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Posted on 7/18/22 at 3:42 pm
Posted by Barbellthor
Columbia
Member since Aug 2015
8640 posts
Posted on 7/18/22 at 3:42 pm
No longer. Suffice it to say, my wife (def no pics) has a condition such that a baby boy has a 50% chance of death/miscarriage. On ultrasound today, he was no longer with us. No heartbeat.

Not a gotcha post for the picking from the post a few weeks ago. That's just funny and good conversation. It's just a reminder to be always thankful for the good times and good things you do have, not to be bitter and mad or sad about what you don't. That's the lesson and point of this follow up post. Little Jameson has been a blessing for the short time he was with us.

I'll be fine. But it's tough for his momma.
Send her some prayers. She doesn't deserve this. She's in an obviously more...direct position. And especially send some prayers for him on his way. Love your loved ones and all that hippie stuff.
Posted by LordSnow
Your Mom's House
Member since May 2011
5536 posts
Posted on 7/18/22 at 3:43 pm to
damn, I came in here to ridicule. I cant fap to this...
Posted by Chad504boy
4 posts
Member since Feb 2005
166864 posts
Posted on 7/18/22 at 3:43 pm to
quote:

my wife (def no pics) has a condition such that a baby boy has a 50% chance of death/miscarriage.


your wife got a sister you can make a baby with?
Posted by auwaterfowler
Alabama
Member since Jan 2020
1983 posts
Posted on 7/18/22 at 3:44 pm to
Many moons ago, my wife had 2 miscarriages before her doctors got things figured out (progesterone deficiency). Most of the people around you just don’t have any sort of understanding of what y’all are going through, which makes it tough. Prayers going up right now.
This post was edited on 7/18/22 at 3:54 pm
Posted by L1C4
The Ville
Member since Aug 2017
13314 posts
Posted on 7/18/22 at 3:44 pm to
Sorry for your loss. Hold your wife tight.
Posted by Thracken13
Aft Cargo Hold of Serenity
Member since Feb 2010
16129 posts
Posted on 7/18/22 at 3:45 pm to
my friend, I do not know you, but in the truest sense of the words i an conveying, condolences to you both. I cannot imagine what you are going through.

my wife and I want kids very much so, but we are likely incapable of it - as sobering as that concept is, I cannot fathom having what happened to you.

i am sending all the positivity your way I can. good luck man, we may all be bastards here, but we look out for our own.
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
84377 posts
Posted on 7/18/22 at 3:45 pm to
Sorry to ear that. We had a couple miscarriages, albeit early in the pregnancies. They aren't easy, and we were never at the point where we would have known there was an issue.
Posted by Mike da Tigah
Bravo Romeo Lima Alpha
Member since Feb 2005
59001 posts
Posted on 7/18/22 at 3:48 pm to
Sorry man. I know that’s tough on you both. I’ll definitely send up prayers for you both though.
Posted by LCA131
Home of the Fake Sig lines
Member since Feb 2008
72632 posts
Posted on 7/18/22 at 3:48 pm to
I'll assume this is straight up. Sorry for your loss and lifting you guys up today and for a bit.
Hang in there, God's plan for you two will come to pass.

You two be there for each other. Your losses are different, yet equally painful and important.
Posted by vl100butch
Ridgeland, MS
Member since Sep 2005
34687 posts
Posted on 7/18/22 at 3:49 pm to
that's a rough go...I've lived through a similar experience, hold her close!!!!
Posted by jimmy the leg
Member since Aug 2007
34660 posts
Posted on 7/18/22 at 3:49 pm to
Sorry for your circumstances amigo.

I hope that you and your missus find some peace.
Posted by CamdenTiger
Member since Aug 2009
62627 posts
Posted on 7/18/22 at 3:52 pm to
Getting pregnant and wanting it to live…. You are a lucky man in this day in time….
Posted by ChuckUFarley
Up in heh!
Member since Jun 2022
314 posts
Posted on 7/18/22 at 3:52 pm to
My wife wants a baby more than anything and its just not in the cards I guess. I am so sorry to hear about this for you and your wife. Prayers sent
Posted by clickboom
Shreveport
Member since Sep 2012
209 posts
Posted on 7/18/22 at 3:53 pm to
Very sorry to hear that, my wife and I had three miscarriages before we had our first. Those ultrasounds are absolutely brutal. It is a very tough and dark time for the mom and can weigh very heavily on you as well. All you can do is be there for her and remain positive. I do not wish that experience on my own worst enemy. I truly hope there is a light at the end of the tunnel for you all. We have two beautiful kids now and they are an absolute blessing. Thoughts and prayers for you and your wife.
Posted by CocomoLSU
Inside your dome.
Member since Feb 2004
150918 posts
Posted on 7/18/22 at 3:53 pm to
quote:

On ultrasound today, he was no longer with us. No heartbeat.

Damn, sorry to hear that. Wife and I thought we lost our little one several times while she was pregnant, but thankfully he made it and is as good as ever. But in those moments I was pretty terrified. One thing that comforted me was how many people I know that have lost babies before. It is apparently FAR more common than I ever would've thought.

Keep your head up, man. Hopefully the next one will work out.
Posted by WildTchoupitoulas
Member since Jan 2010
44071 posts
Posted on 7/18/22 at 3:54 pm to
My mother's first pregnancy ended in a rather late miscarriage. Dad said the best cure is to get right back on it and make another one.

Best of luck!
Posted by TooFyeToFly
Atlanta, Georgia
Member since Nov 2012
1266 posts
Posted on 7/18/22 at 3:55 pm to
I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll be rooting for yall and sending good energy your way.
Posted by tigergirl10
Member since Jul 2019
10326 posts
Posted on 7/18/22 at 3:55 pm to
Praying for your family and your beautiful baby boy.
Posted by Mstate
Birmingham
Member since Nov 2009
9712 posts
Posted on 7/18/22 at 3:56 pm to
My wife and I had dealt with a similar situation recently and it really sucked especially for her. Thoughts and prayers my friend
Posted by cheobode
Member since Dec 2017
1180 posts
Posted on 7/18/22 at 3:56 pm to
I know what you're going through. My wife had three miscarriages and every single one, she blamed me. Mad at me. I wasn't crying enough, etc. It was hell but we got through it. Prayers.
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