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re: Will you ever remarry?

Posted on 8/24/25 at 10:24 pm to
Posted by SallysHuman
Lady Palmetto Bug
Member since Jan 2025
13698 posts
Posted on 8/24/25 at 10:24 pm to
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If you are married 30 years to a good person than you are likely going to want that again, I don’t care what you say.


Maybe... but after 30yrs of being with the right person, I doubt it's that easy to re-create.
Posted by tonydtigr
Beautiful Downtown Glenn Springs,Tx
Member since Nov 2011
6409 posts
Posted on 8/24/25 at 10:28 pm to
quote:

Will you ever remarry?


Hell the frick, no!

I've got a great wife, and I love her dearly.

If something ever happened to her, I seriously doubt I could ever find anyone close to being able to put up with my shite the way she does.

I really don't think I am willing to take the risk of having a major frick up happen at this point in my life.
This post was edited on 8/24/25 at 10:36 pm
Posted by R11
Member since Aug 2017
5061 posts
Posted on 8/24/25 at 10:31 pm to
These dating apps are tricky

I’ve dabbled some Last month or two
I’ll go a week without no hits then all of a sudden I’ll get 4-5 chicks in day or two

I asked one girl how many likes she’s gets on day … she said the most was like 60
Sh told me it’s overwhelming and tiresome
I think there’s way more males than females on these things.
Posted by cbree88
South Louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
9694 posts
Posted on 8/24/25 at 10:33 pm to
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will never co-habitate with a female again in my life.


You prefer males now?
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
13255 posts
Posted on 8/24/25 at 10:45 pm to
Don't install more than 2 of the apps at once. Buy a one month subscription to Tinder and Hinge, and as you approach 30 days, consider if you want to replace Hinge with Bumble for the next month. Tinder you can assume you'll keep as a constant.

Know, that especially for men, near the end of your subscription term, they will dangle women you can't believe in front of you to try to get you to renew. FB dating is free, and has actually turned out to be the best. Just be aware that a lot of matches just sort of die off, which is perfectly fine.

Yes, she gets 60 matches a day. Half of them are people trying to sell her crypto. Another chunk of them is dudes that match with anything in their feed.
Posted by lsuroadie
South LA
Member since Oct 2007
8454 posts
Posted on 8/24/25 at 10:59 pm to
Would never… if my wife departs before me (highly unlikely) I will live peacefully alone and set up companion time with a prostitute and live happily ever after
Posted by tigertrueAU
Canyon Lake Texas
Member since Oct 2009
1286 posts
Posted on 8/24/25 at 11:03 pm to
wanna make God laugh? tell him your plans. remarried at 45, greatest thing that ever happened to me. wasn’t looking but have a good relationship with our creator and Lord and savior Jesus christ. i followed him and trusted him. had you asked me my plans i wouldn’t of said remarried. he’s smarter then me.
This post was edited on 8/24/25 at 11:04 pm
Posted by Prosecuted Collins
The Farm
Member since Sep 2003
7205 posts
Posted on 8/24/25 at 11:19 pm to
Divorced 11 years. Vasectomy 10 days after separation, I was done. Got engaged to a hoe who ran to my pot dealer. 58 is young OP. I’ve never been happier now and at 48 finally found the girl of my dreams. People give up way to early.

I’m goin to marry the frick out this woman. Don’t ever exclude love man, it’s our evolutionary advantage.
This post was edited on 8/24/25 at 11:21 pm
Posted by kingbob
Sorrento, LA
Member since Nov 2010
69275 posts
Posted on 8/24/25 at 11:25 pm to
Remarrying is unlikely for me. I’m 34, I likely can’t have children, and I have no interests in becoming a step-father. In an ideal world with an ideal partner, I could see myself remarrying, but I highly doubt it will happen.

I don’t vibe with just anyone, and most of those women aren’t exactly the most stable marrying types (I almost exclusively meet volatile broken ex-theater kids and artists). The number of those women who also would be fine with never having kids is pretty small. I may end up adopting someday, but I think it’s a tough sell, realistically.

