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Tom Brady puzzled why Scottie Scheffler would prioritize family over golf career
Posted on 7/29/25 at 11:24 pm
Posted on 7/29/25 at 11:24 pm
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Speaking at a press conference ahead of the Open Championship from Royal Portrush in Northern Ireland earlier this month, Scheffler opened up about valuing his importance as a father and husband more than being the world’s best golfer. Scheffler said he puts all of this work in to be great at golf, for what amounts to just minutes of satisfaction after winning a tournament before life goes on.
“This is not a fulfilling life,” Scheffler said. “It’s fulfilling from the sense of accomplishment, but it’s not fulfilling from a sense of the deepest places of your heart…That’s why I talk about family being my priority because it really is. I’m blessed to be able to come out here and play golf, but if my golf ever started affecting my home life or it ever affected the relationship I have with my wife or my son, that’s going to be the last day that I play out here for a living.”
Like Scheffler, Brady similarly had to balance being a parent and husband while also attempting to be the best at his sport during much of his NFL career. And in his latest newsletter, Brady questioned why Scheffler feels the need to prioritize one over the other.
“Scottie said he’d rather be a better father and husband than a good golfer. And my question is: why are those mutually exclusive?” Brady asked. “Sure, they’re different blocks on the pyramid, but they’re part of the same pyramid. They’re connected!
“For instance, I think part of being a great father is being a great example of doing what it takes to take care of your family. I chose to do it by playing football. My dedication to the sport, the hours of practice, the moments when I was laser focused—those were times when I believe I was doing the best possible thing for my family and my kids, by prioritizing my profession and teaching, by example, what it takes to be really good at your job, what it takes to follow through on commitments, what it takes to be a great teammate; and showing them, also by example, that work is a big part of all of our lives.”
Posted on 7/29/25 at 11:38 pm to Bench McElroy
Tom just doesn't understand
Posted on 7/29/25 at 11:39 pm to Bench McElroy
With all due respect to Brady, the last thing Scottie needs is advice from him
Brady now provides for his family by talking about a man that puts his family actually first
Let me know when the Scottie Scheffler Celebrity Roast is scheduled
LMAO at Brady
Brady now provides for his family by talking about a man that puts his family actually first
Let me know when the Scottie Scheffler Celebrity Roast is scheduled
LMAO at Brady
Posted on 7/29/25 at 11:56 pm to Bench McElroy
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“For instance, I think part of being a great father is being a great example of doing what it takes to take care of your family. I chose to do it by playing football. My dedication to the sport, the hours of practice, the moments when I was laser focused—those were times when I believe I was doing the best possible thing for my family and my kids, by prioritizing my profession and teaching, by example, what it takes to be really good at your job, what it takes to follow through on commitments, what it takes to be a great teammate; and showing them, also by example, that work is a big part of all of our lives.”
Brady is spot on. Great to see someone extolling the virtues of hard-work and commitment. This is the mindset that made America great.
Posted on 7/30/25 at 12:12 am to Bench McElroy
Considering Brady Lost his family to play one more year on one of the most mediocre teams of his career, this advice is shite.
Posted on 7/30/25 at 12:18 am to Bench McElroy
Tom Brady destroyed his family and chased his wife into the arms of her jiu-jitsu personal trainer for one final NFL season….
…Only to be humiliated in his last game by Dak Prescott and the Cowboys 31-14.
Dak has one meaningful win in his career. Was it really worth it for Tom Brady to be Dak’s sacrificial lamb?
…Only to be humiliated in his last game by Dak Prescott and the Cowboys 31-14.
Dak has one meaningful win in his career. Was it really worth it for Tom Brady to be Dak’s sacrificial lamb?
Posted on 7/30/25 at 12:23 am to Bench McElroy
I think the world of Tom, but man what a backwards worldview.
Posted on 7/30/25 at 12:25 am to Bench McElroy
Different strokes for different folks.
Plus, Brady wasn't married to a normal woman.
Plus, Brady wasn't married to a normal woman.
Posted on 7/30/25 at 12:26 am to Bench McElroy
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“Scottie said he’d rather be a better father and husband than a good golfer. And my question is: why are those mutually exclusive?”
Very true.
Posted on 7/30/25 at 12:47 am to David Ricky
Damn, ChatGPT has gotten good. I prompted it to fuse this image with "The Stallion" by Jon Bois:
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“The Comeback”
Tom Brady had never felt old before. Not really. Not in the way that word sat like a rusted nail in the bones of other men. But when he looked up at the scoreboard—Falcons 28, Patriots 3—he felt something closing in.
He wasn’t thinking about the clock or the defense or the improbable odds. He was thinking about his wife, and his kids, and the sound of their voices—so painfully distant, even with them just a few rows behind the bench.
The thought came like a whisper:
You could have it all. The win. The immortality. The story they’ll tell for a hundred years.
All it costs is them.
He didn’t know where the thought came from. Maybe it was just his mind cracking under the weight of defeat. Maybe it was something else, something colder and much older. But when the next snap came, his hands moved like they weren’t his own.
The comeback started small. A first down here. A touchdown there. But with each miracle drive, Brady felt it—a thread snapping between him and the people he loved.
