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Need some advice--relationship related
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:28 am
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:28 am
I'm going to try to keep this as short as I can. I've been in a relationship with a girl for a year and a half..Weve had our ups and downs, some pretty brutal fights and things I probably should have left over. She would never trust me, always be nagging etc etc so it almost started to feel like I was an old man who always wanted to be fishing and away from his wife. Long story short I am away from home now but the past several months things have changed--she really is changing and the insecurities have given way to a trusting attitude and love that has been consistent and pretty amazing. However, I am worried that the old attitude will slowly creep back in and I wont be able to take it anymore when I get back.
Here comes the big problem. I've had these dreams every couple of months. It's been of one girl I dated for a few months in college that I was absolutely head over heels for. This was four years ago that we dated and i'm still having these dreams consistently. I was in a dark place when we dated with some alcohol problems and she broke up with me, seeing as I was a mess. But on to the dreams..they are nothing sexual..simply me pleading to her that I have changed and that I am having these dreams of wanting to see her. In those dreams it just feels "right" just having the chance to talk to her. A calm like ive never felt. I don't know if this girl would ever even talk to me again and I feel like a shithead for even considering her when i'm in a relationship with a girl I love now and knowing how much it would destroy her.
And strangely enough I'm moving back to the same state I met her in for a job in the next month. I don't know what to think at this point..Anyone else have similar experiences as this? I know..I'm a mess
Here comes the big problem. I've had these dreams every couple of months. It's been of one girl I dated for a few months in college that I was absolutely head over heels for. This was four years ago that we dated and i'm still having these dreams consistently. I was in a dark place when we dated with some alcohol problems and she broke up with me, seeing as I was a mess. But on to the dreams..they are nothing sexual..simply me pleading to her that I have changed and that I am having these dreams of wanting to see her. In those dreams it just feels "right" just having the chance to talk to her. A calm like ive never felt. I don't know if this girl would ever even talk to me again and I feel like a shithead for even considering her when i'm in a relationship with a girl I love now and knowing how much it would destroy her.
And strangely enough I'm moving back to the same state I met her in for a job in the next month. I don't know what to think at this point..Anyone else have similar experiences as this? I know..I'm a mess
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:30 am to Mullet Flap
When in doubt, dump her. You're not married, dude
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:31 am to Mullet Flap
Do not go talk to the girl that got away. Do not do that. That would be very bad.
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:31 am to Mullet Flap
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Need some advice--relationship related
you came to the right place
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:31 am to Mullet Flap
quote:these are always fun. Thanks for livening up my afternoon
Need some advice--relationship related
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:31 am to Mullet Flap
You nailed it with the "old actions creep back" part.
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:32 am to Mullet Flap
you sound like a pussy
and the bitch sounds crazy
and the bitch sounds crazy
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:32 am to Mullet Flap
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Weve had our ups and downs, some pretty brutal fights and things I probably should have left over. She would never trust me, always be nagging etc etc so it almost started to feel like I was an old man who always wanted to be fishing and away from his wife.
If she does this while you are dating it will get worse if you end up marrying her.
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I've had these dreams every couple of months. It's been of one girl I dated for a few months in college that I was absolutely head over heels for. This was four years ago that we dated and i'm still having these dreams consistently. I was in a dark place when we dated with some alcohol problems and she broke up with me, seeing as I was a mess. But on to the dreams..they are nothing sexual..simply me pleading to her that I have changed and that I am having these dreams of wanting to see her. In those dreams it just feels "right" just having the chance to talk to her. A calm like ive never felt.
Text her and see where it goes.
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:32 am to SouthOfSouth
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Do not go talk to the girl that got away. Do not do that. That would be very bad.
I think you're right...ahhh it's so tempting though. And I can't get these dreams of her to go away
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:33 am to Mullet Flap
YOU CAME TO THE RIGHT PLACE
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:33 am to Mullet Flap
Well this should make for an entertaining Tuesday afternoon.
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:33 am to Mullet Flap
Lets see....
You're out of town now and she has quit nagging and being insecure. I'm not dr. Phil but somebody's sack deep.
You're out of town now and she has quit nagging and being insecure. I'm not dr. Phil but somebody's sack deep.
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:34 am to Mullet Flap
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Weve had our ups and downs, some pretty brutal fights and things
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I've been in a relationship with a girl for a year and a half.
Here's the problem.
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:35 am to Mullet Flap
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I think you're right...ahhh it's so tempting though. And I can't get these dreams of her to go away
Even if the best happened and she said he missed you, you are dating someone. There is no upside to talking to the one that got away while having a GF.
Posted on 6/30/15 at 11:35 am to Jack Daniel
It hasn't just been since ive been out of town that she has stopped nagging. It had been around 3 months that it had stopped now ive been away for 2 months but its definitely a noticeable change from the insecure attitude she's had
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