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re: Cheating is pretty much the new norm

Posted on 9/6/17 at 10:58 pm to
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
261735 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 10:58 pm to
quote:

quote:
emotional affairs,


What the frick is this?


It don't exist. It's called friendship
Posted by cubsfinger
On The Road
Member since Mar 2017
1560 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 11:07 pm to
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Don't start, folks. Don't take the first step down that path.



It's like a drug.


Unfortunately I do know about this. Was always the guy who said he would never cheat and never had interest in it. I let the devil influence my mind and heart and i hurt and destroyed the person who believed in me the most. It truly was just like a drug and like another poster stated " the chase" all over again. I'm ashamed of it and would advise to not put yourself in the position to cheat of you have a decent wife.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
Member since May 2012
55866 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 11:12 pm to
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I don't know. I guess I just don't like to fight.

ok, Walt
Posted by vengeanceofrain
depends
Member since Jun 2013
12465 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 11:17 pm to
i don't consider fricking another woman cheating.


the problem is social media. i'm not saying men don't cheat but women do the vast majority of cheating and it's becuase there is absotuly no downside to them doing so.


They can cheat on you and still take half your shite in a divorce


NO matter what they do as long as they are frickable there will be a white knight army to pick them up, brush them off and make them feel better and caste blame elsewhere.


if a person never has to learn or take responsibility for their actions, what incentive do they have to not do whatever it is they impulsively want to do


in short, cheating is the norm because of thirsty arse enabling men.
This post was edited on 9/6/17 at 11:25 pm
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
66503 posts
Posted on 9/7/17 at 12:23 am to
I know she loves me. My wife is a good person.
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
66503 posts
Posted on 9/7/17 at 12:33 am to
Posted by Masterag
'Round Dallas
Member since Sep 2014
18826 posts
Posted on 9/7/17 at 12:34 am to
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what makes a person cheat?


Biology
Posted by LSUgirl4
Member since Sep 2009
39501 posts
Posted on 9/7/17 at 12:38 am to
this is the most depressing thread.
Posted by cubsfinger
On The Road
Member since Mar 2017
1560 posts
Posted on 9/7/17 at 12:39 am to
Man 10 years ago I would be asking if you would line me up to nail the wife since you're down for it.
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
66503 posts
Posted on 9/7/17 at 1:33 am to
I'm not married.
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
66503 posts
Posted on 9/7/17 at 1:33 am to
Yeah no shite. Apparently you can't trust anyone these days.
Posted by TigerFanInSouthland
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
28065 posts
Posted on 9/7/17 at 1:41 am to
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I'm ashamed of it and would advise to not put yourself in the position to cheat of you have a decent wife.


No need to be ashamed of it bro, we're just a bunch of animals and aren't evolved enough for monogamy.

Even though we have brains that have can reason and can actively think about other things rather than animalistic instincts, we're no better than your average dog when it comes to things like that.

I have a question, if men and women aren't supposed to be monogamous, why are households with one man and one woman deemed to be generally better for society?

Y'all say "it's our biology." horseshite, if it's our biology to just go frick everything like a dog, why aren't we still running around naked and beating people with rocks and grunting to each other? I'll tell you why, it's because we're fricking human beings and we can feel something other than where our next meal or frick or drink of water is gonna come from.

Call me old fashioned, but I think it's a pretty easy cop-out to just say "well we're only animals, it's our nature." It's our nature, but we have the brain capacity to not act on those feelings unlike a dog.

Some of y'all have a pretty grim view of the world and humans.

