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re: Need some advice--relationship related
Posted on 6/30/15 at 12:28 pm to SouthOfSouth
Posted on 6/30/15 at 12:28 pm to SouthOfSouth
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There is no upside to talking to the one that got away while having a GF.
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Posted on 6/30/15 at 12:31 pm to Mullet Flap
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Need some advice--relationship related by Mullet Flap
You've definitely come to the right place.
Posted on 6/30/15 at 12:34 pm to Spaceman Spiff
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There is no upside to talking to the one that got away while having a GF
This. There is also no upside in talking about your desire to see that one that got away to your GF. She will not be calm and rational about it like we are saying "it happens to everyone". She will flip the f#$k out and feel completely justified in all of her insecure ways and never trust you again.
Posted on 6/30/15 at 12:34 pm to TheOcean
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When in doubt, dump her. You're not married, dude
Don't listen to rainbow blossom.
Welcome to women dude, they change at the drop of a dime. You're both young, give her a break, because you probably aren't a peach all the time either.
Posted on 6/30/15 at 12:35 pm to Mullet Flap
Posted on 6/30/15 at 12:37 pm to Jack Daniel
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I'm not dr. Phil but somebody's sack deep.
i think i just injured my gut. Have an upvote
Posted on 6/30/15 at 12:38 pm to Mullet Flap
Stalk the ex first. The usual online checks - LinkedIn, social media, Google. If nothing upsetting pops up drive by her house a few times at random times. Maybe park a few houses down and wait for her to come home. If she has no man and hasn't blown up then reach out. If she's attaches or six kids then you can quietly slip away and stay with your current woman and no one will ever know
Posted on 6/30/15 at 12:40 pm to Mullet Flap
Someone else is giving her the high hard one. Dump her, then call the ex in your dreams. It must be done in that order. There's nothing worse than an insecure loser who's afraid to be alone. Don't be that guy.
This post was edited on 6/30/15 at 12:43 pm
Posted on 6/30/15 at 12:41 pm to UHTiger
Best advice in this thread.
Posted on 6/30/15 at 12:42 pm to Mullet Flap
Don't mean to be harsh... but... I have to ask this question considering two things you've said:
What makes you think you're worth a second chance if you are hesitant to award a second chance to someone yourself?
My advice is to not contact the other girl. You have more work to do on yourself, and she should remain in the past. If she is interested in you, she will reach out to you. But you should prepare yourself for the likelihood that she probably never thinks about you.
Work on yourself. Make things better for someone who is clearly trying to do better for you. Otherwise move on. That's what the other girl did, and she deserves the opportunity to do so.
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However, I am worried that the old attitude will slowly creep back in and I wont be able to take it anymore when I get back.
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I was in a dark place when we dated with some alcohol problems and she broke up with me, seeing as I was a mess.
What makes you think you're worth a second chance if you are hesitant to award a second chance to someone yourself?
My advice is to not contact the other girl. You have more work to do on yourself, and she should remain in the past. If she is interested in you, she will reach out to you. But you should prepare yourself for the likelihood that she probably never thinks about you.
Work on yourself. Make things better for someone who is clearly trying to do better for you. Otherwise move on. That's what the other girl did, and she deserves the opportunity to do so.
Posted on 6/30/15 at 12:44 pm to Mullet Flap
Check yourself ASAP to ensure you still have a penis
Posted on 6/30/15 at 12:46 pm to Mullet Flap
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Do not go talk to the girl that got away. Do not do that. That would be very bad.
I think you're right...ahhh it's so tempting though. And I can't get these dreams of her to go away
Dreams of the grass is greener. If she is as good in real life as in your dream she will be scooped up. Just keep in mind underneath it all, they are all the same... Some just fit better than others.
Posted on 6/30/15 at 12:52 pm to jvilletiger25
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It's nothing really to do with that other girl. It's just your subconscious telling you to GTFO of that messed up relationship you're in.
^^ This!
BTW, if you drink a lot before you go to sleep, you wont enter the REM stage and will likely not be able to dream about anything or anyone.
Posted on 6/30/15 at 12:54 pm to Mullet Flap
which one will let you do "butt" things ?
Posted on 6/30/15 at 12:56 pm to Mullet Flap
4 pages and no pic request?
Post pics of both of them and I'll tell you what you need to do!
Seriously!
Post pics of both of them and I'll tell you what you need to do!
Seriously!
Posted on 6/30/15 at 12:58 pm to CoachDon
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Don't listen to rainbow blossom.
Welcome to women dude, they change at the drop of a dime. You're both young, give her a break, because you probably aren't a peach all the time either.
This is why old dudes who have been married for 30 years shouldn't give relationship advice
Posted on 6/30/15 at 1:02 pm to Mullet Flap
Everyone needs a side piece so when the GF or wife is nagging you to death you can take the side piece out (fishing, mud riding, camping, etc....) and get sack deep in her. Then return to the SO a calm relaxed person.
Posted on 6/30/15 at 1:10 pm to Mullet Flap
You are not married. You are only dating. So it won't hurt anything to contact the ex, and see what happens.
Btw, you will be more attractive to the ex, because you have a gf.
Btw, you will be more attractive to the ex, because you have a gf.
This post was edited on 6/30/15 at 1:21 pm
Posted on 6/30/15 at 1:48 pm to brodeo
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3. She's cheating on you and is being nice to you so you won't suspect the same. She feels guilty for not trusting you and then cheating on you, but she still keeps doing it
This.
Later, when her and her side piece are no longer together she will return to pecking at you constantly. She originally did this because she is nuts and that cannot be fixed. Clean break.
Be careful when you break with her. Let her know you are not seeing anyone. If she thinks you are you will get busted windows, cut tires, and boiled pets. Treat the break with kid gloves.
Don't contact the old GF either. She is fat, has 4 kids, has been reamed out by the BBC, has her own mental problems, has changed her eye color, or something that makes her not the way you remember her. She is different now. Leave her memory as is.
Also, she dumped you so you cannot just waltz back in anytime. She will think you are sad and needy.
While you are searching for a new GF, be open to some interim Cougars. They will help you grow up.
Enjoy.
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