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re: Pretenious responses after getting doctorate?

Posted on 11/30/14 at 11:00 pm to
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
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Posted on 11/30/14 at 11:00 pm to
I was looking for the "Please stop calling me Mr. Doback." / "OK, Mom, Doback?" reference and found this gem.



/derail
This post was edited on 11/30/14 at 11:02 pm
Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
92880 posts
Posted on 11/30/14 at 11:08 pm to
I am an ordained minister, I would swear to God but as a minister I cannot.
Posted by LordSaintly
Member since Dec 2005
39475 posts
Posted on 11/30/14 at 11:11 pm to
People call me Mr. Lordguill or Dr. Lordguill. I don't care either way.
Posted by Epic Cajun
Lafayette, LA
Member since Feb 2013
33866 posts
Posted on 11/30/14 at 11:18 pm to
My wife is going to be a doctor. I told her I'd call her "doctor" on her graduation day, but that would be the first and last time.

I'd definitely tell her to stop being pretentious if she corrected someone and told them to call her "doctor" in a non professional setting.
Posted by BioBobcat
Boston
Member since Feb 2013
666 posts
Posted on 11/30/14 at 11:21 pm to
I feel like it is only going to get worse with the increase in doctoral offerings. For instance, one can receive a "doctorate" from the University of Phoenix and I believe nurses and physical therapists can earn doctorates...

I was at an education seminar a few years back (because I was your typical I love research and hate teaching professor ) and I started talking to another attendee. Having spent an extensive amount of time in academia, you rarely refer to your colleagues as "Dr." In turn, I called this woman by her first name... This woman quickly corrected me and reminded me she had an E.d. and should be referred to as Dr. Well, being an academic snob and/or douchebag who received their doctorate from a prestigious university; I asked her where she got her degree from. Turns out it was from the University of Phoenix. I promptly laughed in her face and asked if she was was joking. She was not.

Nonetheless, as a PhD, you should only refer to yourself as doctor if 1) you're an MD or 2) you're at the bar trying to get laid, as stated above.
Posted by KyleOrtonsMustache
Krystal Baller
Member since Jan 2008
5007 posts
Posted on 11/30/14 at 11:44 pm to
i had an english lit professor correct me in class one day.

He said "It's Dr. Fredrickson…I didn't spend all that time and money to be a Mister"

I said, "Ok, but you've got to call me Super Kyle. I didn't spend all those nights saving the world to just be Kyle."

Everyone laughed.

He suggested I drop the class.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
Member since May 2012
56509 posts
Posted on 11/30/14 at 11:55 pm to
I always called my dad's good friend (who was also my doctor) by his first name growing up. He didn't like being called doctor when out of the office.

It kind of felt weird but i just went with it.
Posted by The Baker
This is fine.
Member since Dec 2011
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Posted on 12/1/14 at 2:14 am to
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Posted by SwaggerCopter
H TINE HOL IT DINE
Member since Dec 2012
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Posted on 12/1/14 at 2:19 am to
My favorite people on this planet are the ones with PhD's who don't make a big deal about it. It means they are really smart and humble. It's a great combination for a human being to have. And I've seen these qualities in really shy people as well as extremely outgoing people.
Posted by tiger1014
Member since Jan 2011
12538 posts
Posted on 12/1/14 at 5:42 am to
I find it uncomfortable for me to introduce myself as Dr. Tiger1014. So my approach with patients in the hospital is to introduce myself as Tiger1014, one of the doctors that will be taking care of you
Posted by Sir Drinksalot
Member since Aug 2005
16791 posts
Posted on 12/1/14 at 6:36 am to
Was at a meeting once with some medical doctors and one PhD.

Everyone writes their first name on their name tags except for the PhD who writers "dr "last name".

So for the whole meeting we all had to call that one person by dr lastname. No one was rude ab it but it was silly.
Posted by piratedude
baton rouge
Member since Oct 2009
2562 posts
Posted on 12/1/14 at 7:31 am to
this topic always reminds me of an old gentleman i met while he was picking up metal from a trash pile. we introduced ourselves and i said "nice to meet you mr. smith". he then tells me he pastors a church in town. i said "oh, then it's Brother Smith."

he said "i don't brother myself much."
Posted by ruzil
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2012
17345 posts
Posted on 12/1/14 at 7:54 am to
It would be cool to call Dr Dre mister Dre and see what ensues.
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
70866 posts
Posted on 12/1/14 at 8:59 am to
Only MDs are addressed as "doctor" outside of the job.
Posted by chRxis
None of your fricking business
Member since Feb 2008
24702 posts
Posted on 12/1/14 at 9:23 am to
sign my name w/ Dr. in front, but that's it... i'd cringe to hear my name with "Dr." in front of it.....
Posted by dewster
Chicago
Member since Aug 2006
25657 posts
Posted on 12/1/14 at 11:47 am to
quote:

Pretenious responses after getting doctorate?


Some of the most arrogant people I've ever met have a doctorate and work in academia. They come off as remarkably entrenched and incapable of considering other alternatives to their conclusions about everyone and everything.
Posted by MeridianDog
Home on the range
Member since Nov 2010
14479 posts
Posted on 12/1/14 at 11:58 am to
Doesn't bother me at all.
Posted by Flame Salamander
Texas Gulf - Clear Lake
Member since Jan 2012
3044 posts
Posted on 12/1/14 at 12:48 pm to
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Is there anything more pretentious than a doctor correcting someone by saying "Doctor" after someone calls them "Mr." or "Ms."? Assholes...


Are you a Grad School wash out? Those unfortunates are some of the most bitter people I've ever known in the chemistry field...some of them having spent 7 or 8 years and end up coming away with nothing.

This post was edited on 12/1/14 at 12:49 pm
Posted by Lokistale
Member since Aug 2013
1216 posts
Posted on 12/1/14 at 1:48 pm to
Outside of my office/clinic and hospital, I introduce myself by my first and last name, never felt the need to broadcast to people that I'm an MD...
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