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re: Has the dating scene gotten worse lately?
Posted on 3/27/24 at 5:28 pm to BK Lounge
Posted on 3/27/24 at 5:28 pm to BK Lounge
quote:id challenge this a bit in that what you are describing is the dating scene in a lot of poorer suburban areas but not the dating scene everywhere
We are all different, but im not interested in single mothers.. and im not interested in overweight women.. when people like myself and others advocate looking overseas to find women, or becoming ‘passport bros’ (even though i hate labels)- it’s becuase the women we as Western ‘average’ American guys can pull overseas is generally younger and hotter than what is available on dating apps , or even in real life- here in the US if you are a guy over, say, 35 years old .. any of us can pull some 38 yr old or 42 yr old chick with a dumpy arse and 2 or 3 kids- but who wants that ??
you do not need to go to another country to find an abundance of younger more attractive woman on dating apps, you may have to leave south Louisiana though, or places of similar circumstance
Posted on 3/27/24 at 5:40 pm to ThePoo
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id challenge this a bit in that what you are describing is the dating scene in a lot of poorer suburban areas but not the dating scene everywhere you do not need to go to another country to find an abundance of younger more attractive woman on dating apps, you may have to leave south Louisiana though, or places of similar circumstance
I hear you, but if youre an older guy, or hell, even if you are a younger guy- you are looking at A LOT of work and effort to date young, beautiful Western women… as a guy who has lived in America as well as in other countries and has seen the drastic, night-and-day difference in the dating scenes, i will sum it up for you like this: In America, you have to chase the beautiful women.. in many other countries, such as the ones in South America and in Asia- the beautiful women chase YOU .. and that, my friend, makes all the difference .
Posted on 3/27/24 at 5:58 pm to BK Lounge
They chasing you or the lifestyle they think you can lead them to?
The women I have met in central and South America are definitely looking for tickets to the US, at least the young ones were
Never been to Asia
The women I have met in central and South America are definitely looking for tickets to the US, at least the young ones were
Never been to Asia
This post was edited on 3/27/24 at 6:00 pm
Posted on 3/27/24 at 5:58 pm to BK Lounge
Chase a check never Chase a bitch
Posted on 3/27/24 at 6:54 pm to BK Lounge
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i would seriously wonder about the caliber of women yall were getting dates with…
Some were trash that hid it well in photos. Most were "meh". I met a few that were amazing women, but that I just wasn't feeling it. Ended up meeting Mrs. Tantal who is female perfection personified. Yes, she was a single mother with 3 kids; however, these weren't from random bar hook-ups. She had been with her husband for 20 years to have the 3 kids. I was in no position to cast stones as I was a single dad with 3 kids, all with the same woman. Things have worked out perfectly. Her kids are good kids and we've never even had a significant disagreement, much less an actual argument.
Obligatory pic of wife:
This post was edited on 3/27/24 at 7:18 pm
Posted on 3/27/24 at 6:59 pm to ThePoo
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They chasing you or the lifestyle they think you can lead them to?
Makes zero difference to me.. They might see me as a walking ATM or as a provider, that’s ok becuase what i notice first about them is their youth and beauty.. it works both ways.. and then maybe love grows.. Maybe .. That part isnt much different than dating in the West, it’s just that the odds are more tilted in our favor in other parts of the world .
Posted on 3/27/24 at 7:02 pm to Midget Death Squad
Guess that’s where we differ
Posted on 3/27/24 at 7:04 pm to BK Lounge
FYI, they don't need to be a literal immigrant. Many 1st or 2nd generation still have those appreciative ladylike values that were instilled in them from their parents and culture.
This post was edited on 3/27/24 at 7:26 pm
Posted on 3/27/24 at 7:11 pm to ThePoo
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Guess that’s where we differ
So you think American women are looking for the ‘inner beauty of your soul’ or at your ‘altruistic nature’ or something ? Do i have that right ? Have you read thru this thread.. Lots of truths in here.. you can talk about Asian /South American women looking for guys with money, but if you dont think American/Western women are just as bad, or worse- then you are deluding yourself .
