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Im not sure my dad should hunt by himself...

Posted on 12/11/17 at 12:46 pm
Posted by SportTiger1
Stonewall, LA
Member since Feb 2007
28504 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 12:46 pm
I hope im overreacting, you tell me.

My stepdad just turned 78 years old, but still gets around fairly well. Great man, pays for our entire lease for 6 family members, and works his butt off to make sure we all have a nice place to hunt. But i worry about him constantly.

Last tuesday morning we are all hunting and 'big' buck walks out on his pipeline at about 200 yards. He shoots, then shoots again, then shoots again. Obviously im thinking to myself thats not a good sign.

So my nephew and i go down there to help him look, nothing. I'm 100% sure he missed this 'monster' . I quote monster because he's killed 'monsters' before that turned out to be 2.5 basket 8s. Nevetheless, after questioning the situation, i learn that its been 7 years since he's sighted his gun in. Not to mention, its been knocked over at least a few times. Add to the fact that he picks his gun up by the scope every time, im sure of the problem.

So, he heads off to Academy to get it looked at, and the kid behind the counter advises him that his front ring is completely missing a screw, and the other screw is about to fall out. The kid fixes the rings and boresights it on the spot.

I explain to him that boresighting just gets you close enough to sight it in, it HAS to be shot before hunting.

Well, fast forward to this morning, and i get a text that the same damn deer steps out at the same damn spot. POW, deer stands there. POW, deer runs off.

He 'forgot' to shoot the gun before going. After finding the first blood at 100yds through a thick cutover, he's fallen down and almost passed out twice. Luckily my nephew was out there to get him back to truck to hang out.

Needless to say, im pretty certain this buck will not be found, unfortunately. I really hate the thought of it, but this last week has made me doubt his mental and physical prowess to be able to hunt by himself. However, im not sure i could bring that conversation up. Im sure my mom will do it when she hears this story though.
Posted by speckledawg
Somewhere Salty
Member since Nov 2016
3918 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 12:48 pm to
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Great man, pays for our entire lease for 6 family members, and works his butt off to make sure we all have a nice place to hunt.


Nah, he's good.
Posted by hardhead
stinky bayou
Member since Jun 2009
5745 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 12:49 pm to
go sight in his rifle for him

if he always takes care of everyone then go take care of him
Posted by LSUlefty
Youngsville, LA
Member since Dec 2007
26453 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 12:54 pm to
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, he's fallen down and almost passed out twice


Your Dad or the deer? Lol
Posted by hardhead
stinky bayou
Member since Jun 2009
5745 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 12:55 pm to
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, he's fallen down and almost passed out twice



i've been doing that since my teens
Posted by SCwTiger
armpit of 'merica
Member since Aug 2014
5857 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 12:55 pm to
I've got a relative that is just like that. He's ruined many an afternoon asking me to do things any outdoorsman should be able to do.
You should've gone and sighted his gun in after seeing how screwed up it was.

Just let him enjoy himself while he can, be glad you have him, and do everything you can to help him. Pray that he doesn't fall or get hurt.
Posted by LSUCouyon
ONTHELAKEATDELHI, La.
Member since Oct 2006
11329 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:02 pm to
Your Dad is 11 years older than me and I hope to enjoy the hunt safely as long as I can. I would hope that my son would tell me when he is concerned for my safety and ability to hunt alone but I would also hope even more strongly, that I would recognize that I am losing the strength, both mentally and physically to do so.

Start taking more time with him, maybe get a 2 man stand, hunt with him. There will come a time you won't be able to have him around. Enjoy him while you can.
Posted by SportTiger1
Stonewall, LA
Member since Feb 2007
28504 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:12 pm to
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go sight in his rifle for him

if he always takes care of everyone then go take care of him


No doubt. Taking it this weekend. Its just hard to see past the negligence. I definitely need to start dropping him off at his stand, at least to make sure he gets up there safe.
Posted by SportTiger1
Stonewall, LA
Member since Feb 2007
28504 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:14 pm to
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Start taking more time with him, maybe get a 2 man stand, hunt with him. There will come a time you won't be able to have him around. Enjoy him while you can


