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re: My Apology to the Board for my Conduct (Why I Am The Result Of Feminism)
Posted on 2/24/17 at 9:12 am to 4cubbies
Posted on 2/24/17 at 9:12 am to 4cubbies
quote:
Eta unless he's just really ugly.
This is also a possibility. If you're going to have low income or poor personality, you better be handsome.
This post was edited on 2/24/17 at 9:13 am
Posted on 2/24/17 at 9:13 am to 4cubbies
quote:How much pussy have you gotten?
The only real solution is to go big.
Terrible. Instead try to get to know women as people and not just orifices for your dick.
Leave this topic to the experts sweetheart.
Posted on 2/24/17 at 9:13 am to Navytiger74
quote:
think we're squarely in the "beggars can't be choosers" zone.
Hence my advice on the OP finding himself a big gurl.
Posted on 2/24/17 at 9:14 am to AnarchySupporter
Alright. I'll bite.
OP, I think you're over-thinking this. From what I can tell, you seem like a sincere guy, and there's nothing wrong with that. That's a good quality. But throw away all the "society" level thinking. It's not helping you. This is a personal issue. Society isn't making you into who you are, and your isolated case is not affecting society. Your own behavior, patterns, and choices make you who you are. So let's focus on you.
I'm going to give you some unsolicited advice. I'm old. I'm a veteran of all of this man/woman/relationship stuff. So this advice is coming from a good source. Yes. Women do like the alpha male personality. But here's the thing. You don't have to be 100% alpha. Even if you're 20% alpha, you can be successful.
You don't have to change your personality from top to bottom. I think you just need to change your approach a little.
Here's two things that will help you:
First, a lot of "nice guys" suffer from a very particular personality trait. They are afraid if they rock the boat... no one is going to like or love them. I want you to think about this real hard. Why is it that you are nice to people? Is it because you are naturally, genuinely nice... or is it because you feel like you should or you have to be nice to win their approval? Think about this real hard. I mean, spend days thinking about it. You might discover the root of why you feel you can't be yourself around women or certain other people. People (women included) aren't always going to abandon you if you speak up for yourself, or if you assert your point of view. Try it. Work on this more. Defeating this line of thinking is really hard, but it's worth the fight.
Second, don't assume that women want someone who does everything they want, when they want it. In my experience, they like it when a man makes a few decisions for them. For example, when you ask a woman out, don't say "Do you want to do something on Friday night? Where do you want to go? Anything is fine with me. I'm flexible." Instead, say, "Hey, I'm going to the LSU baseball game Friday night. I have an extra ticket. I would like you to come." This shows that you are going to the game, regardless of whether she goes or not. You establish yourself as a man who does things on his own, and she's choosing to be part of the adventure.
That's not a huge alpha move. That's just a little alpha move. You have to admit, you don't have to change who you are to do that, right? So do it.
OP, you don't need a radical overhaul. You just need guidance, man.
OP, I think you're over-thinking this. From what I can tell, you seem like a sincere guy, and there's nothing wrong with that. That's a good quality. But throw away all the "society" level thinking. It's not helping you. This is a personal issue. Society isn't making you into who you are, and your isolated case is not affecting society. Your own behavior, patterns, and choices make you who you are. So let's focus on you.
I'm going to give you some unsolicited advice. I'm old. I'm a veteran of all of this man/woman/relationship stuff. So this advice is coming from a good source. Yes. Women do like the alpha male personality. But here's the thing. You don't have to be 100% alpha. Even if you're 20% alpha, you can be successful.
You don't have to change your personality from top to bottom. I think you just need to change your approach a little.
Here's two things that will help you:
First, a lot of "nice guys" suffer from a very particular personality trait. They are afraid if they rock the boat... no one is going to like or love them. I want you to think about this real hard. Why is it that you are nice to people? Is it because you are naturally, genuinely nice... or is it because you feel like you should or you have to be nice to win their approval? Think about this real hard. I mean, spend days thinking about it. You might discover the root of why you feel you can't be yourself around women or certain other people. People (women included) aren't always going to abandon you if you speak up for yourself, or if you assert your point of view. Try it. Work on this more. Defeating this line of thinking is really hard, but it's worth the fight.
Second, don't assume that women want someone who does everything they want, when they want it. In my experience, they like it when a man makes a few decisions for them. For example, when you ask a woman out, don't say "Do you want to do something on Friday night? Where do you want to go? Anything is fine with me. I'm flexible." Instead, say, "Hey, I'm going to the LSU baseball game Friday night. I have an extra ticket. I would like you to come." This shows that you are going to the game, regardless of whether she goes or not. You establish yourself as a man who does things on his own, and she's choosing to be part of the adventure.
That's not a huge alpha move. That's just a little alpha move. You have to admit, you don't have to change who you are to do that, right? So do it.
OP, you don't need a radical overhaul. You just need guidance, man.
Posted on 2/24/17 at 9:15 am to 4cubbies
quote:Look, as a female, you have a good view of society from your side of the fence.
I guess I have a hard time believing that.
Eta unless he's just really ugly.
It is very different from the other side.
Women who sleep around are viewed as "sluts, whores, etc.".
Guys who are virgins are viewed as pathetic and unwanted breeding stock. Hell, he looks at himself that way.
Every aspect of sexual society builds around those views.
