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re: You ever look at old pictures of your kids and start crying?

Posted on 8/31/25 at 8:36 pm to
Posted by Murray
Member since Aug 2008
14808 posts
Posted on 8/31/25 at 8:36 pm to
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Have a 4 and 3 year old right now and it’s awesome 95% of the time, with the other 5% being mostly an absolute war at bedtime every. single. night.

If you’re saying I’ll look back on that fondly, I just don’t see it.


You won’t remember the 5%. Trust me.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
72364 posts
Posted on 8/31/25 at 8:46 pm to
I dare say there are not many parents who don’t look back on pictures and get a bit emotional.

These two always get me…





(He’d just qualified 40/40 on the rifle range at Benning. Only one of two in his company to qualify with a perfect score)
Posted by DerkaDerka
Member since Jul 2016
1302 posts
Posted on 8/31/25 at 8:46 pm to
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The song, The Cats in The Cradle, couldn't be truer.


I can’t listen to that song.
Posted by ultratiger89
Houston, Tx
Member since Aug 2007
3677 posts
Posted on 8/31/25 at 8:47 pm to
No kids = no
Posted by wfallstiger
Wichita Falls, Texas
Member since Jun 2006
14781 posts
Posted on 8/31/25 at 8:51 pm to
No, but I deeply regret my priorities when they were young - and older. Missed far too much
Posted by Yewkindewit
Near Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Apr 2012
21639 posts
Posted on 8/31/25 at 9:06 pm to
I’m currently going through boxes of photos and separating them for my kids. It is a trip down memory lane and does make the emotions flow!
Posted by PensaTigers
Pensacola
Member since Sep 2018
3309 posts
Posted on 8/31/25 at 9:07 pm to
Mine are 6 8 and 9. My 9 year old daughter is beautiful, I mean people make comments that it's gonna be tough. Long blonde hair, blue eyes, pretty and in shape, top of her class. Scares me. My 8 year old son is extremely smart and capable but emotionally charged, also in great shape. He's got attitude issues I have to stay on top of. My 6 year old seems to have add (not adhd) as forming habits has been tooth pulling. I also have 2 year old twin boys.

I just wanna say, teenagers is what I felt confident in while scared of young kids. Now I feel like it may be the opposite, that i kick arse as a dad of young children and that im going to struggle w them as teenagers because I fear I won't be able to handle them making the growing pain mistakes when I preventively guide them away prior. I know thats going to kill me and I'm afraid it's going to separate how open they are with me.
Posted by When in Rome
Telegraph Road
Member since Jan 2011
36165 posts
Posted on 8/31/25 at 9:23 pm to
I am in the phase now where I’m taking all of those pictures and videos. It sometimes occurs to me that I may never want to look at these again due to the feeling you’re describing.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
43214 posts
Posted on 8/31/25 at 9:27 pm to
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I just wanna say, teenagers is what I felt confident in while scared of young kids. Now I feel like it may be the opposite, that i kick arse as a dad of young children and that im going to struggle w them as teenagers because I fear I won't be able to handle them making the growing pain mistakes


I was thinking about this too. I think you’ll be ready for them when it gets there. I didn’t think I was ready for a newborn when they were born but then it just happens.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
43214 posts
Posted on 8/31/25 at 9:28 pm to
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I am in the phase now where I’m taking all of those pictures and videos.


It’s definitely a good sadness. My favorite ones are when my 5 year old would take videos of him and his younger sister. Just let them go crazy with it.
Posted by Turnblad85
Member since Sep 2022
4694 posts
Posted on 8/31/25 at 9:37 pm to
I don't like looking at old pictures of any kind. Just makes me feel melancholy. Especially now that so many of my family are dying off.


Probably an immaturity on my part but If I never saw another old picture again I'd be ok with that.
Posted by PikesPeak
The Penalty Box
Member since Apr 2022
957 posts
Posted on 8/31/25 at 9:39 pm to
Twice a week, minimum. My oldest just started Kindergarten and I swear she was just learning to crawl. I'm savoring every second with my 2.5yo and 4mo based on that lesson with my oldest. It goes too fast
Posted by Lonnie Utah
Utah!
Member since Jul 2012
32795 posts
Posted on 8/31/25 at 9:39 pm to
That first one is a cub scout range isn't it?
Posted by Monahans
Member since Sep 2019
2164 posts
Posted on 8/31/25 at 9:43 pm to
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(He’d just qualified 40/40 on the rifle range at Benning. Only one of two in his company to qualify with a perfect score)

Im proud as hell for you Dad! This made my day.
Posted by meeple
Carcassonne
Member since May 2011
10852 posts
Posted on 8/31/25 at 9:43 pm to
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
43214 posts
Posted on 8/31/25 at 9:52 pm to
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Twice a week, minimum. My oldest just started Kindergarten


Oh brother. Wait til they’re 13 or older. You’re toast.
Posted by cbree88
South Louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
9861 posts
Posted on 8/31/25 at 9:57 pm to
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my stepdaughter is 21


Did you bang her yet?
Posted by BoogaBear
Member since Jul 2013
7043 posts
Posted on 8/31/25 at 10:00 pm to
Won't go into detail, but my 10 year old has come up on a whole suite of new hormones and is a completely different person. My heart is having trouble handling the new her and the remembering the old her and it gets me.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
43214 posts
Posted on 8/31/25 at 10:00 pm to
Posted by GruntbyAssociation
Member since Jul 2013
8693 posts
Posted on 8/31/25 at 10:04 pm to
quote:

Maybe I’m going through menopause


At least it’s not womenopause.
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