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Would you fund your kid's IVY league education if you could?

Posted on 11/30/22 at 7:51 pm
Posted by mattytiger123
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Jul 2014
3022 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 7:51 pm
I got to see my sister's family at thanksgiving. She has three kids, the oldest of which is graduating high school in May. My nephew has been submitting applications at various top-flight schools. He's right at the top of his class, his test scores are off the charts (he scored a 29 on the ACT as a sophomore, now at a 34) and has been groomed for success since infancy. His mom is a nurse practitioner and his father is an MD (nephrology).

Princeton and Harvard are at the top of his list, but he's also submitting applications to Evangelical and Catholic institutions like Notre Dame, Georgetown, Wheaton, Holy Cross, etc. He wants to major in Philosophy for Pre-Law.

His parents are strong conservative Christians and said, in a very matter-of-fact tone, that they will refuse to help fund his education at radical left-wing IVYs and state schools, even going as far to exclude left-leaning Jesuit schools like Fordham, LU-Chicago, etc for their Marxism, and will only pay for "sane institutions." This caused a lot of tension at thanksgiving and is clearly making their boy distraught. My nephew seems pretty set on going to an IVY (if he gets in) no matter the debt he will incur, whereas his mom and dad are pretty loaded and willing to fund his education elsewhere in full.

I told them that most university campuses will expose him to marxism/leftism, especially in the philosophy department (I have an MA in Philosophy) and that it's just a part of his generation's experience. They weren't having it.

Thoughts?
Posted by UndercoverBryologist
Member since Nov 2020
8077 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 7:53 pm to
Only to Cornell, the only land-grant Ivy.

Edit: As long as they don’t major in Underwater Basket Weaving (with Trig) at Cornell, they’ll probably end up okay.
This post was edited on 11/30/22 at 7:57 pm
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124314 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 7:53 pm to
I’ve heard good things about Notre Dame. Beautiful campus.

Hear they used to have a great ball coach
Posted by baybeefeetz
Member since Sep 2009
31638 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 7:53 pm to
Their money. Their principles.
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
73681 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 7:53 pm to
Without a doubt. Sets them up for success in life.

Your kid is going to make their political decisions no matter what school they go to. Quit babying them.
Posted by NotoriousFSU
Atlanta, GA
Member since Oct 2008
10227 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 7:54 pm to
Are you a liberal? Sure, what’s $300K for an undergrad when your 18 year old want to save the world?

Are you conservative? Why the frick you spending $300K on your kid to become a communist?
Posted by rowbear1922
Lake Chuck, LA
Member since Oct 2008
15167 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 7:55 pm to
Depends on what they want to pursue. Gender studies? Hell no. A real degree, yes.

This is also assuming I have kids one day
Posted by Oates Mustache
Member since Oct 2011
22072 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 7:56 pm to
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He wants to major in Philosophy


What a fricking waste.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
113966 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 7:56 pm to
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if you could?


If I could, why would I not?
Posted by MrSpock
Member since Sep 2015
4349 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 7:57 pm to
Assuming he is Caucasian? He better have something exceptional on his application for admission with a 34.

Also if he's hellbent on going to an IVY ---> ROTC

This post was edited on 11/30/22 at 7:57 pm
Posted by Bobby OG Johnson
Member since Apr 2015
24921 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 7:57 pm to
Can they pay $300 a day for about 7 years to deprogram him afterwards like the pharma heiress?

Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
73681 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 7:57 pm to
If it is Pre-law then probably not so much
Posted by mattytiger123
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Jul 2014
3022 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 7:59 pm to
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Are you conservative? Why the frick you spending $300K on your kid to become a communist?

They can become a communist at any institution. I went to a small private Christian school and was taught by a post-structuralist as a freshman.
Posted by TheWalrus
Member since Dec 2012
40559 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 8:01 pm to
I got a 34 on the ACT and wouldn’t sniff the Ivy’s as an undergrad. That on its own is totally meaningless. Has he spent thousands of hours in soup kitchens? Is he president of the chess club? That’s what matters to the Ivy’s, not an ACT score. If anything they will hold it against him that he couldn’t get a 36 with all that privilege.
This post was edited on 11/30/22 at 8:03 pm
Posted by DownSouthJukin
Coaching Changes Board
Member since Jan 2014
27283 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 8:02 pm to
We were raised conservative and Catholic. My parents paid for my brother’s Ivy League education. My other siblings and I went to state schools in the South and my parents paid for that, also. We all ended up with great jobs.

My brother was indoctrinated while at his Ivy League college and lives amongst the elites in the East and I think my parents regret him having gone there. My other siblings and I walk the same path as our parents ideologically.

Take all of that for what it’s worth.
This post was edited on 11/30/22 at 8:04 pm
Posted by mattytiger123
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Jul 2014
3022 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 8:02 pm to
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Assuming he is Caucasian?

No. Bro-in-law is mixed, mostly black. My nephew has hair/skin similar to Steph Curry.
Posted by NotoriousFSU
Atlanta, GA
Member since Oct 2008
10227 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 8:04 pm to
Yeah, so does the kid know about indoctrination? If not, and they’ve been raised conservative and expect the parents to cough up the dough, then they should abide by their parents’ wishes or pay their own way. Not a hard decision imo. Let the kid choose their fate.
Posted by Tyga Woods
South Central Jupiter Island, FL
Member since Sep 2016
30139 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 8:04 pm to
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he scored a 29 on the ACT as a sophomore, now at a 34


There are 15-20 of these kids at every high school. They aren’t all getting accepted to an Ivy
Posted by mattytiger123
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Jul 2014
3022 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 8:06 pm to
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Has he spent thousands of hours in soup kitchens? Is he president of the chess club? That’s what matters to the Ivy’s, not an ACT score

He has more community hours than I can count, high ranked wrestler (Georgia), perfect GPA, leads bible studies at an assisted living home, hospice volunteer, etc.
Posted by GreatLakesTiger24
One State Solution
Member since May 2012
55670 posts
Posted on 11/30/22 at 8:07 pm to
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he scored a 29 on the ACT as a sophomore, now at a 34
are yall minorities or just not familiar with elite/competitive college admissions?
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