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re: Where did boomer and gen-x dad's go wrong raising their daughters?

Posted on 8/11/24 at 11:55 am to
Posted by DocSavage
New Orleans
Member since Nov 2005
346 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 11:55 am to
Many Boomer and Gen x mothers were/are drug addicted sluts, at a level unseen compared to the generation who raised them. They undermined any attempts at reining in their daughters.
Posted by Tasseo
Member since Feb 2024
3252 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 12:03 pm to
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Where did boomer and gen-x dad's go wrong raising their daughters?

Let's not forget that the gen-x fathers learned from their boomer fathers, so still all points to boomers. Women need to be to blame too.

I will say one thing that needs to be considered is how many good men were killed in wars leaving mothers to be single mothers so fathers not around. Not the same issue we see today of slutty girls with daddy issues being left single mothers so the future is bleak.

Keep up with the politically correct white guilt
Posted by Bigdawgb
Member since Oct 2023
3241 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 12:44 pm to
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Are we supposed to want uneducated women with no passions of their own outside of domestic roles?


People can't meet in the middle and find common ground if you push the argument to its most extreme case. It's just a silly red herring that has no place here.

I think most guys want a "nice, comfortable girl," to quote the Music Man.

Someone who makes life better, isn't a burden, and gives them a dose of girliness & feminity that they can't get from hanging with the boys. Someone loyal, level headed, and wise. There's a lot of room for variety within that framework and most guys love a quirky chick to boot.
Posted by FrontlineTiger
Member since Aug 2024
631 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 1:13 pm to
It starts at a very young age. Get to know who's teaching your kid in Elementary on up. Especially pay attention to your local school boards...
Posted by burger bearcat
Member since Oct 2020
10314 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 1:21 pm to
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People can't meet in the middle and find common ground if you push the argument to its most extreme case. It's just a silly red herring that has no place here


People are human beings after all. We aren't made in a factory. Everyone wants to point out this exception or this or that.
I am not trying to say there is some lockstep, rigid criteria for every situation and every family.

But it's about a general direction and behavior. Some families may require the mom to work, maybe the father is medically is sick, injured or whatever. All kinds of scenarios.

The general idea, is that men and women are different and should take on different roles.
Posted by LSUSkip
Central, LA
Member since Jul 2012
24717 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 1:22 pm to
In my opinion? Not enough church.

Women that are steadfast in their Christianity do not end up like these women.
Posted by blueboy
Member since Apr 2006
62790 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 1:23 pm to
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It's good to live life, have passions, pursue gainful employment and maybe even a career, all while being prepared to sacrifice some of that for a family.

Again, where do you clowns come from?

All of the most successful women I know have children. Every single one of them. The notion that a woman can't have children and success is a leftist lie designed to discourage families, especially among white westerners.

Maybe stop and use your head, realize it's bullshite, and STFU.
Posted by StPeteLSU
St Petersburg, FL
Member since Oct 2011
2039 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 1:24 pm to
My brother did some substitute teaching for extra cash in Austin. He was shocked at what he saw. Immediately moved his family about 20 miles north of Austin and home schooled his kids until done with 8th grade and he instilled the right values so the indoctrination would not work Then they ended up in a high school that was dominant maga and his kids are ultra MAGA.
Posted by Lsupimp
Ersatz Amerika-97.6% phony & fake
Member since Nov 2003
85198 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 1:30 pm to
I had this conversation yesterday. I think most girls who have a father in the home turned out pretty well. But as for those who didn’t, as someone who raised three children, you can’t really compete with the sheer volume of the popular culture in the internet age. They are inundated with Correct Think.

