re: Woman complains about men not approaching her

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Cold approach is such an idiotic thing. "Cold approach" is completely rooted in hookup era gender relations. Absolutely no one "cold approached" for 99% of human history.

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This was exactly how it was 45-50 years ago as we emerged from the so called sexual revolution but in some ways, if you had any presence to yourself, you could get laid just by walking into the door of a club.

The real test on yourself, was trying to leave that scene without dragging a boatload of issues with you.

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s this really a thing now that women are having a hard time with men approaching them now? She's definitely not bad looking.

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i'm married and she's too young for me, but say i wasn't and she wasn't.

sure that's somebody i'd think was attractive and talk to at the bar, but the second we got past surface level stuff to anything personal, she'd start screaming at me about abortions and immigrants.

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she is annoying.

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Yes…. And likely has a hard time understanding that social media and the every day world are two very separate places where only one is reality

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This was exactly how it was 45-50 years ago as we emerged from the so called sexual revolution but in some ways, if you had any presence to yourself, you could get laid just by walking into the door of a club.

The real test on yourself, was trying to leave that scene without dragging a boatload of issues with you.

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And that era was the beginning of the end. Communities, families, churches, etc. were very effective at verifying men and women in terms of potential character and relationships.

People do not give 2 shits in how their potential bf/gf/spouse fits their family or community. They date for their own "personal fulfillment" and its a shitshow disaster.

Families are not allowed to speak out against bad spouses. People dont date based on religious background as you'll find plenty of agnostic/atheists dating devout Christians. How is that possible? Because the relationships are not formed on values at all. Its a socioeconomic alliance more than anything.

Education and income is more important than religion in modern relationships yet that priorization has led to worse relationship outcomes and worse stability.

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Women are horrible with signaling interest these days. A little eye contact, open body language, etc. can go a long way. Really just be receptive and dudes will approach.

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Yeah, it's interesting to see what she is doing. Does she even make eye contact or smile, etc? Or does just act like guys don't exist as she is passing by them? Of course most dudes aren't going to say anything if you're pretty much not acknowledging their existence and have a stern look on your face the entire time. That screams do not bother me. Dudes aren't mind readers.

Think about women using logic. They don't. They say one thing one minute and the next minute when their emotions change they want something completely different. She can be on video complaining that men don't approach women and two minutes later when a guy approaches her, she'll call him a creep.

All men know this, we have known it, it's just out there more because women are all vocalising their thoughts and feelings and go figure, they're often contradictory.

I can fix her

In the wild, nature adorns creatures with visuals and instills in them habits to repel others.

Nose stud
Tats
Video-ing herself while she walks and gives commentary about how bad her life is

She's pretty much screaming "I come with constant drama". No self-respecting guy wants to deal with that.

“Toxic masculinity” is the biggest con that a small minority of ugly cow women seeped out and spread into mainstream.


Majority of women like and prefer masculine men. They’re attracted and turned on by masculine men. They want men to approach and make first move and do all the work. But they’re drowned out by the loudmouth minority.