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re: Is it me or is the swinger movement growing like crazy?
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:43 pm to Oates Mustache
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:43 pm to Oates Mustache
If your wife is going to cheat or leave you locking her in the house from the outside world and allowing her no access to other humans isn't going to stop it. If they want to leave they will regardless of any 'controls' you try to put on them. That's what makes this so funny. They are more likely to seek out other people when trying to be suppressed.
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Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:44 pm to Cromulent
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You really are a full of shite 16 year old. What a loser you are.
Why are you so mad?
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:44 pm to beebefootballfan
Can’t say I know or care what other people do with their sex lives
This post was edited on 5/15/24 at 1:45 pm
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:46 pm to ronricks
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If your wife is going to cheat or leave you locking her in the house from the outside world and allowing her no access to other humans isn't going to stop it. If they want to leave they will regardless of any 'controls' you try to put on them. That's what makes this so funny. They are more likely to seek out other people when trying to be suppressed.
I've never said I lock her up in the house. Your exaggerated responses like this are a bad take. Maybe it's because you're engaging in meaningless sex with 500 women, and nothing deeper, you don't understand how or why we put barriers in place. You should though, because if 500 is your sex count, you've likely charmed the pants off a few married chicks, maybe unknowingly.
Let me put in a simple question. Do you think, given enough access to a happily married woman, you could over time convince her to cheat. Pretty straight forward.
This post was edited on 5/15/24 at 1:50 pm
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:53 pm to Oates Mustache
Its as simple as respect.
If your wife respects you, she will not fall out of line.
If your wife respects you, she will not fall out of line.
This post was edited on 5/15/24 at 1:53 pm
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:55 pm to ronricks
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That's what makes this so funny. They are more likely to seek out other people when trying to be suppressed.
I disagree 100%. If you act like it’s ok they will convince themselves that you don’t care and are neglecting them. Which will lead to them assuming you are cheating. With that justification they will be open to all sorts of manipulation that ultimately leads to them getting raw dogged by Jody.
Obviously there is a line between overprotective paranoid jealousy but having firm boundaries will not lead to her having affair. It won’t necessarily keep her from having an affair if she’s so inclined but no way it causes an affair.
This post was edited on 5/15/24 at 1:56 pm
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:56 pm to jizzle6609
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Its as simple as respect.
If your wife respects you, she will not fall out of line.
I agree.
Respect means not texting a male "friend", which evolves into something more. Respect means not having one on one lunches, dinners, etc. with male "friends". These are just two examples of that respect, which goes both ways.
I'm not suggesting you're naive, but I'm surprised that more posters here think guys (of which you are one) can't seduce a woman given enough time and access. Do none of you have game?
This post was edited on 5/15/24 at 1:58 pm
Posted on 5/15/24 at 1:57 pm to Oates Mustache
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I've never said I lock her up in the house. Your exaggerated responses like this are a bad take.
In the past on here you gleefully told us how your wife is not allowed to do very much. It was really weird how excitedly you described it
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Do you think, given enough access to a happily married woman, you could over time convince her to cheat. Pretty straight forward.
Have no interest in such. In fact, its actually married women that seek out men more than men seeking out married women. The statistics tell us such. If your wife is going to cheat the likelihood is she will be the predator not the prey. I was at 100 after high school. 300 after college. Can I say I have never had sex with a married woman? Not for sure but I can tell you this I haven't done it knowingly because that is not what I am interested in and I also am not interested in women that have had children because just like Elvis Presley I can't perform on a woman that has birthed a child it is some mental block. I just don't want anything to do with it. So, at 44 my options are much smaller than they were when I was younger and I won't date anyone over 32 anyway. My only rule is no children and I'm not crazy about dating anyone that has even been divorced either. Hope this helps explain things. If you think I am out there seeking married women with stretchmarks and damage from having children you are sadly mistaken.
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:01 pm to ronricks
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Have no interest in such.
I didn't ask if you had an interest, I asked if you thought you could accomplish that end. Fact is, there are guys out there doing just that for trophies. Just because you don't desire it doesn't mean you couldn't accomplish it.
