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re: I am heartbroken and angry this morning.

Posted on 3/11/15 at 7:56 pm to
Posted by VetteGuy
Member since Feb 2008
28696 posts
Posted on 3/11/15 at 7:56 pm to

Now I'm seeing the "pastor".
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43030 posts
Posted on 3/11/15 at 7:58 pm to
Alright cool man. Keep focusing on the big picture of making people better all around. Probably hit some resistance, but your trained to deal with it. Religions might have different beliefs, but I think that is the end game of damn near every one of them



Eta: I appreciate the response because like I said earlier, I enjoy understanding how people work both individually and as a group
This post was edited on 3/11/15 at 8:01 pm
Posted by aVatiger
Water
Member since Jan 2006
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Posted on 3/11/15 at 8:04 pm to
quote:

t simply hurt to think that they don't love us enough to leave it to us.


And the fact they didn't even consult y'all, right? That would bother me I think.

Same thing happened in my family years ago, my maw maw and paw paw wanter to sell our family lake house, my uncle,(the only person that enjoyed it because he didn't like anybody else from the fam over there, yes..dick move), when they dropped the news in him he went ballistic and didn't talk to either my maw maw and paw paw till on their death beds. He didn't offer to buy it from them or anything.. He wanted that lot.. and it was a good spot

Back in Christmas of '10 he came over to dinner, got drunk and apologized to me and my dad for not inviting us to the lake house and then told me he loved me.. He never told anybody this and was really reserved person.

I responded with,"thanks, hugh.. But it doesn't matter now that we don't have a fricking lake house." Everybody died laughing, and we made light of a dark situation.

But six months later, Hugh was dead.. massive heart attack. He did make his peace with though, and I'm glad.. You can't let property tear about your bloodline.

But it happens, you just have to plan for it as best as possible.
Posted by VetteGuy
Member since Feb 2008
28696 posts
Posted on 3/11/15 at 8:10 pm to
Well, you know, people aren't perfect.

Christians or not, pastors or not, we are all still people.

It is hard not judge. It is hard to forgive, but that is what we are taught to do.

It is hard to do this, but we should.

Posted by aVatiger
Water
Member since Jan 2006
27967 posts
Posted on 3/11/15 at 8:13 pm to
Yeah... right...

But you and I aren't losing our hunting camp..
Posted by VetteGuy
Member since Feb 2008
28696 posts
Posted on 3/11/15 at 8:18 pm to
Oh...shoot.

Ride with me in traffic.

You'll think I need an exorcism.
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43030 posts
Posted on 3/11/15 at 8:37 pm to
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It is hard to forgive, but that is what we are taught to do.
Some people flat out don't deserve it. I've got two people in my 31 years that I will never forgive. I completely and totally despise them and would laugh out loud at their funeral if someone tells me when they are.

One of them just so happens to be my most recent ex
Posted by Hooligan's Ghost
Member since Jul 2013
5212 posts
Posted on 3/11/15 at 8:45 pm to
there is time for your grandparents to change their mind, or have their mind changed. it has not happened yet
Posted by VetteGuy
Member since Feb 2008
28696 posts
Posted on 3/11/15 at 8:45 pm to
It's not about them deserving it.

It's about you deserving it.
Posted by CarRamrod
Spurbury, VT
Member since Dec 2006
57524 posts
Posted on 3/11/15 at 9:02 pm to
quote:

quote:
ripped away? it was never yours to begin with. it sucks but it is not like it was yours.


Never had to deal with something like this I see.
lol my grand parents had a lake house, me and my dad went there all the time, i learned to ski out front, drank my first beer on the porch, ad was stalking a monster bass that hungout in the shallows off the point.

They sold it before i turned 15. I was never able to bring a high school girlfriend there to have sexy time.

but again... it sucks and im sorry
This post was edited on 3/11/15 at 9:03 pm
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 3/11/15 at 9:06 pm to
If anyone ever sells out property I sure as hell better know about it because it's not leaving our name.
Posted by Bourbon Cowboy
Pineville, LA
Member since Mar 2015
113 posts
Posted on 3/11/15 at 9:07 pm to
Amen brother
Posted by Cadello
Eunice
Member since Dec 2007
47820 posts
Posted on 3/11/15 at 9:24 pm to
Go buy your own land and start your own legacy.
Every book starts new chapters.
Posted by AlxTgr
Kyre Banorg
Member since Oct 2003
81942 posts
Posted on 3/11/15 at 9:57 pm to
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Maybe.. but can you disagree with him?
Well, the post was deleted, so....
Posted by aVatiger
Water
Member since Jan 2006
27967 posts
Posted on 3/11/15 at 10:27 pm to
quote:

One of them just so happens to be my most recent ex


Lemme guess, she was a,"good christian girl", that banged your dad in your tree stand?
Posted by aVatiger
Water
Member since Jan 2006
27967 posts
Posted on 3/11/15 at 10:30 pm to


Religion talk does not go over well on the OB, I remember when everybody got all pissed off at the guy who didn't like the Robertson's,"shoving their religion down our throats", on their own TV show

Posted by aVatiger
Water
Member since Jan 2006
27967 posts
Posted on 3/11/15 at 10:33 pm to
quote:

They sold it before i turned 15. I was never able to bring a high school girlfriend there to have sexy time.



THIS IS WHY I JUST WANTED TWO OR THREE WEEKENDS AT THE LAKEHOUSE!!1 FUUUUUUUUUU



So many awesome memories that could've been...
Posted by GeeOH
Louisiana
Member since Dec 2013
13376 posts
Posted on 3/11/15 at 10:33 pm to
Wait, your grandmothers brother is your uncle? My be correct but it sure sounds weird.

I would absolutely confront them both. There is NO excuse for them not discussing it with you.

Your uncle is a dick and your grandmother is a biter vengeful dishonest old bag.

I would not talk to either again.
Posted by Cracking
Northshore
Member since Aug 2006
3432 posts
Posted on 3/11/15 at 10:34 pm to
quote:

Some people flat out don't deserve it. I've got two people in my 31 years that I will never forgive. I completely and totally despise them and would laugh out loud at their funeral if someone tells me when they are.

One of them just so happens to be my most recent ex


If you don't forgive them, all they are doing is occupying space in your mind and that space is full of bad feelings. IF you forgive them, it gives you the power to eliminate their negative influence on your life, and move in a more positive direction. If they are bad people who dislike you, that is the worst thing that could happen. And even worse for them, you can actually be nice and give it no more meaning than being kind to a stranger. It will absolutely be an evolution to a higher place in the maturity/confidence ladder, and IF they are bad people, they will dislike it more than your grudge.
Posted by aVatiger
Water
Member since Jan 2006
27967 posts
Posted on 3/11/15 at 10:38 pm to
quote:

IF you forgive them, it gives you the power to eliminate their negative influence on your life, and move in a more positive direction.


Bull. shite.


Revenge is sweetest joy next to getting pussy.
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