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re: Are Young Men Truly Lost?

Posted on 10/1/23 at 7:54 pm to
Posted by Tear It Up
The Deadening
Member since May 2005
13491 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 7:54 pm to
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Ryona (???), is a Japanese term for a sexual complex where a female character is, usually sexually, attacked or tortured by either a man or another female character(s).


Just curious- have you ever abused animals/pets in your past?
Posted by EarlyCuyler3
Appalachia
Member since Nov 2017
27290 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 7:54 pm to
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You only learn to interact with women by interacting with women. Get some friends and go out one night and talk shite to everyone at the bar (without getting your arse kicked). Don’t hit on them…just talk shite. You need some reps.


Or just talk to them in general.

It sounds like you just need some socialization practice.
Posted by Old Money
Member since Sep 2012
36691 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 7:56 pm to
Anyone who is out of touch with modern dating doesn’t understand how bad it actually is.
Posted by OceanTiger83
Member since Jul 2023
192 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 7:57 pm to
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Just curious- have you ever abused animals/pets in your past?


Absolutely never. I mean yes I've killed bugs and ants in my place but other than that absolutely not. And I think we've all killed bugs and ants in our places of residence.
Posted by greenbean
USAF Retired
Member since Feb 2019
4732 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 7:59 pm to
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I don't really have the money currently to go overseas. Right now the only option for me would be to go the prostitute/escort route which I have considered. Sad that's most likely what it will come to, having to pay for it.



Errybody pays for it, brother. Find you a good prostitute and hook up with her every couple of weeks. If I was single that's what I'd do.
Posted by Bayou
CenLA
Member since Feb 2005
37008 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 7:59 pm to
YES

Those without Christ
Posted by ThatMakesSense
Fort Lauderdale
Member since Aug 2015
14840 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 7:59 pm to
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Find you a good prostitute and hook up with her every couple of weeks. If I was single that's what I'd do.


Wow. That’s depressing.
Posted by Tear It Up
The Deadening
Member since May 2005
13491 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 8:00 pm to
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Absolutely never. I mean yes I've killed bugs and ants in my place but other than that absolutely not. And I think we've all killed bugs and ants in our places of residence


Good.

Have you ever been caught stealing, wearing or smelling women’s underwear? Have you ever purchased unwashed panties online?
Posted by chalmetteowl
Chalmette
Member since Jan 2008
48075 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 8:01 pm to
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The problem is online dating really only works for the top 20% of men and if you aren't in that top 20% you are essentially invisible.


Just be in that top 20%.

Men have to earn their woman and keep their woman. It’s not the old days anymore where they’d get one just for existing
This post was edited on 10/1/23 at 8:03 pm
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
63807 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 8:04 pm to
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Just be in that top 20%.


Even if all men upped their game, what do the other 80% do?
Posted by SquatchDawg
Cohutta Wilderness
Member since Sep 2012
14313 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 8:10 pm to
OP…give us some basic info.

Rough age? Edit..39…got it
Do you have a job? What type?
Do you have a wingman that can function in a social setting?
What size town do you live in?
Are you in decent shape? Skinny plays better than fat.
This post was edited on 10/1/23 at 8:12 pm
Posted by Lester Earl
Member since Nov 2003
279379 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 8:14 pm to
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Plus I've played nice guy for too long on these apps


The internet isn’t real and internet dating partly isn’t either. There are too many labels and it is too easy to filter. It is easy for women to be militant feminists on the internet. It’s a lot harder to deny human connections without the labels & filters
Posted by G2160
houston
Member since May 2013
1771 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 8:17 pm to
I’m married with kids now, but met my wife online a decade ago. Online sucks, but it can be effective…well, a decade ago it could.

You don’t have any confidence and women can see it like a giant red flashing light. They will sniff it out before they even meet you.

You need to go out with a bunch of low hanging fruit and get actual confidence. Consider it practice. This whole deal is a game, and women want to play (I’ve had multiple tell me the game is stupid, but it is what it is). There is a loose strategy to it. Rules 1 and 2 are have confidence and don’t be weird.

