- My Forums
- Tiger Rant
- LSU Recruiting
- SEC Rant
- Saints Talk
- Pelicans Talk
- More Sports Board
- Fantasy Sports
- Golf Board
- Soccer Board
- O-T Lounge
- Tech Board
- Home/Garden Board
- Outdoor Board
- Health/Fitness Board
- Movie/TV Board
- Book Board
- Music Board
- Political Talk
- Money Talk
- Fark Board
- Gaming Board
- Travel Board
- Food/Drink Board
- Ticket Exchange
- TD Help Board
Customize My Forums- View All Forums
- Show Left Links
- Topic Sort Options
- Trending Topics
- Recent Topics
- Active Topics
Started By
Message
Experienced Overt Racism\Bigotry Recently (a little long)
Posted on 7/13/23 at 4:55 pm
Posted on 7/13/23 at 4:55 pm
I am 59 y/o, life-time resident of medium to small cities in either Alabama or Georgia (with a relatively strong Southern accent. In June, I went to a seminar in Minneapolis. On the last day of my seminar, I plan to walk from the seminar to a restaurant then to my hotel to pick up my bag and take Uber to the airport.
The restaurant was a cool looking place I had walked by multiple times with grass bowling on the roof - Brit's Pub
Brit's Pub website
I go in and they ask me if I want inside or outside. I say "outside," and they tell me up the stairs and out the door and that it is open seating.
I walk out the door and noticed four high-top tables to my left that were in the shade and would allow me to watch people bowl. The two tables on the outside have two people at each and a well-dressed black guy about my age was standing between the two other tables. I looked off to my right and then back to my left, and the black guy was walking off.
So, I walked over between the two tables and not seeing that the guy had left anything at either of the tables, put my computer bag in a chair and was about to sit down. The guy started walking back to the tables.
I picked up my bag and said..."sorry, were you about to sit at one of these tables?" He replied with, "Yes, but I know how you people are about taking other people's stuff."
To be honest, I was a tad stunned. My only reply was "like taking what?" - giving him the opportunity to explain himself (sort of expecting something racial). He said, "like taking land from the Indians."
Before I could reply, he then spun around and as he was walking off said "you take one, and I will take the other."
The only reply I could come up with a that point was to pretty loudly say (ensureing he heard it) "no thanks, I don't want to sit that close to you."
As I was picking up my bag, the one male/female couple sitting there were continuing to talk and clearly did not hear a thing. As I turned in the other direction to get through the chairs, the two ladies clearly did...sitting their eyes wide open and mouths open. I don't know if they heard what the other guy said or just heard a Southern voice say he was not going to sit next to a black guy (likely only one in the place). I just walked on and grabbed me another seat and had a good meal...although steaming.
Either way, I have thought about this a good bit since then, regarding how I should have handled it differently and amazed that it took me almost 60 years to experience or see overt racism/bigotry although I grew up in the deep South and started my education in segregated schools. Also, in hindsight, I should have just laughed in the idiot's face, because, if his goal was to get under my skin, I allowed him to win.
On the bright side, when I was waiting on my flight out of MSP, I recognized Suni Lee (the Olympic champion gymnast who attended Auburn) walking by herself and talked to her...getting a War Eagle without bringing attention to who she was (in her hometown).
Sorry for the length of the story...just thought I would share AND recommend the restaurant. Shepherd's pie was excellent.
The restaurant was a cool looking place I had walked by multiple times with grass bowling on the roof - Brit's Pub
Brit's Pub website
I go in and they ask me if I want inside or outside. I say "outside," and they tell me up the stairs and out the door and that it is open seating.
I walk out the door and noticed four high-top tables to my left that were in the shade and would allow me to watch people bowl. The two tables on the outside have two people at each and a well-dressed black guy about my age was standing between the two other tables. I looked off to my right and then back to my left, and the black guy was walking off.
So, I walked over between the two tables and not seeing that the guy had left anything at either of the tables, put my computer bag in a chair and was about to sit down. The guy started walking back to the tables.
I picked up my bag and said..."sorry, were you about to sit at one of these tables?" He replied with, "Yes, but I know how you people are about taking other people's stuff."
To be honest, I was a tad stunned. My only reply was "like taking what?" - giving him the opportunity to explain himself (sort of expecting something racial). He said, "like taking land from the Indians."
Before I could reply, he then spun around and as he was walking off said "you take one, and I will take the other."
The only reply I could come up with a that point was to pretty loudly say (ensureing he heard it) "no thanks, I don't want to sit that close to you."
