Hey Divorced People.

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Feminism

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The biggest reason

"I'm a strong independent woman who don't need no man,now where's my child support and my alimony "

25 years
I did…90 day.
She had an affair.

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1 - 26 years by the time it was filed

2 - she did

3 - midlife and she was unhappy. It also didn’t help that she screwed a priest. Yeah I found out about that 10+ years after the fact.

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And they wonder why so many guys are taking a hard pass on marriage.
Talk about a cautionary tale.

7 year itch, me, and she had the itch

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she screwed a priest.

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1. It can vary quite some bit
2. I'd bet 75% of divorces are filed by the woman
3. You divorce for essentially one of 2, or 3, reasons:
A. Money disagreements. Etc
B. Sex drive differences

C. Possibly a third of just can't get along/ abuse. But I'd be willing to bet that C. wouldn't exist if A or B. didn't exist

21 years
I did
Cheating whore instead of a mother/wife

Best GD decision ever.

Fark a biatch trying to hold you down because your a decent dude and good dad.

10 years later and the kids know the score.

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Just curious why so many marriages end in divorce.

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People quit when things get hard. And they flock to safe spaces littered with birds of their feathers to high-5 each other and tell them how strong they are, how they deserve so much better. EVERY relationship is toxic, and it is always the other spouse’s fault 100%.

And so they tell their stories over and over and over again. Each time, mostly subconsciously, they convince themselves—and their friends—that they are the victims and their spouse was a monster. And they become so pot-committed to that narrative that trying to actually take some responsibility, realizing marriage is hard work and not what they read on social media, forget their vows—their happiness (cleverly defined as “self-care”) is literally all that matters—that they realized they’ve gone too far and would be completely embarrassed to give the other marriage an actual chance after shite-talking their spouse for so long.

They want that romantic, butterflies feelings of falling in love. It’s awesome, who wouldn’t. But that will wear off too just as it did in their original marriage, and if they haven’t set up systems and plans because they were so caught up with being “in love,” that they’ll inevitably wind up right back where they were with their 1st spouse, only with much less time, history, and a foundation, which will make that marriage even easier to walk away from, because neither are as invested in this new relationship as they were their 1st marriage.


I get bombarded with relationship advice in my FaceTime feed. Almost all of it’s an obvious grift. They want you to be single, to have just come out of an”toxic” relationship. Otherwise, you don’t need them and that’s less followers for them. They have a legit financial stake in you NOT finding the right person, and staying in that limbo forever. They’re selling hope at the end of rainbow that they’ll never reach.

Also, they never mention ages. It’s just “every woman deserves a man who will…” 1) No, they really don’t. 2) Being so sacra-sweet is a turnoff to girls at certain parts of their lives or in different stages of the marriage, 3) back to the never mentioning the ages of their “audience”/followers. If you’re a 22-year-old girl with no kids. and you’re dating an a-hole, by all means, throw the deuces and peace the frick out and never look back. But if you are in your mid-40s with 2 kids, that’s a whole different deal.

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also didn’t help that she screwed a priest

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At least he was attracted to of age women.