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You find out your SO cheated in a previous relationship

Posted on 10/24/17 at 7:40 pm
Posted by mostbesttigerfanever
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Posted on 10/24/17 at 7:40 pm
Let’s say you’re really serious (few years) and you find out she cheated while in a year long relationship prior. Does that, or how does that, affect your level of trust?

FYI: she told me she did this. I did not find out from someone else
Posted by Cosmo
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Member since Oct 2003
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Posted on 10/24/17 at 7:41 pm to
Once a cheater probably always will be

You marry her and jody will sneak in within a couple years
This post was edited on 10/24/17 at 7:42 pm
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 7:42 pm to
quote:

she told me she did this. I


If she told you after a few years then there's a reason she didn't tell you sooner. Kinda like a check raise, you're fricked.
Posted by GeorgeTheGreek
Sparta, Greece
Member since Mar 2008
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Posted on 10/24/17 at 7:42 pm to
Had an ex I dated forever cheat on me. It's whatever. Didn't change my opinion on things. People suck.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 10/24/17 at 7:42 pm to
75% of the time, if they cheated before, they’ll do it again.

The only hard step is the first one. After that it’s like riding a bike.
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
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Posted on 10/24/17 at 7:43 pm to
If she has cheated or been cheated on and was okay with it, NEXT.
Posted by CajunSoldier225
Member since Aug 2011
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Posted on 10/24/17 at 7:43 pm to
Posted by Quidam65
Q Continuum
Member since Jun 2010
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Posted on 10/24/17 at 7:43 pm to
Did she tell you early on or much later? Or was she cheating with YOU during this other relationship?

Does she appear to be remorseful or did she just mention it casually?

Would she be willing to go to counseling to learn techniques to avoid a recurrence?

Many questions need to be answered on this one.
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 10/24/17 at 7:44 pm to
Did she cheat with a BBC?

How hot is she?

How unfortunate looking are you?
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
30590 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 7:47 pm to
She will cheat on you baw. You dont have a magic penis. She knows that. But she may think other guys have a magic penis
Posted by mostbesttigerfanever
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Posted on 10/24/17 at 7:47 pm to
Good fair q’s

Does regret it (apparently). Said she was with a guy she claims didn’t really care for (but together for a year). Mentioned it kind of casually. When I pressed for intel and voiced displeasure...this was when her remorse really set in
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 10/24/17 at 7:47 pm to
Yeah I wouldn't trust her one bit.
Posted by Upperdecker
St. George, LA
Member since Nov 2014
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Posted on 10/24/17 at 7:47 pm to
This question can only be answered with pics
Posted by BeerMoney
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Posted on 10/24/17 at 7:47 pm to
Kill her. Only answer
Posted by Old Money
Member since Sep 2012
36401 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 7:48 pm to
I'd break up with my SO if she told me that.
Posted by tiggerthetooth
Big Momma's House
Member since Oct 2010
61289 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 7:48 pm to
quote:

Good fair q’s

Does regret it (apparently). Said she was with a guy she claims didn’t really care for (but together for a year). Mentioned it kind of casually. When I pressed for intel and voiced displeasure...this was when her remorse really set in



Her "remorse" is her sale to you. Don't make any commitments to this one.
Posted by Blob Fish
Member since Mar 2016
3091 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 7:48 pm to
Not enough details. Age, for one, would matter. If she were 18 at the time, I would give zero fricks. If she were 29, that’s a different story.

Also, if there is a crazy twist to this story, and YOU were the one she cheated with... then I’d bang her like the world’s ending and say bye forever afterward.
Posted by foshizzle
Washington DC metro
Member since Mar 2008
40599 posts
Posted on 10/24/17 at 7:49 pm to
Given that she told you about it, then giving it a pass deserves consideration, especially if she's "older and wiser". If she's 23 and still finds reasons to ditch you that's another matter.
Posted by mostbesttigerfanever
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Member since Jan 2010
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Posted on 10/24/17 at 7:49 pm to
Not a bbc

IRL 7.9

I don’t post all that much and I have a life (I guess I’m reasonably good looking)....you have quite a high post count btw; you must feel pretty good about that
Posted by mostbesttigerfanever
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Member since Jan 2010
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Posted on 10/24/17 at 7:50 pm to
Was not me with whom she cheated . She was 22; now 32....so yeah I suppose that matters
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