All those "romantic movies" you probably love involve that. Outside of 40 year old virgin, how many movies have the virgin as the most wanted figure?
This post was edited on 2/24/17 at 9:16 am
Posted on 2/24/17 at 9:15 am to AnarchySupporter
IF, I repeat IF you think you've got a piece of arse lined up, excuse yourself, go to the bathroom and rub one out. If not, after 30+ years of anticipation, you'll be lucky to even get the tip in before your gun goes off.
This is the best advice anyone has given you in this tread thus far.
This is the best advice anyone has given you in this tread thus far.
Posted on 2/24/17 at 9:16 am to HempHead
quote:
y. If you're going to be have low income or poor personality, you better be handsome.
I still carry guilt about ghosting a really nice guy when I was in college. He tutored me in math for free and asked me out on a date after a few weeks. I was an a-hole and said sure and then just never talked to him again. He was nice but I found him incredibly physically unattractive. He's married to a really ugly woman now and I doubt he remembers me but I hate that I did that him.
I probably should confess that.
Posted on 2/24/17 at 9:17 am to reverendotis
quote:
This is the best advice anyone has given you in this tread thus far.
If he's circumcised and doesn't lube up for 'batin I don't think busting a nut early is going to be a problem.
Posted on 2/24/17 at 9:18 am to AnarchySupporter
This should make you feel real good.
I am a man that scratches his balls, don't care what people think, use to box, if my clothes do not smell dirty then they are clean ( then my wife makes me change if I wear dirty clothes), sometimes I sit in my recliner naked after eating chili, and walk around the house in my underwear.
Guess what I been laid more than this guy and been married over 31 yrs and still married.
Biggest secret be yourself and not what people want you to be. You will be happier and people like to hang with people that are happy with themselves.
I am a man that scratches his balls, don't care what people think, use to box, if my clothes do not smell dirty then they are clean ( then my wife makes me change if I wear dirty clothes), sometimes I sit in my recliner naked after eating chili, and walk around the house in my underwear.
Guess what I been laid more than this guy and been married over 31 yrs and still married.
Biggest secret be yourself and not what people want you to be. You will be happier and people like to hang with people that are happy with themselves.
Posted on 2/24/17 at 9:20 am to johnnyrocket
quote:
This should make you feel real good.
I am a man that scratches his balls, don't care what people think, use to box, if my clothes do not smell dirty then they are clean ( then my wife makes me change if I wear dirty clothes), sometimes I sit in my recliner naked after eating chili, and walk around the house in my underwear.
I sure if he follows this advice, panties will be dropping every time he walks in the room.
Posted on 2/24/17 at 9:20 am to 4cubbies
quote:Said no man ever who's had casual sex.
Casual sex is overrated.
This post was edited on 2/24/17 at 9:24 am
Posted on 2/24/17 at 9:21 am to AnarchySupporter
quote:
So I didn't believe in holding doors open for women, for helping women carry something when they were struggling, paying for dates, telling them they looked nice, etc. I also believed that women should be in combat roles in the military and that if there was ever a military draft again that women should be included.
I'm not sure if you are trolling, but I'll bite.
Politics aside, there are social norms that are expected of you. Women are subject to foolish societal pressures too. Hold the door open for them, pay for a nice dinner, and try to be easy going enough to amuse them. Making them laugh is critical.
I think you need to spend a year or two playing the field before you start looking for something very serious. Consider it practice.
And for God's sake, stop over thinking this.
This post was edited on 2/24/17 at 9:22 am
Posted on 2/24/17 at 9:22 am to bhtigerfan
I mean, I tend to agree to a certain extent that blowing through a trail of women isn't as awesome as it is made out to be, but it's better than not getting laid at all.
Posted on 2/24/17 at 9:22 am to bhtigerfan
quote:
Said no one ever who's had casual sex.
I've had casual sex and made the claim. Don't play up to stereotypes.
.
Posted on 2/24/17 at 9:26 am to AnarchySupporter
quote:
You have to understand why I am the way I am.
I don't know who are are and don't care why you are the way you are. I also didn't read your novel of a post
Posted on 2/24/17 at 9:26 am to AnarchySupporter
Someone should send th is to lex and terry, get this guy on who's more pathetic, and get him a paid trip to the bunny ranch.
Posted on 2/24/17 at 9:26 am to 4cubbies
quote:If any man is mentally damaged by casual sex, he needs some serious therapy.
Casual sex actually might hurt his confidence after he realizes he spent so much time obsessing over something that is actually quite damaging biologically and mentally. For real.
I don't think you know much about men.
This post was edited on 2/24/17 at 9:43 am
Posted on 2/24/17 at 9:29 am to HempHead
Once my number hit 20 I pretty much lost interest in chasing poon. I'm not even cute so I feel there's really no challenge, just need common sense.
You be a nice guy by not being disrespectful, not asking for nudes, having actual convo. Do everything else as a man.
Pro tip. When you're with someone, other women will flock to you. Be clear you're just dating and not in a relationship and watch the p fly in.
You be a nice guy by not being disrespectful, not asking for nudes, having actual convo. Do everything else as a man.
Pro tip. When you're with someone, other women will flock to you. Be clear you're just dating and not in a relationship and watch the p fly in.
This post was edited on 2/24/17 at 9:31 am
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