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Not finding a relationship? Advice

Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:42 pm
Posted by MouseBenQ
Member since Apr 2016
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Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:42 pm
Been pretty depressed lately. Kinda look back at life and finding that I never had a relationship and I am 28. Never had someone I got close to one. Specially being in a party school like UGA and grad school, but never building any bond with a significant other. Been very shy most of the time and not very confident. I guess that may be it. Is it impossible to find the right person specially if you can't change ur personality?
Posted by PsychTiger
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Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:42 pm to
You've certainly come to the right place.
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Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:42 pm to
Russian mail order
Posted by Cosmo
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Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:43 pm to
Paige sounds like the perfect woman for you
Posted by GCHunter
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Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:44 pm to
This has to be a troll.
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:45 pm to
You sound like a woman. Are you a woman?
Posted by burdman
Louisiana
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Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:46 pm to
quote:

Is it impossible to find the right person specially if you can't change ur personality?


You can change your personality. Just have to jump off that cliff. Sure you'll fall on your face, maybe a lot, but no one goes 0 for life. You'll have success every now and then.
Posted by Tigeralum2008
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Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:46 pm to
Posted by vidtiger23
Member since Feb 2012
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Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:47 pm to
Assuming this isn't a troll, you'll get some smart arse comments, but keep you're head up and keep yourself out there and something good will happen.
Posted by MouseBenQ
Member since Apr 2016
43 posts
Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:47 pm to
Unfortunately I am not a troll. I grew up in a religious household and taught to stay aware from relationships and feels uncomfortable to this day to speak with any future potentials. Although parents want me to get married recently, I guess because I got my career and all now, but don't know any girls haha.
This post was edited on 4/29/16 at 4:50 pm
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:51 pm to
If you're a guy, I say join a gym and get yoked. You're in graduate school? Join student associations related to your profession, and then join the professional associations after you graduate and get your license to do whatever.

Are you a virgin?
Posted by MouseBenQ
Member since Apr 2016
43 posts
Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:52 pm to
I am working now, graduated from Masters. That is true, although it is hard to find the right person since most girls are taken that are in my culture (I am Asian btw). Yes am a virgin.
This post was edited on 4/29/16 at 4:54 pm
Posted by AbitaFan08
Boston, MA
Member since Apr 2008
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Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:54 pm to
Join a group or organization that forces you to be around people and be social. Kickball league, a gym where you do group classes, something along those lines.

There was a guy in my gym with the exact same story. Depressed and felt like he wasn't going to meet someone. Socially awkward especially around women. He started going to the gym nonstop. I hardly ever went without seeing him there. Dropped something like 80 lbs, made a ton of friends, met a girl, and they're now living together. He's a completely different guy now.
This post was edited on 4/29/16 at 4:57 pm
Posted by burdman
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2007
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Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:54 pm to
Just have to find ways to get out there more. Like Sabi said, join clubs, groups, etc around town. More you get out, the higher you're chances are.
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:55 pm to
quote:

That is true, although it is hard to find the right person since most girls are taken that are in my culture (I am Asian btw).


Then it's time for the internet, my friend.

AsianDating.com
Posted by MouseBenQ
Member since Apr 2016
43 posts
Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:56 pm to
quote:

I am working now, graduated from Masters. That is true, although it is hard to find the right person since most girls are taken that are in my culture (I am Asian btw). Yes am a virgin.

quote:


Just have to find ways to get out there more. Like Sabi said, join clubs, groups, etc around town. More you get out, the higher you're chances are.


Good points. I live in the DC area so there are some places to go for socializing.
Posted by 777Tiger
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Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:57 pm to
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Then it's time for the internet, my friend.


every shard that comes out suggests a troll
This post was edited on 4/29/16 at 4:58 pm
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:57 pm to
quote:

Good points. I live in the DC area so there are some places to go for socializing.



Dude, you're in a big city. There has to be groups for Asians specifically.

My father is from Argentina and we would go to Casa Argentina in New Orleans every year. It was a huge festival for all the Argentines in the Gulf States. And that's one freaking country!

Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:58 pm to
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every shard that comes out suggests a troll
an Azn not knowing 'bout the 'net, hah


Yeah, that was my first thought as I was pasting the link.
Posted by c on z
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Posted on 4/29/16 at 4:59 pm to
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