Who lets themselves go more in a marriage, men or women?

Idk I don't pay attention or care.

Then why did you waste time responding?

I don't think men typically manage their appearance in the interest of attracting a mate to the extent women do, so I'd argue they have a shorter distance to the bottom, in a manner of speaking.

All women want is to be married and have kids and stay at home

Once you have all that, they know they have the prize and they will get half of everything.

Most women that have at least two kids never lose all the baby weight

Men just need money, women need to be "fit".

Women. We (men) are who we are.

Women changed the most once a ring is acquired

Women will stay with a fat slob if he provides her security, one way or another. She’ll definitely bang the tennis pro at the club though.

Once a woman lets herself “GO go”, what does a man have to stick around for? Life is too short to be with a sloppy woman.

Women.

But to there the defense they also do more.

Most men are terrible with dealing with the children and refuse the domestic side of the home.

Women now work, do the domestic shtt and every party of the children. They simply don't have the time.

The the hormone issues post having the children.

So they say fckk it.

I'd say the men, but not necessarily for physical reasons. They turn into "happy wife, happy life" milquetoasts early on, which speeds the physical decline.