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re: Not finding a relationship? Advice

Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:00 pm to
Posted by wickowick
Head of Island
Member since Dec 2006
45924 posts
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:00 pm to
Pay a hooker and get laid.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
126425 posts
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:00 pm to
Find a sloot
Bang a slot
Profit
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
84204 posts
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:01 pm to
I typed in "asian associations in dc" and there's a lot for them out there.

My troll meter is off the chart right now.
Posted by LSU Fan 90812
A man more eviler than Skeletor.
Member since Feb 2005
50655 posts
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:01 pm to
find something that makes you feel the most confident version of yourself. look to make real connections with the people around you, girls, guys, as friends or for dating. go out with friends and try to have the best time possible. be it movies. bowling. drinking. whatever.

tell your friends that you're open to being set up. be open to being set up.
dont' worry about being a virgin. a lot of people are virgins. a lot of people will respect that.

you are an open slate. you might not have experience but you don't have bad habits either.

also, travel often. try the dating apps that aren't ridiculously superficial. be a nice person and respectful to the women you meet there.

enjoy your life. the rest will come.
Posted by AbitaFan08
Boston, MA
Member since Apr 2008
27213 posts
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:03 pm to
quote:

My troll meter is off the chart right now


I'm actually calling no troll here. Just a gut feeling.
Posted by BIGFOOD
Member since Jun 2011
12780 posts
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:04 pm to
quote:

I live in the DC


you're gonna have to get over your lack of confidence and your shyness. Challenge yourself, little by little and you'll see...there is absolutely no reason for you to go without in a town like DC. That place is crawling with arse of every kind, you just gotta go make an effort.
Posted by jflsufan
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Mar 2013
4573 posts
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:04 pm to
First of all Rat, you never let on how much you like a girl. "Oh, Debbie. Hi." Two, you always call the shots. "Kiss me. You won't regret it." Now three, act like wherever you are, that's the place to be. "Isn't this great?" Four, when ordering food, you find out what she wants, then order for the both of you. It's a classy move. "Now, the lady will have the linguini and white clam sauce, and a Coke with no ice." And five, now this is the most important, Rat. When it comes down to making out, whenever possible, put on side one of Led Zeppelin IV.
Posted by Hickok
Htown
Member since Jan 2013
2893 posts
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:08 pm to
First off get a tinder or bumble, you don't have to talk to anyone on there if you want, but it will help you realize that there are plenty of girls out there. Next you need to get out and be social, it will feel uncomfortable and that is a good thing, because sooner or later you will start talking to someone that makes you feel comfortable and you just might like her enough to ask her out.
Posted by zmanthetigerfan
Prairieville, LA
Member since Oct 2015
889 posts
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:12 pm to
Stop looking, seriously. I've always found that you end up in relationships with the wrong person if you're actively looking to be in one. Just let someone come along. And who cares if you're 28? Some dudes would kill to be 28 and single! I know plenty of couples who didn't meet their spouse until their early 30s, so keep your head up brotha
Posted by Weaver
Madisonville, LA
Member since Nov 2005
27803 posts
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:12 pm to
Talk to this guy.

Posted by Brageous
Member since Jul 2008
107724 posts
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:15 pm to
Try bumble where the girl initiates
Posted by StealthCalais11
Lurker since 2007
Member since Aug 2011
12462 posts
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:19 pm to
Rule #1: Be attractive
Rule #2: Don't be unattractive

Everything else will fall into place
Posted by MouseBenQ
Member since Apr 2016
43 posts
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:25 pm to
Good point. I've been busy studying mostly and job searching. Now that I got time, this is something I can pursue.
Posted by DawgGONIT
Member since May 2015
2961 posts
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:25 pm to
Maybe find a Asian restaurant that has a hot server staff with women in your age range, then get a part time job there. You will make money and they will pretty much have to talk to you and then you can work from there.
Posted by CoeJ
Member since Oct 2010
1828 posts
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:33 pm to
Bit of advice #1: It's ok to be into Nintendo... but keep that shite to yourself. (re: avatar)

Even if you fake it, find hobbies that women find masculine.. frick even mysterious. They eat that shite up.

Also, pretend to be into nature and shite. Every slut these days is a "free spirit"
Posted by G2160
houston
Member since May 2013
1791 posts
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:37 pm to
Women can smell desperation a mile away. You won't be able to fake your way through not being desperate, you're going to have to start being not desperate.

That's a start.
This post was edited on 4/29/16 at 5:40 pm
Posted by Titus Pullo
MTDGA
Member since Feb 2011
28567 posts
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:40 pm to
Get that first piece of pussy out of the way and the rest will fall in line.

Hell get a high dollar, fine arse escort if you have too so you don't fall in love with the first ho that gives you a taste. That will get your confidence up and with you having a good education and job and being successful the chicks will come to you. Esp in a city like DC where there's probably more girls than straight guys.
Posted by mach316
Jonesboro, AR
Member since Jul 2012
4801 posts
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:49 pm to
Get rich. Women will be busting down your door.
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
114204 posts
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:52 pm to
quote:

That is true, although it is hard to find the right person since most girls are taken that are in my culture (I am Asian btw).


I'm fairly certain this isn't the case, since Asian women I've known tend to prefer men who are at least 6 years older than them. 28 is the prime age for an Asian male looking for hot Asians right out of college.
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124694 posts
Posted on 4/29/16 at 5:54 pm to
You and I out in the same boat

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