re: Where did boomer and gen-x dad's go wrong raising their daughters?

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so it is bad for a girl to get a degree in a field that makes money so she is not stuck with no skills and having to rely on some loser boy her whole life?

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That's the problem. Girls need to be taught how to find a good man who will protect her and her family, and provide. Not some loser boy as you described. Marriage is a union, not a partnership.

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tell me you have never seen grown arse women with zero skills stuck in a loser life having to depend on a man trapped.

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Sure, happens all the time. Girls don't know how to identify a good potential husband, because their fsthers failed to teach them or show them, but on the flip side, the good, potential husband's out there aren't really looking for boss baby, stud athletes that have a bunch of degrees and "kick arse"

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Not sure what the frick you are talking about by my 25 year old daughter (no pics frickoffs) undergrad and mba Pediatric pharma care job and is as far right as you can go. To the point of actually working with campaign to ensure grass roots vote unlike the complainers on here who do nothing but spew the same to people who will listen and already in same camp. Now move on.

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Congrats on your daughter being the exception. It's called making a generalized statement, it may not apply to everyone.

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so it is bad for a girl to get a degree in a field that makes money so she is not stuck with no skills and having to rely on some loser boy her whole life?

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Exactly. Well said. I encourage women both liberal and conservative to make their money too. Don’t expect anyone to support you.

While daddy is too busy trying to keep up with his buddies, he wasn't spending enough time raising his kids and setting the important examples.

Also gives them too much freedom.

Alot of parents of today grew up when MTV was during those stupid sweet 16 shows. They think that is what a good parent does. Waste money on foolishness.

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What do they want?

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In a nutshell
Women who act like women. Real men don't want anything to do with some boss chick with an attitude. They want a woman with feminine, nurturing, and supportive qualities.

Believing outside institutional forces share the same values as you.

Does big pharma share the same values as you? Nope.

Educational system? Nope.

Medical system? Nope.

Psychological system? Hell no.

Legal system? Nope.

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Of course not all young women, but so many of them are anxiety ridden, mentally unstable, and very often far left in their politics. And in many cases the fathers if these same girls are often center-right to right wing in their politics and generally of a conservative disposition.

I think in alot of these cases, boomer/genX Dads are not spiritual leaders in any meaningful way. I think many of them lost sight of how they should be raising their daughters. I still see Dad's pushing their daughters away from traditional families and marriages, and wanting them to focus on college, career, sports. And of course the divorces, the broken families, the lack of providing any moral guidance. They may have provided the basics food and shelter, and financially for education and other activities... but basically no meaningful moral or spiritual support whatsoever.

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In a word, feminism.

They embraced feminism and taught their daughters that they were strong, independent, and "didn't need men to take care of them."

I think you're 100% right about not being spiritual leaders as well...I think that's the general problem with feminism being the specific bait they took.

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Of course not all young women, but so many of them are anxiety ridden, mentally unstable, and very often far left in their politics.

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We’ve outsourced the rearing of our children to teachers and therapists.

And we trust the IYIs.

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Yeah, God forbid, a young woman wants to have a career. It’s anti- Christian… lol.

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Feminism is extremely anti-Christian. Specifically and actively so.

You don't know much about 1st and 2nd wave feminism, do you?

And the problem is not "having a career." The problem is prioritizing the career over the family (which can be a problem for men, too).