You have to focus on CHARACTER and ETHICS. I use that term instead of morality intentionally because they have been conditioned to resist any mention of morality but fully accept ethics. Going to a place of worship and discussing spirituality is part of that. But in the end, just like every generation before then, the responsibility is on them.
Posted by keks tadpole
Yellow Leaf Creek
Member since Feb 2017
8454 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 1:41 pm to
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Congrats on your daughter being the exception. It's called making a generalized statement, it may not apply to everyone.

with respect, maybe your opinion shouldn't be so "generalized" my two mid-twenty daughters (no pics frickoff) graduated from Jesuit institutions without straying from our families very slightly left-or-right of center beliefs, are morally grounded, financially independent, understand compound interest and the importance of actually raising the hood and checking the oil with the dip-stick, as well as know the best way to evacuate from a flaming shite-hole city without getting raped or killed.

Realistically what percentage of young women between the ages of 25 to 35 have been radically changed in terms of the beliefs they were raised to live by as opposed to social media and progressive intuitional indoctrination due to a lack of guidance from a father figure after they enter early adulthood?
This post was edited on 8/11/24 at 1:46 pm
Posted by Wally Sparks
Atlanta
Member since Feb 2013
32401 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 1:49 pm to
My millennial wife (no pics) raised by a boomer dad makes me look like Karl Marx
Posted by DesScorp
Alabama
Member since Sep 2017
9504 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 1:58 pm to
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wanting a girl to get a career


Is telling her to marry a corporation.
Posted by themunch
bottom of the list
Member since Jan 2007
71268 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 2:00 pm to
I did not. Hope you all have good fortune.
Posted by DesScorp
Alabama
Member since Sep 2017
9504 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 2:04 pm to
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Are we supposed to want uneducated women with no passions of their own outside of domestic roles?


A woman that is “passionate about her career” will never put husband and family first. This attitude will be passed to the daughters, and in two generations you'll be wondering why your line ended.
Posted by Wolfwireless
Member since Aug 2024
4783 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 2:09 pm to
Millennial are not affected by this.

I would argue that. I don't recommend TikTok, but that platform is full of millennial whining, crying, and rampaging under the progressive mind virus.
Take a look at the independent presidential candidate preaching himself as the first millennial president. Candidate, and looks at what platforms he is running on. Primarily progressive and left wing issues.
I'm sorry. But oh yes I would argue that.
Posted by Wolfwireless
Member since Aug 2024
4783 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 2:13 pm to
the feminization of Western males


I'm not arguing with some of what you said. You make good points. But there are also other points. Feminism teaching women to destroy a male's masculinity. Female hormones in food, water, and even some prescriptions. Social media. The messaging in modern music.
Again, I'm not saying that you're wrong. I'm only pointing out that there's a larger picture.
Posted by Wolfwireless
Member since Aug 2024
4783 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 2:19 pm to
What do they want?

Well, I can't speak for everybody. But they want what so many of us want. A peaceful return home from a long hard day at work. Somebody we can unwind with, relax with, and share who we are, with.
A partner, who is equal in things, not a one sided relationship. Somebody who will talk with us, not fight with us.
Somebody who doesn't flinch as soon as you reach anywhere near their phone, and provides us with ample reasons to maintain trust.
Posted by Penrod
Member since Jan 2011
51809 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 2:21 pm to
And their sons!
Posted by Wolfwireless
Member since Aug 2024
4783 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 2:32 pm to

Expecting them to be independent sending them to college and having a successful career. Thats pressure on a young woman as she wants to be competitive with grades and moving up the career ladder. Some if not most women are going to have some disorder(anxiety) not naturally able to handle or deal with that like men do.


I agree with what you're saying. Not arguing. But there's a factor left out of that equation. Single mother's raising our boys.
Courts taking our boys away from us, and leaving us with limited exposure to them.
Mine is turning 21 this year. He can't handle emotional issues well, because I wasn't allowed to be around enough to teach him, and toughen him up.
Posted by wadewilson
Member since Sep 2009
40081 posts
Posted on 8/11/24 at 2:54 pm to
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A woman that is “passionate about her career” will never put husband and family first.


That's ridiculous.

She might just have to put her career on hold.

This board just can't handle the idea that some women aren't ready to quit everything to have children and babysit husbands.
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