Posted on 3/27/24 at 7:18 pm to Chicken
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I have single guy friends that are nitpicky about the women they date...don't make this just about women.
I'm actually defending women against red-pill assumptions that theyre infinitely vain and shallow about dating choices. Yes, there are high maintenance snobby women, but there are also tons of women who feign snobbery and with a little nudging will drop the snob act.
Posted on 3/27/24 at 7:39 pm to rintintin
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FYI, they don't need to be a literal immigrant. Many 1st or 2nd generation still have those appreciative ladylike values that were instilled in them from their parents and culture.
Where is your spicy Latina from?
Posted on 3/27/24 at 7:46 pm to BK Lounge
Woah that’s quite the strawman
All relationships should be mutually beneficial. Do I think there are women that look to date a man that can offer security, companionship, leadership, stability, protection, a family? I do
I don’t think all relationships with women are some form of prostitution one way or another, I am not jaded enough to think all woman want one or two things. My dating experience has not been as such. The relationships I am surrounded by are not as such. That does not make me deluded
Do I think that my chances of finding a woman in America that isn’t looking for a ticket to America is higher yes, because they live in America.
Do I think my chances of dating a woman that makes just as much as me and doesn’t need my money is higher in America than in poorer countries or non western countries? Yes
No idea what you mean by “do I have the right?” You have the right to do whatever you want as long as it’s legal
I was just agreeing to disagree, what you want from a woman is different than what I want. Don’t know why you have to get so defensive
All relationships should be mutually beneficial. Do I think there are women that look to date a man that can offer security, companionship, leadership, stability, protection, a family? I do
I don’t think all relationships with women are some form of prostitution one way or another, I am not jaded enough to think all woman want one or two things. My dating experience has not been as such. The relationships I am surrounded by are not as such. That does not make me deluded
Do I think that my chances of finding a woman in America that isn’t looking for a ticket to America is higher yes, because they live in America.
Do I think my chances of dating a woman that makes just as much as me and doesn’t need my money is higher in America than in poorer countries or non western countries? Yes
No idea what you mean by “do I have the right?” You have the right to do whatever you want as long as it’s legal
I was just agreeing to disagree, what you want from a woman is different than what I want. Don’t know why you have to get so defensive
Posted on 3/27/24 at 7:49 pm to bhtigerfan
I think that saying only applies to white ladies who have sex with black men. Due to the big black dicks.
Posted on 3/27/24 at 7:56 pm to Bayou_Tiger_225
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Find an Asian woman
That’s a low percentage game. Find a group of Asians and not only do you find the one you’re attracted to but you need to “know” which one accepts the moves of a white boy.
Each group has one. You can’t even fall back on drinking till the fat ones cute. The fat one still may want nothing to do with a white boy.
Posted on 3/27/24 at 8:06 pm to LSU alum wannabe
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The fat one still may want nothing to do with a white boy.
Statistically speaking, Asian women LOVE white dudes. Not just in SE Asia where there's the income dynamic, but here in the U.S. as well. It pisses Asian dudes off to no end because white men earn almost as much as they do, but are generally much taller and more muscular. It's difficult for them to compete.
Posted on 3/27/24 at 8:38 pm to ThePoo
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No idea what you mean by “do I have the right?” You have the right to do whatever you want as long as it’s legal
Reading comprehension, bro.. re-read my post.. i said “Do i have THAT right ?”.. meaning i wanted to be clear on where you are coming from .
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Don’t know why you have to get so defensive
Not at all.. i thought we were actually having a pretty civil discussion.. maybe you are projecting .
Posted on 3/27/24 at 8:49 pm to BK Lounge
I thought there was some pretty heavy implication (if not essentially outright stating)that if I didn’t agree with your opinion on American women (and let’s be honest, it’s not a flattering opinion) as compared to foreign women, that I was deluding myself
If you call that projection so be it
We clearly want different things from women and have different experiences with them. Which is why a difference in a opinion on this should not be considered “deluded”
If you call that projection so be it
We clearly want different things from women and have different experiences with them. Which is why a difference in a opinion on this should not be considered “deluded”
This post was edited on 3/27/24 at 8:50 pm
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