 2017
1255 posts
Posted on 11/22/17 at 12:20 pm to
I think your 'nephew' has ideals that involve his own suffer way more than most people could or would stomach.

Kudos to him. He probably can take a bullet or three.

And pussy on a pedestal. She must have a wizard sleeve down there.
Posted by AUTiger45
The Ham
Member since Oct 2013
4043 posts
Posted on 11/22/17 at 12:36 pm to
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. I would have filed the divorce papers within a week.

There is no forgiveness for abandoning your kids.


Amen! frick that
Posted by knowingabyss
Vermont
Member since Aug 2016
2700 posts
Posted on 11/22/17 at 2:09 pm to
As someone who cheated and ruined one of the best things I ever had, it's seriously one of the shittiest things to do to someone. Everyday now I live with regret because I fricked up and destroyed something with a girl who was way too good for me to begin with just because of me being a selfish prick. I wish your nephew good luck and hope they turn it around.
Posted by NoSaint
Member since Jun 2011
11316 posts
Posted on 11/22/17 at 2:15 pm to
truly the odds are she learned a lot about how to do this better if she gets the itch again.

Did he learn how to either prevent that or protect himself in case of it?

If not, going and picking her up is the fast track to losing money, kids, house, and so on. He needs a plan on how to figure out what happened, and a path that involves earning back a hell of a lot of trust, faith, and yea, an agreement to protect him financially if he insists on giving a second chance
Posted by ellishughtiger
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Member since Jul 2004
21135 posts
Posted on 11/22/17 at 3:05 pm to
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Need pics to make a decision


They met on FB, I would imagine she looked something like Chaz Bono
Posted by Roadkill Gumbo
Covington
Member since Sep 2017
318 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 9:13 am to
Updated my original post.
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
166675 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 9:17 am to
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Roadkill Gumbo


its honorable that he at least attempted to see if they can fix their marriage with most likely his kids' interest in mind. that being said, its also honorable to figure out that its broke very quickly and move on.
Posted by 50_Tiger
Dallas TX
Member since Jan 2016
40253 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 9:19 am to
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I spent the better part of last night on the phone with my BIL who filled me in on what's going on with his son. It seems that my nephew setup marriage counseling sessions in an attempt to save his marriage and after a couple of sessions last week, the two of them called it quits. His wife originally wanted to take one child with her and leave him with the other one, but my nephew disagreed, he didn't want to split them up and if worst comes worst, he'll sue to get custody of both. As it stands right now, she took the kids with her back to Mississippi where her parents live. My nephew contacted an attorney in the Covington area and plans to file for a divorce. What a fricking mess!

Very little was mentioned about what happened in the sessions with the marriage counselor, but I'm willing to bet that she's not quite over Craig in TN. The biggest mistake my nephew made was taking her arse back, he should've have hung up on the bitch and filed for a divorce.



OT Lawyers, is this legal?
Posted by Dizz
Member since May 2008
14799 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 9:20 am to
Tell him to hurry and file his own paperwork in LA to avoid having to go to Mississippi.
Posted by PearlJam
NotBeardEaves
Member since Aug 2014
13908 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 9:30 am to
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As it stands right now, she took the kids with her back to Mississippi where her parents live. My nephew contacted an attorney in the Covington area and plans to file for a divorce.
He doesn't need to waste time getting an attorney. He should probably also get those kids back in the family home asap.
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
30637 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 9:35 am to
Nephew should call the police and report his children kidnapped. Should result in a swift end to any custody case. The wife would sound unstable running off to Tenn without her kids, then taking the kids without permission of the father and running off again. Would be a quick win for the nephew
Posted by Old Sarge
Dean of Admissions, LSU
Member since Jan 2012
55486 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 9:35 am to
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For me, it all boils down to whether or not she'll do it again.



This
Posted by 50_Tiger
Dallas TX
Member since Jan 2016
40253 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 9:37 am to
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Nephew should call the police and report his children kidnapped. Should result in a swift end to any custody case. The wife would sound unstable running off to Tenn without her kids, then taking the kids without permission of the father and running off again. Would be a quick win for the nephew


This is exactly what I was thinking!
Posted by PearlJam
NotBeardEaves
Member since Aug 2014
13908 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 9:42 am to
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Nephew should call the police and report his children kidnapped. Should result in a swift end to any custody case.
Unless there is already a custody order in place, a parent leaving town with their own children isn't kidnapping.

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then taking the kids without permission of the father and running off again.
It didn't sound like she took the kids without permission, but if so (or really even if not) he likely needs to file quickly and get a custody order in place. Hope he already has his attorney and is moving forward.

Posted by Giantkiller
the internet.
Member since Sep 2007
20501 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 9:43 am to
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Nephew should call the police and report his children kidnapped. Should result in a swift end to any custody case. The wife would sound unstable running off to Tenn without her kids, then taking the kids without permission of the father and running off again. Would be a quick win for the nephew


I agree. Honestly, what she did WAS kidnapping. Report it first and on the way to pick the kids up, be on the phone with a divorce attorney who specializes in father's rights.
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
30637 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 9:47 am to
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didn't sound like she took the kids without permission,

Pretty sure she had his permission. But unless she had it in writing, it’s her word against his, and she already abandoned the children once. He wins that bc she already has been proven to be unstable

OP, the play is to report the children kidnapped by the wife, who is unstable
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
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Member since Apr 2013
62514 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 9:47 am to
This woman sounds like one of the worst people ever.
Posted by PearlJam
NotBeardEaves
Member since Aug 2014
13908 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 9:48 am to
It's not kidnapping. She is a custodial parent until he gets a court order saying otherwise.

He's going to look unstable if he starts making false police reports.
This post was edited on 11/29/17 at 9:49 am
Posted by Puck82
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2009
23649 posts
Posted on 11/29/17 at 10:19 am to
Biggest mistake is letting her take those kids away.
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