Gisele smiled at him from the stands. Or at least, he thought she did. Her face seemed a little less clear, like a photograph smudged by fingers.
When he kissed his son after the game, would the boy still know him?
Every time the crowd roared, he felt his chest tighten with fear.
Every perfect pass meant something else slipping away.
The Patriots tied it. Then they won. The confetti rained down like the end of the world. He should have been happy. He should have been crying, screaming, laughing. But all he felt was dread, and all he saw was Gisele’s face turning slightly, like she didn’t recognize him.
The Years After
He won another Super Bowl. Then another. Then an MVP. Everyone called him the GOAT. Everyone told him he had more left in the tank than anyone had a right to.
But at home, there were long silences at the dinner table. He’d walk into a room and feel like a stranger in his own house. He could barely recall the last time he’d held his daughter and felt her warm little hand press against his cheek.
Sometimes, he’d wake up in the middle of the night convinced that tonight would be the night it happened. That he’d roll over and Gisele would be gone, the bed cold, the kids’ rooms empty, their voices erased.
Every day that they were still there felt borrowed.
Tampa
Leaving New England felt like stepping closer to the edge of the deal. Maybe Belichick was part of the curse. Maybe staying meant he’d lose them faster.
But he kept winning. He kept smiling for cameras, hoisting trophies, kissing his kids in public. Yet every kiss felt lighter, like there was less of them to hold onto.
During the boat parade in Tampa, as he tossed the Lombardi Trophy from one boat to another, he thought—is this the last time I see her smile at me like that? Is this where it all vanishes?
The joy of victory was poisoned. Every ring he added to his hand felt heavier.
The Final Season
By the time the divorce came, it felt almost merciful. She was still alive. The kids were still here. But it wasn’t the same. They looked at him like they were watching a man who’d already left this world.
He played on, thinking if he just stopped winning, maybe he could buy it back. Maybe the deal wasn’t permanent.
But one night, alone in a quiet stadium after a meaningless preseason game, he realized he couldn’t stop. He wasn’t playing for the team anymore. He was playing for the deal.
And it wasn’t done with him.
The End
He took a knee on the last snap of his career. No one was in the stands. No cameras, no coaches, just an empty stadium.
The air changed.
It was cold.
The lights flickered.
Somewhere deep in the bowels of the stadium, he heard footsteps—hoofbeats, slow and deliberate. He turned to see a figure standing at the edge of the field. No face. No eyes. Just something watching, waiting.
Tom dropped his helmet and stepped toward it.
“Is it over?” he asked, his voice trembling like a rookie again.
The figure didn’t answer. It only raised a hand and pointed upward.
Tom looked up. The roof split open, the sky wide and black, and a beam of light swallowed him. His last thought before it took him was of his kids' faces—clear and bright one final time—before the light erased everything.
Posted on 7/30/25 at 12:59 am to Bench McElroy
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“Scottie said he’d rather be a better father and husband than a good golfer. And my question is: why are those mutually exclusive?” Brady asked.
When did Scottie say they’re mutually exclusive? He didn’t say he’s not committed to being a great golfer, just that it’s not as important to him and doesn’t bring him as much joy. He’s clearly not slowing down on the course. Seems like Brady’s projecting a little regret?
A psychopathic Jordan/Tiger/Brady ruthless mindset can work, but I’m glad Scottie’s crushing it. You can have a Jokic/Scheffler mindset and still excel at your craft. That’s probably the healthier approach not only for the athlete but for his family/friends too.
Posted on 7/30/25 at 4:31 am to Riverside
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Brady is spot on. Great to see someone extolling the virtues of hard-work and commitment. This is the mindset that made America great.
Scottie said he loves the grind. But doesn't live for the wins. Seems pretty balanced to me.
Not to his level but I am a few career choices that probably cost me some money but time it woukd have cost me with my kids would have never been worth it to me.
Dude is on track to make a billion dollars and is balanced. I wonder if Tiger wound trade for that if he only won 11 instead of 14?
Posted on 7/30/25 at 5:13 am to Bench McElroy
Scottie sounds like he'll have a much more meaningful family life than Tom has.
Posted on 7/30/25 at 5:14 am to Bench McElroy
Big swing and miss from Brady
Just don’t have an opinion on this, especially since it turned out so poorly on your end.
Just don’t have an opinion on this, especially since it turned out so poorly on your end.
Posted on 7/30/25 at 5:33 am to Riverside
His family is already provided for. It’s not like he’s making $30/hr. His family is set for life, the family is more important than the grind now.
Posted on 7/30/25 at 5:37 am to Bench McElroy
TB12 is the indisputable GOAT and I am happy to be counted among his fan minions.
That said, he should prolly keep these thoughts to himself in the interest of avoiding hypocrisy.
I mean, which of his families is he talking about? Is it the one with Jet or is it the one that that left him because of ‘reasons’…
That said, he should prolly keep these thoughts to himself in the interest of avoiding hypocrisy.
I mean, which of his families is he talking about? Is it the one with Jet or is it the one that that left him because of ‘reasons’…
Posted on 7/30/25 at 5:53 am to Bench McElroy
Posted on 7/30/25 at 6:23 am to GOP_Tiger
A guy that has no children goes on a rant about Scottie . Hmmm
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