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you gleefully told us how your wife is not allowed to do very much.
Wtf, no I didn't. You have me confused with another poster in that thread. Or maybe you just misunderstood me. My SO does pretty much what she wants.
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:01 pm to Oates Mustache
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Do none of you have game?
You don’t even need game. Most women who are texting a dude will do most of the heavy lifting. First girl I made out with had to take my hand and put it on her tit. Boy I’ll never forget college graduation party!!! Lol.
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:20 pm to beebefootballfan
I worked with a guy whose wife was bisexual and she was nice looking. She would go on dates with women while he stayed behind with the kids. She would send him pictures and video of the fun. He couldn't participate but could watch at times and they went to a swinger's club out in NOLA a few times. Seemed like a beta guy but I won't lie, girl on girl porn is a top 3 watch for me
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:22 pm to Oates Mustache
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I didn't ask if you had an interest, I asked if you thought you could accomplish that end.
I mean its possible? But that actually takes two to tango. I'm just not interested. I'm pretty boring these days and have been for years now. I don't put too much effort into meeting women as I have a specific type I like and again, I am very limited in the scope of what I am willing to date - just personal preference. I was after what I thought was a Latina at the gym because some baw on here a few weeks back in a dating thread was talking up the Latina's as long term girlfriends well long story short she wasn't a Latina she is 'Palestinian'
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:33 pm to Robin Masters
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Yup. You hang out at the barbershop long enough eventually you’re gonna get in the chair for a haircut. I started chatting on Instagram with an old girlfriend several years ago who was happily married to a rich husband. She had two kids and a seemingly perfect life. Talked all the time about how great her husband was and how much she loved him. Took about two months and she was masterbating during our texts and sending me pics and videos of her self. It happened very quickly and I was stunned. I kept it up longer than I should and I’m not proud of that but it will absolutely happen if you start down the road.
There’s also the “taboo” element that comes into play. It’s pretty well documented that taboo things can often be a turn on. In a twisted ironic sense, it’s the fact that you shouldn’t having an affair that makes it all the more enticing to people.
This post was edited on 5/15/24 at 2:52 pm
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:37 pm to JiminyCricket
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There’s also the “taboo” element that comes into play. It’s pretty well documented that taboo things can often be a turn on. It a twisted ironic sense, it’s the fact that you shouldn’t having an affair that makes it all the more enticing to people.
Undoubtedly.
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:38 pm to JiminyCricket
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Let's be honest, most men only want to talk to women if they want to bone them.
You would think a big dick ladies man who has bedded plenty of married women would know this. That's the problem with being full of shite, it gets tough to keep up with all of the shite spewed.
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:38 pm to JiminyCricket
What's the verdict - is this a real thing? I agree with a poster who said his stomach drops at the thought of his wife with another man.
I could never handle that, it's horrendous.
I could never handle that, it's horrendous.
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:39 pm to beebefootballfan
Lot of old people are swingers. Look at Florida, the Villages. They don’t care if some other dude screws their wife if they get to screw his. The women are past menopause and no kids are coming from it, so why not?
It’s not for me, but there could be a demographic twist to it also.
It’s not for me, but there could be a demographic twist to it also.
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:40 pm to Jenious
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swinger's club out in NOLA
Colette's. Wife and I have been there once. We were out at a bar that was nearby and some girl that was talking to my wife brought us there. While we didn't partake in any activities, the upstairs was very intense. I was sitting next to an older guy watching his very hot wife get railed by a younger guy. After they were done, she came up to him, kissed him and said "See, that wasn't so bad after all". The poor guy just gave out a miserable half hearted attempt at a chuckle.
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:40 pm to JiminyCricket
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sending me pics and videos of her self
Posted on 5/15/24 at 2:44 pm to jchamil
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You would think a big dick ladies man who has bedded plenty of married women would know this. That's the problem with being full of shite, it gets tough to keep up with all of the shite spewed.
I haven't slept with any married women. I made that very clear.
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