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re: Women Can't Find "Economically Attractive" Men
Posted on 9/12/19 at 10:24 pm to Bestbank Tiger
Posted on 9/12/19 at 10:24 pm to Bestbank Tiger
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Actually, 0 to 1.5 guys know they're 1s and adjust their standards accordingly. Incels are usually 5-6s who think they're 10s and demand women at their own perceived level.
This is what I think as well. I was by no means using incel to make fun of people or insult people. I also wasn't intending to have some deep meaning attached to it, though I know Slow digs pretty deep into this stuff so my bad. It was meant to be a convenient one-word descriptor for "men who complain that no women want them".
I think a large % of men who complain about being unable to get women (and hate women because of it) are not actually unable to get women in general, but are unable to get the top tier women they want because they fail to realize they're not desirable enough for those women. The same for the unattractive or looney women who complain about no good men.
OP blanketed women and said they will not marry average middle class men, but what he really meant was that super desirable women aren't marrying average middle class men. And why would they when they are desirable enough to get better? Super desirable men aren't marrying average women either.
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Posted on 9/12/19 at 10:26 pm to EmperorGout
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A swing and a miss
Take it up with Tuck, Chief. Write to his show, ask him to email the evidentiary support for the conclusions he presented in his segment.
Once again, personal anecdotal evidence is not what Tuck was focused on. Once again, personal anecdotal evidence was not within the scope of his segment. Have we made that clear for you, Mr. Baseball?
Posted on 9/12/19 at 10:33 pm to BluegrassBelle
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there’s plenty of guys out there who need to work on themselves before they get on an app wondering why they can’t land women out of their league
Yep. And before anyone freaks out, same for plenty of women.
People in general tend to think they have a lot more to offer than they actually do. This is where the term Nice Guys came from. Many of these types of men believe that simply being nice means they are entitled to women being interested in them. And I get it. It isn't just looks. People who are just plain weird usually don't know they're weird. They don't know the way they speak to others is weird or unattractive. How can we really expect some of these people to know they're not desirable because they're weird? Takes a ton of self awareness. Especially when you get to people who are desperate.
Desperation is so interesting to me because its really hard to pick out specific things someone has said or done to come off as desperate, but women can sniff it out a mile away and its the least attractive thing you can do.
This post was edited on 9/12/19 at 10:35 pm
Posted on 9/12/19 at 10:52 pm to LouisianaLady
People lack the basic ability of introspection? Shocked. Shocked, I tell you
Posted on 9/12/19 at 10:56 pm to 83FairmontSaint83
So, they are saying that push over men do so well financially in the world because they don’t go after what they want?
Posted on 9/12/19 at 10:56 pm to Rouge
Should men accept and love these women who have had miles of dick run through them?
I wouldn’t.
So many women here who are whorish then marry.
Disgusting
I wouldn’t.
So many women here who are whorish then marry.
Disgusting
Posted on 9/12/19 at 10:58 pm to Bestbank Tiger
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You wouldn't date a young widow?
Sounds like youd be taking on decades of emotional baggage from said widow. Sure shed have a good excuse, but she's got all of the other shite you'll have to carry.
Posted on 9/12/19 at 11:02 pm to Bushmaster
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Should men accept and love these women who have had miles of dick run through them?
I wouldn’t.
Understood, but that mindset goes both ways
Posted on 9/12/19 at 11:04 pm to Rouge
You are so accepting. You do you.
Posted on 9/12/19 at 11:06 pm to Rouge
quote:
Understood, but that mindset goes both ways
It doesnt if the woman is going to be a financially dependent or ask that you carry the financial burden, which despite what modern feminism says, is still true for a majority of women.
The most important and prized thing women have to offer is their sexuality and body.
Posted on 9/12/19 at 11:06 pm to Fat and Happy
quote:
So, they are saying that push over men do so well financially in the world because they don’t go after what they want?
Pretty much this.
There are women out there who would marry a man who is content in his $30k lower level role. Its just not the women those men are going after. Its the average looking women making $25k answering the phone somewhere.
It is what it is.
Posted on 9/12/19 at 11:13 pm to LouisianaLady
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are unable to get the top tier women they want because they fail to realize they're not desirable enough for those women.
I am really guilty of this. I have pretty absurdly high standards for someone with my level of looks, which results in me being alone for long stretches of time. I never settle. However, when I do get hits, they’re always way out of my league, and it does happen. No reason to settle for someone you’re not attracted to just because you’re not comfortable with being alone. I know that I’ve seen the results of not settling, and the practice has been overwhelmingly positive for me up until recently.
Posted on 9/12/19 at 11:14 pm to Rouge
Not really.
Posted on 9/12/19 at 11:24 pm to LouisianaLady
quote:Tbh, it has a lot more to do with personality than a lot of guys think. I never had any problems, and I'm no Fabio. Who wants to talk to someone that sucks and can't hold a conversation?
I think a large % of men who complain about being unable to get women (and hate women because of it) are not actually unable to get women in general, but are unable to get the top tier women they want because they fail to realize they're not desirable enough for those women.
quote:I'd drop a chick like a bad habit if she just sat back and didn't always try to improve herself and her career. I'd expect the same out of them
There are women out there who would marry a man who is content in his $30k lower level role.
This post was edited on 9/12/19 at 11:25 pm
Posted on 9/12/19 at 11:31 pm to 83FairmontSaint83
This board hates women.
To recap:
Lots of people are retarded. Many of them are women. You stumbled across some of them. Congrats. Move on.
To recap:
Lots of people are retarded. Many of them are women. You stumbled across some of them. Congrats. Move on.