Eta: that lost wasn't directed wholly at you, just to what other posters will say. I hope you can find a way to stop cheating on your SOs, it's not healthy for you or your SO. Good luck to you.
This post was edited on 9/7/17 at 1:44 am
Posted by DoUrden
UnderDark
Member since Oct 2011
25965 posts
Posted on 9/7/17 at 1:45 am to
Never married again after my divorce, have been on the woman side of cheating many time, but one was an abuse case. I have had many women approach/talk to me with the verbal and sometime physical cheating.
Posted by cubsfinger
On The Road
Member since Mar 2017
1560 posts
Posted on 9/7/17 at 2:04 am to
Na, I am ashamed. If you knew me personally you would know that I'm really not that kind of guy. Also, I'm ashamed mostly because of how I let down and broke my wife. If you only knew her situation growing up and for her to put her heart into trusting me, when every other man in her life had let her down. Especially since I was never the type to cheat. Seeing how bad she hurt when she found out was the worst. It's s terrible, terrible feeling seeing someone break when you really love them but got caught up in some very foolish activities.... Just Don't get sucked into thinking the grass is greener, because it's only greener because it's fertilized with bull shite. Like I said earlier if you have someone that supports you good or bad, loves you unconditionally, is faithful, and has a pure heart with the greatest intentions of fulfilling the til death do us part, then don't dabble in cheating. Resist the urge and take it from me, it's not worth it. Go home and kiss YOUR wife.
This post was edited on 9/7/17 at 2:06 am
Posted by vengeanceofrain
depends
Member since Jun 2013
12465 posts
Posted on 9/7/17 at 2:28 am to
My ex who just died. she aws really cute. But not the hottest girl I have ever seen. Anyone who knows me knows I have hte worst foot fetish on earth lol. I like cute feet. She had really cute feet, like unbelievably cute feet lol. and soft lol. soft cute feet. But it wasn't the fact that she had cute feet, it was the fact that she played on my fetish that turned me on. When we'd be in bed together she'd put her feet up against my leg and let me hold her. When I'd be sitting at the end of the bed programming or talking to someone she'd put her feet right next to my head. she'd let me rub her feet all night long if i wanted. she didn't think it was gross she thought it was cute and let me endudge and because she did she knew exactly what my ticks where. she knew it was an itch I needed to scratch. And she'd let me scratch away.


To me, the woman's foot is the sexiest most feminine part of her body. I can tell just how feminine a woman is by looking at her foot, if she takes care of it, if she is walking on it all day, does she take care of her feet.



I coudl see a situation where if I was dating someone who thought "feet are nasty" and "yuck you're odd" or some shite like that, and she made me suppress my love of her feet she'd get cheated on with the quickness. Because that's how I express affection and her narrow mindedness is not allowing me to do so.
Posted by TJGator1215
FL/TN
Member since Sep 2011
14174 posts
Posted on 9/7/17 at 3:19 am to
Uh....
Posted by BRgetthenet
Member since Oct 2011
117734 posts
Posted on 9/7/17 at 3:39 am to
He has this little gem in the chicks asking for dick pics thread:




quote:

because dicks aren't cute lol breasts are pretty. arse is pretty. feet are pretty lol. but a dude's dick is just a dick.


A dick is like eating chitlins lol. you don't want to see it or smell it but it tastes good.
Posted by baseballmind1212
Missouri City
Member since Feb 2011
3265 posts
Posted on 9/7/17 at 4:08 am to
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i don't consider fricking another woman cheating


Wtf. So if your girl was getting raw dawged 2x a week by someone other than you is that not cheating too?

My SO knows that cheating with me wouldn't be a big deal either.

All of her shite would be in the yard, along with her keys, sans house key.

No reason to talk about it because theirs no reason. GTFO and don't ever come back.
Posted by moderate one
Member since Jul 2017
180 posts
Posted on 9/7/17 at 4:15 am to
That's easier said than done especially if you're married and really love the person. I remember watching those politicians who cheated on their wives and they'd have to publicly admit it during those press conferences while their wives stood by them. I used to wonder how they could stand by someone who did that, but when you're married and truly love someone, you'll stick it out until you realize you can't take it anymore or that you're not willing to work at the relationship or that the other person doesn't love and respect you. Marriage with or without children can change that sentiment or walking away when a SO cheats.
Posted by baseballmind1212
Missouri City
Member since Feb 2011
3265 posts
Posted on 9/7/17 at 4:38 am to
quote:

That's easier said than done especially if you're married and really love the person.


Very true. Sorry, I was speaking to my situation, serious SO, no kids.

Yea if it was my wife of x years that I had a few kids with it'd be different.
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