This is where i am. As im sure most 78 year old men that grew up dirt poor and made it all himself, he's prideful. Im sure i will be too.
Posted by Motorboat
At the camp
Member since Oct 2007
22685 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 1:18 pm to
I have the same concerns about my dad and fishing. At least he knows not to go by himself, but even when he's with buddies, I worry.
Posted by keakar
Member since Jan 2017
30028 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 2:10 pm to
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go sight in his rifle for him

if he always takes care of everyone then go take care of him


this ^^^^^^^

and you shouldnt have even had to have anyone tell you this

as for hunting alone, yes, it sounds like he is getting too old to be left alone out there at his age. maybe hook him up with a grandson or grand daughter just to be there in case he gets hurt or needs help after falling down. this wont make him feel like he has a babysitter watching over him but instead he will feel like he is spending quality time with the grand kids and teaching them about hunting
Posted by NASA_ISS_Tiger
Huntsville, Al via Sulphur, LA
Member since Sep 2005
7982 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 2:21 pm to
You're not overreacting. You care for your ole man. That's better than a lot of people out there. That being said...do what you can for him, as he's done for you...now it's your time to do for him.

Sight in his rifle.
Get him a two way radio and talk him into using it when he gets a deer down so he can have help tracking or loading it. In fact, you might want to see if he would radio BEFORE he gets down out of the stand...to avoid any major injuries.

He's still gonna want his independence...you just gotta find a way to help him have that in a safe manner.

My ole man passed away in 2009 at 60 years old. We only hunted a couple times together. Be glad what you have and do whatever you can to prolong it. If you have nephews or cousins that can help when you're at work...tell them to help out.

Sometimes it doesn't only take a village to raise a child...but it takes a village to look after the parents too.
Posted by SportTiger1
Stonewall, LA
Member since Feb 2007
28504 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 2:21 pm to
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and you shouldnt have even had to have anyone tell you this


In my defense, my brother is a member at a range and was supposed to be taking him out there. I didnt find out until today that this never happened.

quote:

maybe hook him up with a grandson or grand daughter just to be there in case he gets hurt or needs help after falling down. this wont make him feel like he has a babysitter watching over him but instead he will feel like he is spending quality time with the grand kids and teaching them about hunting


Took care of that last year, but she's about to be 1, so it'll be a few years (like 12) before i put them in the stand together.
Posted by tenfoe
Member since Jun 2011
6847 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 2:28 pm to
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just hard to see past the negligence.


Call it what you want, but if I live to 78 I won’t be taking directions from young whipper snappers. Like others said, it’s time to start helping him in every facet of it. My dad is younger than yours, but for all the gutshot button bucks and stupid stuff I did, I’m trying to pay him back by doing everything except pulling the trigger for him. It saying you aren’t helping him, but hopefully you’ll be an old man one day and have someone to help you.
Posted by Hermit Crab
Under the Sea
Member since Nov 2008
7167 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 3:04 pm to
only thing about that story that is age related is that he had trouble walking through some thick woods. The scope thing is stubbornness and laziness, which can be fixed quickly by you sighting it in for him.
Posted by SportTiger1
Stonewall, LA
Member since Feb 2007
28504 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 3:10 pm to
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The scope thing is stubbornness and laziness, which can be fixed quickly by you sighting it in for him.


Perhaps.
Posted by baldona
Florida
Member since Feb 2016
20458 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 3:10 pm to
As said, it sounds like his biggest issue is not having a sighted in gun. Falling and getting hurt can happen to anyone, I'd just make sure he has a reliable way to get a hold of someone in case it happens.

But yeah I mean to a degree as people age they become more and more like a reverse child to their own children, you have to watch over them and help them more and more the older they get.

I'd say one of the best things you can do is to help prep his stands for him to make them as easy as possible. Some 8 ft box stands are super easy to get into with easy paths to and from and nice shooting lanes.
Posted by SportTiger1
Stonewall, LA
Member since Feb 2007
28504 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 4:37 pm to
Yeah i definitely need to build him some stairs and a platform to get IN the stand.

My BIL shot the gun, at 75 yards it was 14" low and 7" to the right. The shot was 213 yards.

Just to find blood = worse shot ever.
Posted by HeadSlash
TEAM LIVE BADASS - St. GEORGE
Member since Aug 2006
49675 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 4:53 pm to
Sounds like he's hard headed
Posted by SportTiger1
Stonewall, LA
Member since Feb 2007
28504 posts
Posted on 12/11/17 at 5:01 pm to
Slightly. Just talked to him, he's completely forgot about the conversation with me telling him to make sure he shoots it again before going hunting. Thought he was good to go after the punk at academy told him the laser boresighter would get him within an inch at 100yd

Little bastard.
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