As I was picking up my bag, the one male/female couple sitting there were continuing to talk and clearly did not hear a thing. As I turned in the other direction to get through the chairs, the two ladies clearly did...sitting their eyes wide open and mouths open. I don't know if they heard what the other guy said or just heard a Southern voice say he was not going to sit next to a black guy (likely only one in the place). I just walked on and grabbed me another seat and had a good meal...although steaming.
Either way, I have thought about this a good bit since then, regarding how I should have handled it differently and amazed that it took me almost 60 years to experience or see overt racism/bigotry although I grew up in the deep South and started my education in segregated schools. Also, in hindsight, I should have just laughed in the idiot's face, because, if his goal was to get under my skin, I allowed him to win.
On the bright side, when I was waiting on my flight out of MSP, I recognized Suni Lee (the Olympic champion gymnast who attended Auburn) walking by herself and talked to her...getting a War Eagle without bringing attention to who she was (in her hometown).
Sorry for the length of the story...just thought I would share AND recommend the restaurant. Shepherd's pie was excellent.
Posted on 7/13/23 at 4:59 pm to AUauditor
I know it's impossible to avoid, but remember, if he gets an emotional rise out of you he wins. The subject matter is insanity, as you know.
Let him take up NO more of your brain space. He is truly beneath you.
Boo-hoo. Your people were not organized and they lost, and neither of us have anything to do with it. Get the fk over it. If it hadn't been us, it would have been someone else that would have been far worse to them.
Let him take up NO more of your brain space. He is truly beneath you.
Boo-hoo. Your people were not organized and they lost, and neither of us have anything to do with it. Get the fk over it. If it hadn't been us, it would have been someone else that would have been far worse to them.
Posted on 7/13/23 at 5:02 pm to AUauditor
quote:This is the root of your problem.
went to a seminar in Minneapolis
Posted on 7/13/23 at 5:18 pm to AUauditor
I’ve been called every white racial slur in the book on the light rail and light rail platforms downtown when I lived in Minneapolis. I’ve also seen many other huwhite people called the same. It was more common than one would think.
A silver lining was watching the white guilt liberal women nervously fidget and look around for help when it would happen to them or to someone close by.
![](https://images7.memedroid.com/images/UPLOADED996/5e19f4b40f9ed.jpeg)
A silver lining was watching the white guilt liberal women nervously fidget and look around for help when it would happen to them or to someone close by.
![](https://images7.memedroid.com/images/UPLOADED996/5e19f4b40f9ed.jpeg)
Posted on 7/13/23 at 5:29 pm to AUauditor
Should've said, "to the winner goes the spoils"
Posted on 7/13/23 at 6:02 pm to AUauditor
quote:
"Yes, but I know how you people are about taking other people's stuff."
That's not something one normally gets randomly hit with.
Possible good response:
-"You mean like looting?"
Posted on 7/13/23 at 6:22 pm to AUauditor
I live in a mixed race neighborhood.
I just got a new phone and it has a great camera, so when I was walking the other day I paused here and there looking for a photo near a beautiful park in the neighborhood. WELL, I was in one place for a bit. This black elderly woman walked to her door, stood on the porch of her ~$750k house and stared at me as though I needed to be watched. I went ahead and snapped a photo off and proceeded to keep walking.
She thought I must have been up to trouble and should be watched - an absurdity.
Anyway I hope her husband was seeing what all was going on because I am quite certain that he would tell her that I am one of his top 5 or so friends in the neighborhood, maybe the best friend in the neighborhood. As he walks his dogs, we often chat for 10 tp 15 minutes or so - even though he is up in years and usually tells me the same stories over and over.
The lies that have been created by these commie nutcases for the past few decades or so have made many blacks racist, pure racist.
These things also belie their abilities and their intent to "take over" some day. Many have severe complexes about all of these things and the harm caused by LBJ and all of todays commie nutcases along with the evil they have created. Destruction of the nuclear black family, the destruction of many more familied. The lies about violence and who is responsible for perpetrating it. The lies about who COULD even "take over", itself a preposterous demonic fantasy that has been planted in too many heads.
Sad. Disgusting and evil. Hear me, commie nutcases? You are FAR from superior by any measure. I continue to live in truth.
You see this gruesome development almost anywhere. It needs to be gone.
I just got a new phone and it has a great camera, so when I was walking the other day I paused here and there looking for a photo near a beautiful park in the neighborhood. WELL, I was in one place for a bit. This black elderly woman walked to her door, stood on the porch of her ~$750k house and stared at me as though I needed to be watched. I went ahead and snapped a photo off and proceeded to keep walking.
She thought I must have been up to trouble and should be watched - an absurdity.