Posted on 9/12/19 at 11:33 pm to 83FairmontSaint83
While I agree women have been manipulated to thing men are an ATM
This feels like a post by an incel
This feels like a post by an incel
Posted on 9/13/19 at 12:05 am to FelicianaTigerfan
Man, I hate to sound like the smart arse old guy; but here goes
Waaaaaay too many of the people in their 20’s and 30’s are unattractive. Primarily, they are fat or have tattoos or just don’t take very good care when it comes to personal hygiene. They also seem to have a very high opinion of their thoughts on life and how the world needs to hear them. Every one of those can be a strike for potential suitors
Average looking girl or guy who is in good shape has way more options than people 20-50 lbs heavier. What percentage of guys shut it down if a girl has tattoos? How many dudes with man buns can’t get laid? Smoker? That will rule out about 75% of the candidates you think you should qualify for
Problem is, they see themselves as attractive. In many instances they would be if they lost weight or didn’t have visible tats or shaved. Before the world got so fat there were tons of average looking folks, but most of them were pretty damn thin. Pull up pictures of a beach in the early 70’s. Not a fat guy or gal in view. Person with an average face can be damn attractive to a lot of people if they are in good shape. Don’t let go of yourself until after your married. Good Lord. That has been the rule of thumb since time began
It isn’t a big mystery why some people have a hard time pairing up. Instead of generalizing about what is wrong with the other sex; figure out how you might improve the product
Waaaaaay too many of the people in their 20’s and 30’s are unattractive. Primarily, they are fat or have tattoos or just don’t take very good care when it comes to personal hygiene. They also seem to have a very high opinion of their thoughts on life and how the world needs to hear them. Every one of those can be a strike for potential suitors
Average looking girl or guy who is in good shape has way more options than people 20-50 lbs heavier. What percentage of guys shut it down if a girl has tattoos? How many dudes with man buns can’t get laid? Smoker? That will rule out about 75% of the candidates you think you should qualify for
Problem is, they see themselves as attractive. In many instances they would be if they lost weight or didn’t have visible tats or shaved. Before the world got so fat there were tons of average looking folks, but most of them were pretty damn thin. Pull up pictures of a beach in the early 70’s. Not a fat guy or gal in view. Person with an average face can be damn attractive to a lot of people if they are in good shape. Don’t let go of yourself until after your married. Good Lord. That has been the rule of thumb since time began
It isn’t a big mystery why some people have a hard time pairing up. Instead of generalizing about what is wrong with the other sex; figure out how you might improve the product
Posted on 9/13/19 at 12:42 am to EmperorGout
Slide me in the "wife makes more column".
IMO, women fricked up. Because now the pressure is all shifting on them.
I was a stay at home dad for about about 2 years because the cost of daycare + after school care was absolutely stupid when you calculated it a family of 3 (1 kid in elem + 2 in diapers in day care) vs. income after taxes vs. time spent with your kids.
I absolutely loved it. Slept in "late". Did laundry (the "secret" is not to put kids in 7 outfits a day & minimize situations where they can make a mess). Cooked. And did basic cleaning (I wasn't scrubbing floors/bathrooms or dusting everything in sight daily or every other day but we lived clean. Stay at home moms put all that nonsense as a priority.).
I played golf, with the kids in tow (you'd be amazed how you can fit to carriers in a golf cart). Met up with friends for lunch or drinks (you don't have to carry as much crap as moms try to make you for a simple 30-90 minutes out of the house). We went to the park almost every day. And watched a ton of sports + TV.
I've since gone back to work but I would go back to it in a HEARTBEAT. Especially now with them all in grade school. Jack around all day with the TV on, play golf, maybe workout (yeah right), do some basic cleaning, laundry, dishes, groceries (hell, today you don'teven have to go grocery shop-same day delivery or pick-up via an app is a glorious time + money saver), & wait for them to get off the bus to knock out HW + after school activities.
I LOVE the idea of not being stressed out to be the main provider. Heck all the corporate mind games & petty shite.
Thank you, wife. Break that glass ceiling. I'll pour you some wine when get home after 7pm most nights.
IMO, women fricked up. Because now the pressure is all shifting on them.
I was a stay at home dad for about about 2 years because the cost of daycare + after school care was absolutely stupid when you calculated it a family of 3 (1 kid in elem + 2 in diapers in day care) vs. income after taxes vs. time spent with your kids.
I absolutely loved it. Slept in "late". Did laundry (the "secret" is not to put kids in 7 outfits a day & minimize situations where they can make a mess). Cooked. And did basic cleaning (I wasn't scrubbing floors/bathrooms or dusting everything in sight daily or every other day but we lived clean. Stay at home moms put all that nonsense as a priority.).
I played golf, with the kids in tow (you'd be amazed how you can fit to carriers in a golf cart). Met up with friends for lunch or drinks (you don't have to carry as much crap as moms try to make you for a simple 30-90 minutes out of the house). We went to the park almost every day. And watched a ton of sports + TV.
I've since gone back to work but I would go back to it in a HEARTBEAT. Especially now with them all in grade school. Jack around all day with the TV on, play golf, maybe workout (yeah right), do some basic cleaning, laundry, dishes, groceries (hell, today you don'teven have to go grocery shop-same day delivery or pick-up via an app is a glorious time + money saver), & wait for them to get off the bus to knock out HW + after school activities.
I LOVE the idea of not being stressed out to be the main provider. Heck all the corporate mind games & petty shite.
Thank you, wife. Break that glass ceiling. I'll pour you some wine when get home after 7pm most nights.
Posted on 9/13/19 at 1:54 am to 83FairmontSaint83
This thread is pathetic.
Posted on 9/13/19 at 3:06 am to LouisianaLady
It’s precisely takes like that, that illustrate why repealing the 19th amendment is an attractive idea.
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