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Why do women make men do things they don't want to do

Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:10 am
Posted by poncho villa
DALLAS
Member since Jul 2010
18439 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:10 am
and then get mad at us when we are obviously not having a good time.

Is it a power trip?

Anytime I ask my S/O if she wants to go watch an event like...baseball or football she always says no and I go enjoy it by myself or with others.

I'm in the dog house because I didn't smile enough last night at a Christmas musical that lasted 3 hours on a Tuesday night. She asked me if I had a good time and I said not really it was boring.

Guess I'm the a-hole forever and always


Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
86855 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:12 am to
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Guess I'm the a-hole forever and always
yes
Posted by kaleidoscoping
Member since Feb 2021
422 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:12 am to
Don't know but the majority of women I've been with have acted this way about things. I just learn to never smile or show emotion , so they don't know the difference.
This post was edited on 12/18/24 at 8:13 am
Posted by bradygolf98
Member since Jan 2021
2981 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:12 am to
I'd rather sit at home in peace and quiet with the TV on mute than watch a 3 hour long musical
Posted by N2cars
Member since Feb 2008
34968 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:12 am to
This will go well.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
69481 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:13 am to
Your problem is you’re looking at this matter from a standpoint of logic and reason. Both of these things are foreign to women and shouldn’t be used when trying to understand them.
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
84100 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:15 am to
The Control test. The smartest men master it. I’m working on it.

Remember, women are emotional creatures. If there is no drama they need to manufacture it. Particularly manufactured indignation. Just understand it’s their nature and focus on the parts of your wife you dig. Like when she leaves, lol.
Posted by Joshjrn
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2008
30146 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:15 am to
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Guess I'm the a-hole forever and always

Probably, but not because you didn’t enjoy it. In those moments, is it more important for you to voice your displeasure even if it hurts her? Was there a way you could have responded that was both true and less blunt?

“You know this wasn’t really my thing, but the music/lead/choir was pretty/talented/etc and you really seemed to enjoy it, so that makes me happy”.

Just something along those lines. Or, you know, keep trying the same thing and expecting different results in the future?
Posted by jpainter6174
Boss city
Member since Feb 2014
5956 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:15 am to
Poncho my Baw, happy wife happy life.

You must endure 3 hours of shite and like it so that you can go enjoy those things you like.
Posted by The Torch
DFW The Dub
Member since Aug 2014
23969 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:16 am to
Because they have that slit and know nothing feels like it so they have the power.
Posted by Gimme back that fish
Member since May 2010
380 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:16 am to
There are probably other things besides this that caused the friction. If other “little things” aren’t dealt with, then small stuff like this will become a “big” issue.
Posted by Paddyshack
Land of the Free
Member since Sep 2015
10749 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:17 am to
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I'm in the dog house because I didn't smile enough last night at a Christmas musical that lasted 3 hours on a Tuesday night. She asked me if I had a good time and I said not really it was boring.


quote:

Guess I'm the a-hole forever and always

You can take solace in knowing that you're not the only a-hole who isn't enjoying a three hour Christmas musical.

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Is it a power trip?

Women have a contrived impression of who they want their man to be. And when you don't meet that unattainable, unannounced expectation, they don't know how to deal with it.

I've told my wife many times "if you think it's that bad at home, go find Mr. Perfect. I want to meet him"
Posted by White Bear
Yonnygo
Member since Jul 2014
16435 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:17 am to
It’s about control rooted in inferiority.
Posted by rd280z
Richmond
Member since Jan 2007
2427 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:18 am to
Learn how to fake it. Saves a lot of headaches.
Posted by WeeWee
Member since Aug 2012
42918 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:19 am to
quote:

Why do women make men do things they don't want to do

and then get mad at us when we are obviously not having a good time


Any man that claims to understand why women do the things they do is a liar, a fool, or both.
Posted by Indefatigable
Member since Jan 2019
33630 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:19 am to
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I'm in the dog house because I didn't smile enough last night at a Christmas musical that lasted 3 hours on a Tuesday night. She asked me if I had a good time and I said not really it was boring.


You've obviously learned nothing about women. Its not hard to give a better answer than that.
Posted by Hawgnsincebirth55
Gods country
Member since Sep 2016
17259 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:20 am to
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I go enjoy it by myself or with others.
this can also be a problem. They don’t like it when you have fun without them
Posted by TDsngumbo
Member since Oct 2011
45877 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:21 am to
Wife and I are the same way. God forbid if she has to sit in Tiger Stadium on a 60 degree evening for three hours with a light breeze but I'm expected to fricking go see Wicked and enjoy it.
Posted by ShoeBang
Member since May 2012
21173 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:21 am to
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“You know this wasn’t really my thing, but the music/lead/choir was pretty/talented/etc and you really seemed to enjoy it, so that makes me happy”.


This, while being the best answer, shows how women are. If I know a friend or family member won’t enjoy something that I do enjoy, I don’t invite them out of respect. Most Women don’t operate like that. As long as they are happy they don’t care that anyone else isn’t.

Thank Christ I didn’t marry a kunt like that.
Posted by Delacroix22
Member since Aug 2013
4437 posts
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:22 am to
I like my slits to be attached to human women I enjoy spending time with and treat me well and respect me

My girlfriend gets dramatic around her period. That’s about it. Snippy and teary. It’s one to two days out of the month so that’s easy to understand.

Some women just like treating others like shite to make them feel better. And this behavior doesn’t start to rear its ugly head until you’re in a committed relationship and they think you’re stuck.

It’s a very slippery slope and you need to nix that behavior the second it occurs.

Women deep down want to lockdown the wildest beast they can find so they can beat you down and tame you and parade you around in your shackles so they can show off to the world “see what regal beast I’ve broken? That’s a testament to my power.”

My friend bought his wife a BRAND new Porsche. With his own money. And within the first week he was drinking coffee in it and a DROP spilled onto his pants and his wife freaked out “OMFG don’t spill coffee in MY car! What are you doing??? You’re so dumb!”

Just absolutely lol
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