Until you get any confidence, you’re wasting your time.

And never, under any circumstances, talk about that anime fetish with a woman you care to see again.
This post was edited on 10/1/23 at 8:20 pm
Posted by Mike da Tigah
Bravo Romeo Lima Alpha
Member since Feb 2005
59086 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 8:20 pm to
I am no longer in the dating world, but if men are going to compromise their manhood for the sake of getting a female, then quite honestly, you’re much better off without American women all together, and just look overseas for a mate, or pick up a straggler in a solid country church outside the urban garbage culture, one that is completely sold out to traditional roles of men and women. It’s not going to be worth mentally castrating yourself to appease these women who simply cannot be made happy, because once you’re their little bitch, they’ll never respect you, and walk all over you, probably cheating on you looking for an actual real man, which is what they really want, no matter what stupid nonsense comes out of their mouths.


Be an alpha, and let that cull the herd for you.


Posted by johnnyrocket
Ghetto once known as Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2013
9790 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 8:22 pm to
Problem is people text and are not use to face to face interaction.

Extroverts, never have a problem.
Disadvantage is for the introverts.
They are not as outgoing.

Then sometimes people meet each other in mysterious ways.
Posted by PrecedentedTimes
Member since Dec 2020
3128 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 8:24 pm to
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You all do realize these fantasies aren't about real people right? It's typically about animated video game characters or at worst superheroines in a TV show or movie. We're not talking about real woman getting humiliated or beat up here. And heck a lot of times the ryona shots are fictional women beating up other fictional women. More and more of it from what I've heard is actually becoming AI generated. Obviously I wouldn't let a woman know until we were dating but I would never treat a woman with anything but respect and care in real life.


Good lord this is some serious lack of self awareness.

Do you have autism?
Posted by chalmetteowl
Chalmette
Member since Jan 2008
48075 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 8:36 pm to
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what do the other 80% do?


Git gud. Maybe the world has changed but it hasn’t changed that much

Btw the OP needs to get help. Seriously
This post was edited on 10/1/23 at 8:39 pm
Posted by LaLadyinTx
Cypress, TX
Member since Nov 2018
6121 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:01 pm to
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Never mind that in the #MeToo age if you're attractive sure the woman won't mind if you approach. If you're even average though not only are you likely to get a no but you're risking public humiliation, getting kicked out of whatever establishment you're in and possibly even being accused of harassment. The risks of blindly approaches are far higher now.


Either you are approaching the wrong women, have an awful approach (cringe), are incredibly awkward (which can still be attractive), or need to up your style. I have seen plenty of not very attractive young men with reasonably attractive young women. You need practice. Do you at least have a friend who is a woman?
Posted by LaLadyinTx
Cypress, TX
Member since Nov 2018
6121 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:07 pm to
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The irony is women have more control and options than ever yet they're more miserable than ever,


This is not at all what I see among my children (ages 31 and 36) and their friends. Not sure why you think women are less happy and more miserable.
Posted by LaLadyinTx
Cypress, TX
Member since Nov 2018
6121 posts
Posted on 10/1/23 at 11:18 pm to
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Frankly, and this board is a huge example of why I write this, a lot of yall are going to end up single and miserable with the way you view women. The lack of respect, especially knowing some of yall have daughters, is gross. I don't know if that's genetic or if it's learned from other shitty men, but it makes me happy that my father was a deadbeat and not someone who gave me a false sense of idealism when it came to women.

And sure, downvote away, soyboy, etc. I'm happily married, have never had issues with understanding attraction, and I expect this to be quoted with the disapproving head shakes and deragotory comments. Again, maybe look at yourself.


You are 100% correct. I see plenty of 20 and 30 somethings that I work with that are happily married. Some have a traditional stay at home mom and some don't. All of them completely seem to feel they are in a partnership. They help each other out with kids, cooking, house and yard work, everything. Sometimes the man makes more money and sometimes it's the woman. It doesn't matter because they respect each other.

They aren't out there longing for some bygone era when the man thought he was king. Thankfully, those days have passed.
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