Anyway I hope her husband was seeing what all was going on because I am quite certain that he would tell her that I am one of his top 5 or so friends in the neighborhood, maybe the best friend in the neighborhood. As he walks his dogs, we often chat for 10 tp 15 minutes or so - even though he is up in years and usually tells me the same stories over and over.
The lies that have been created by these commie nutcases for the past few decades or so have made many blacks racist, pure racist.
These things also belie their abilities and their intent to "take over" some day. Many have severe complexes about all of these things and the harm caused by LBJ and all of todays commie nutcases along with the evil they have created. Destruction of the nuclear black family, the destruction of many more familied. The lies about violence and who is responsible for perpetrating it. The lies about who COULD even "take over", itself a preposterous demonic fantasy that has been planted in too many heads.
Sad. Disgusting and evil. Hear me, commie nutcases? You are FAR from superior by any measure. I continue to live in truth.
You see this gruesome development almost anywhere. It needs to be gone.
This post was edited on 7/13/23 at 6:24 pm
Posted on 7/13/23 at 6:27 pm to AUauditor
The commies are fermenting a race riot. Divide and conquer.
Sadly it will get much worse before it gets better.
Sadly it will get much worse before it gets better.
Posted on 7/13/23 at 6:29 pm to AUauditor
quote:
I just walked on and grabbed me another seat and had a good meal...although steaming.
Meanwhile…
![](https://i.makeagif.com/media/3-07-2018/wfUjKg.gif)
Posted on 7/13/23 at 7:42 pm to AUauditor
you really did not know WTF to say? bruh you need to spend more time here and listen and learn
that is a softball statement from that dunce.
tell him native americans killed each other and enslaved each other and fought over lands waaaaaaay before any euros showed up here. it has happened all over the globe with all people.
here read this
LINK
what is he doing to fight to help free blacks in slavery in africa now??
LINK
does he know the real history of slavery?
LINK
that is a softball statement from that dunce.
tell him native americans killed each other and enslaved each other and fought over lands waaaaaaay before any euros showed up here. it has happened all over the globe with all people.
here read this
LINK
what is he doing to fight to help free blacks in slavery in africa now??
LINK
does he know the real history of slavery?
quote:
My name-changing friend did not know that slavery occurred on every continent except Antarctica. Europeans enslaved other Europeans. Asians enslaved Asians. Africans enslaved other Africans. Arabs enslaved other Arabs. Native Americans even enslaved other Native Americans.
LINK
Posted on 7/13/23 at 9:29 pm to AUauditor
Many times I have said politely and with a smile, "No problem, I am a racist." Only once did the conversation go negative after saying it.
People appreciate honesty.
People appreciate honesty.
Posted on 7/13/23 at 9:35 pm to AUauditor
You should have told him to the victors go the spoils.
Posted on 7/13/23 at 9:43 pm to AUauditor
quote:
o be honest, I was a tad stunned. My only reply was "like taking what?" - giving him the opportunity to explain himself (sort of expecting something racial). He said, "like taking land from the Indians."
Before I could reply, he then spun around and as he was walking off said "you take one, and I will take the other."
"To the victor goes the spoils" As you plop down in your seat with a hearty smile.
Is the only answer
![](https://images.tigerdroppings.com/Images/Icons/IconLOL.gif)
Posted on 7/13/23 at 9:43 pm to AUauditor
That is a long story and I may missed the point. Are you are saying that you are a 59 year old white man living exclusively in small towns in Alabama and Georgia and that you have never have experienced racism? I’m asking because that ain’t possible. If my interpretation of your missive is correct, what you mean to say is that you only now been on the receiving end of what you perceive as racism.
Posted on 7/14/23 at 11:19 am to AUauditor
Should have told the black dude "I'm not the one you have to worry about. The cops around here are the real threat."
Posted on 7/14/23 at 12:24 pm to AUauditor
quote:
He replied with, "Yes, but I know how you people are about taking other people's stuff."
Ironic.
Should have asked him if he knew the theft racial breakdown in the US.
Posted on 7/14/23 at 10:32 pm to AUauditor
Yep, it’s definitely white people who are known for stealing things. Damn racial profiling.
Posted on 7/14/23 at 11:13 pm to AUauditor
At least you didn't apologize. Never apologize when you have done nothing wrong. F their feelings.
Posted on 7/15/23 at 6:03 am to AUauditor
You should have said, “I look damn good for a 150 year-old.
Posted on 7/15/23 at 7:47 am to AUauditor
quote:
how I should have handled it differently
My go-to when confronted with angry racists is just to smile and say "cool" and then go on about my business. What they want more than anything is a reaction and to ruin your day.
Popular
Back to top
![logo](https://images.tigerdroppings.com/images/layout/TDIcon.jpg)