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Why do women make men do things they don't want to do
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:10 am
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:10 am
and then get mad at us when we are obviously not having a good time.
Is it a power trip?
Anytime I ask my S/O if she wants to go watch an event like...baseball or football she always says no and I go enjoy it by myself or with others.
I'm in the dog house because I didn't smile enough last night at a Christmas musical that lasted 3 hours on a Tuesday night. She asked me if I had a good time and I said not really it was boring.
Guess I'm the a-hole forever and always
Is it a power trip?
Anytime I ask my S/O if she wants to go watch an event like...baseball or football she always says no and I go enjoy it by myself or with others.
I'm in the dog house because I didn't smile enough last night at a Christmas musical that lasted 3 hours on a Tuesday night. She asked me if I had a good time and I said not really it was boring.
Guess I'm the a-hole forever and always
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:12 am to poncho villa
quote:yes
Guess I'm the a-hole forever and always
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:12 am to poncho villa
Don't know but the majority of women I've been with have acted this way about things. I just learn to never smile or show emotion , so they don't know the difference.
This post was edited on 12/18/24 at 8:13 am
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:12 am to poncho villa
I'd rather sit at home in peace and quiet with the TV on mute than watch a 3 hour long musical 

Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:13 am to poncho villa
Your problem is you’re looking at this matter from a standpoint of logic and reason. Both of these things are foreign to women and shouldn’t be used when trying to understand them.
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:15 am to poncho villa
The Control test. The smartest men master it. I’m working on it.
Remember, women are emotional creatures. If there is no drama they need to manufacture it. Particularly manufactured indignation. Just understand it’s their nature and focus on the parts of your wife you dig. Like when she leaves, lol.
Remember, women are emotional creatures. If there is no drama they need to manufacture it. Particularly manufactured indignation. Just understand it’s their nature and focus on the parts of your wife you dig. Like when she leaves, lol.
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:15 am to poncho villa
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Guess I'm the a-hole forever and always
Probably, but not because you didn’t enjoy it. In those moments, is it more important for you to voice your displeasure even if it hurts her? Was there a way you could have responded that was both true and less blunt?
“You know this wasn’t really my thing, but the music/lead/choir was pretty/talented/etc and you really seemed to enjoy it, so that makes me happy”.
Just something along those lines. Or, you know, keep trying the same thing and expecting different results in the future?

Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:15 am to poncho villa
Poncho my Baw, happy wife happy life.
You must endure 3 hours of shite and like it so that you can go enjoy those things you like.
You must endure 3 hours of shite and like it so that you can go enjoy those things you like.
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:16 am to poncho villa
Because they have that slit and know nothing feels like it so they have the power.
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:16 am to poncho villa
There are probably other things besides this that caused the friction. If other “little things” aren’t dealt with, then small stuff like this will become a “big” issue.
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:17 am to poncho villa
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I'm in the dog house because I didn't smile enough last night at a Christmas musical that lasted 3 hours on a Tuesday night. She asked me if I had a good time and I said not really it was boring.

quote:
Guess I'm the a-hole forever and always
You can take solace in knowing that you're not the only a-hole who isn't enjoying a three hour Christmas musical.
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Is it a power trip?
Women have a contrived impression of who they want their man to be. And when you don't meet that unattainable, unannounced expectation, they don't know how to deal with it.
I've told my wife many times "if you think it's that bad at home, go find Mr. Perfect. I want to meet him"
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:17 am to poncho villa
It’s about control rooted in inferiority.
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:18 am to poncho villa
Learn how to fake it. Saves a lot of headaches.
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:19 am to poncho villa
quote:
Why do women make men do things they don't want to do
and then get mad at us when we are obviously not having a good time
Any man that claims to understand why women do the things they do is a liar, a fool, or both.
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:19 am to poncho villa
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I'm in the dog house because I didn't smile enough last night at a Christmas musical that lasted 3 hours on a Tuesday night. She asked me if I had a good time and I said not really it was boring.
You've obviously learned nothing about women. Its not hard to give a better answer than that.
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:20 am to poncho villa
quote:this can also be a problem. They don’t like it when you have fun without them
I go enjoy it by myself or with others.
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:21 am to poncho villa
Wife and I are the same way. God forbid if she has to sit in Tiger Stadium on a 60 degree evening for three hours with a light breeze but I'm expected to fricking go see Wicked and enjoy it.
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:21 am to Joshjrn
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“You know this wasn’t really my thing, but the music/lead/choir was pretty/talented/etc and you really seemed to enjoy it, so that makes me happy”.
This, while being the best answer, shows how women are. If I know a friend or family member won’t enjoy something that I do enjoy, I don’t invite them out of respect. Most Women don’t operate like that. As long as they are happy they don’t care that anyone else isn’t.
Thank Christ I didn’t marry a kunt like that.
Posted on 12/18/24 at 8:22 am to The Torch
I like my slits to be attached to human women I enjoy spending time with and treat me well and respect me
My girlfriend gets dramatic around her period. That’s about it. Snippy and teary. It’s one to two days out of the month so that’s easy to understand.
Some women just like treating others like shite to make them feel better. And this behavior doesn’t start to rear its ugly head until you’re in a committed relationship and they think you’re stuck.
It’s a very slippery slope and you need to nix that behavior the second it occurs.
Women deep down want to lockdown the wildest beast they can find so they can beat you down and tame you and parade you around in your shackles so they can show off to the world “see what regal beast I’ve broken? That’s a testament to my power.”
My friend bought his wife a BRAND new Porsche. With his own money. And within the first week he was drinking coffee in it and a DROP spilled onto his pants and his wife freaked out “OMFG don’t spill coffee in MY car! What are you doing??? You’re so dumb!”
Just absolutely lol
My girlfriend gets dramatic around her period. That’s about it. Snippy and teary. It’s one to two days out of the month so that’s easy to understand.
Some women just like treating others like shite to make them feel better. And this behavior doesn’t start to rear its ugly head until you’re in a committed relationship and they think you’re stuck.
It’s a very slippery slope and you need to nix that behavior the second it occurs.
Women deep down want to lockdown the wildest beast they can find so they can beat you down and tame you and parade you around in your shackles so they can show off to the world “see what regal beast I’ve broken? That’s a testament to my power.”
My friend bought his wife a BRAND new Porsche. With his own money. And within the first week he was drinking coffee in it and a DROP spilled onto his pants and his wife freaked out “OMFG don’t spill coffee in MY car! What are you doing??? You’re so dumb!”
Just absolutely lol
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