re: Woman whines about passport bros

I think it's a complicated issue that men need to think more about before committing themselves, whether they plan to stay in whatever country abroad or bring the woman "back home". I've remained abroad for 36 years, been married to my (wonderful) wife for over 25 years, so it wouldn't be a problem to return (but she wouldn't do it permanently).

What I have seen, over and over, in SE Asia, are guys who go there to live and find a local wife. They (for the most part, there are exceptions) don't speak the local language, don't understand/appreciate the culture, and end up living in a place with other ex-pats as their only friends, experiencing their own culture vicariously. This has been made far easier with the advent of the internet; when I came here in 1988, there was one English language newspaper, books in English were expensive, and the only media was AFN (if you could pick it up on your radio). But even with this connection, they are still in a foreign country where many if not most look upon you as a source of money. It can be done, but I think it takes a special kind of person to pull it off. I hope you're one of them!

Man, I am so sorry. After re-reading my post it's clear I left out some critical info: I'm in Germany and both my wives are German. That was totally misleading... But we have been to SE Asia a lot and know some successful transplants who made it work. Also a lot of stories like yours about guys getting ripped off.

No problem, my bad for misreading your post .. when you mentioned SE Asia then a few sentences later you said ‘when i came here’ i didnt realize you were in a different place.. all good, in my experience just about every place outside of N America has better options for dating /marrige than back home .

That heifer is a perfect example of why I ignore Amber Alerts.

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That seems like the smart play because once these passport bros bring their new lady to the states, it's all over

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Nah, thanks to her I now have a nice place on the Adriatic. So she is bringing me there.

I dont get it.

She says all the guys that are going overseas to get chicks are guys that she wouldn't even look at twice.

Why does she need to stop someone she wants nothing to do with?

fricking idiot.

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I dont get it. She says all the guys that are going overseas to get chicks are guys that she wouldn't even look at twice. Why does she need to stop someone she wants nothing to do with?

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She needs to be the object of their desire, but she doesn’t want to be with them. It’s a self-esteem boost for her.

If too many guys get partners overseas, there will be fewer guys to fawn over her.

Who’s going to subscribe to her only fans if they’re all overseas spending money on women that like them? Make it stop!

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Thanks brother.. you are proof of exactly what i was trying to say.. if some nincompoop on the internet looked at you, found out you live in SE Asia and are married to a foreign woman- they would automatically label you a “passport bro”

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I have been open about my wife being from Indonesia on this board and the insult I get from lonely midgets like Mingo is that I have a mail-order wife.

If I were to have gone "mail order" I would have opted for one half my age, like most dirty old pervs going that route do but instead I married one my age, and we were in our late 30s when we met.

My wife does look way younger than me, and still gets carded when we go to the casino, so I always tell her that people probably assume I am a passport bro who brought back a younger wife.

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she should be more concerned about that huge arse nose protruding from her face.

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and why the long face??