I would give myself a less than 20% chance at ever remarrying. I’m not saying I will close myself off to the possibility, but I have more or less resigned myself. One bad marriage was enough. I don’t think I ever really recovered from it, and I don’t see how I could ever truly trust anyone ever again.
This post was edited on 8/24/25 at 11:37 pm
Posted by LemmyLives
Texas
Member since Mar 2019
13255 posts
Posted on 8/24/25 at 11:26 pm to
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I’ve never been happier now and at 48 finally found the girl of my dreams. I’m goin to marry the frick out this woman
Me too.

When I was married, I never cheated, but pondered that it would be with a woman that was nice to me and considerate. That's sad as shite. But I have one now at the same age.
Posted by dat yat
Chef Pass
Member since Jun 2011
4887 posts
Posted on 8/25/25 at 2:59 am to
I was married at 21, and again at 40; neither worked out except for great kids from the 1st.

If I married again at 60+, the "til death do you part" thing gets way easier to achieve!

I ain't saying never...
Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
135784 posts
Posted on 8/25/25 at 5:10 am to
Said this on here before, but if my wife dies on me, and I'm still relatively healthy, I'm selling everything I own, buying some land putting up buildings and fences, and going to all shelters and adopting the senior/special needs/unadoptable dogs, cats, whatever other animals they have and caring for them the rest of my life.
Posted by BabysArmHoldingApple
Lafayette
Member since Dec 2016
1194 posts
Posted on 8/25/25 at 5:42 am to
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he’s smarter then me


Concur
Posted by Pepe Lepew
Looney tuned .....
Member since Oct 2008
37908 posts
Posted on 8/25/25 at 6:03 am to
Been married 46 years, and there isn’t another woman in the world for me. Would never marry again…
Posted by dallastiger55
Jennings, LA
Member since Jan 2010
33089 posts
Posted on 8/25/25 at 6:33 am to
The family members we have that have lost spouses all said the same thing and all ended up getting married.

You just never know
Posted by LRB1967
Tennessee
Member since Dec 2020
22896 posts
Posted on 8/25/25 at 7:09 am to
I am 58 and recently got engaged. SO is 59. It will be the first marriage for both of us. I don't know if I would want to start over if anything happened to him but would be open to the possibility if the right man showed up.
Posted by Bear88
Member since Oct 2014
14652 posts
Posted on 8/25/25 at 7:32 am to
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Some of you are very full of shite, I’m sure I’ll get downvoted for it, but most people that were in very long relationships miss having someone when they lose them and do it again. Frankly some way too fast. If you are married 30 years to a good person than you are likely going to want that again, I don’t care what you say. I say this, as both of my wife’s parents have been married to someone else, divorced, and through relationships while my wife and I have been together. Men that can take care of themselves are the best off being alone, but most women ultimately want the safety and companionship no matter the age of having someone else around. But I’ve hated watching my wife’s mom go through some crappy relationships in her 60s and 70s. She is an idiot, and was basically a mistress twice to men that were all but divorced and then shockingly didn’t want anything serious right after officially signing…but that’s a different story. Living alone sucks if you have a great spouse. I wouldn’t be in a hurry to not be alone if my wife passed away, but I certainly would want to eventually find companionship and someone to share the rest of my life with.

Hell no, not me . Like I say , you can do you but it is not for me . I would probably find me a small apartment somewhere around halfway between where my daughters live and be around grand kids as much as possible . If you count jr high, HS , college etc we have been together since 1984. No way in hell am I getting another wife late in life. If I was younger that MIGHT have been an option but not now
This post was edited on 8/25/25 at 7:50 am
Posted by SallysHuman
Lady Palmetto Bug
Member since Jan 2025
13698 posts
Posted on 8/25/25 at 7:35 am to
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I am 58 and recently got engaged. SO is 59. It will be the first marriage for both of us.


Wow! How'd y'all both get to pushing 60 without getting married before but willing to now? Either y'all have kids?
Posted by Aubie Spr96
lolwut?
Member since Dec 2009
43902 posts
Posted on 8/25/25 at 7:39 am to
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Said this on here before, but if my wife dies on me, and I'm still relatively healthy, I'm selling everything I own, buying some land putting up buildings and fences, and going to all shelters and adopting the senior/special needs/unadoptable dogs, cats, whatever other animals they have and caring for them the rest of my life.



This is EXACTLY what I will be doing. Just need to find the spot.
Posted by bluedragon
Birmingham
Member since May 2020
8942 posts
Posted on 8/25/25 at 7:46 am to
My wife passed away last August.

Too busy remodeling a condo , then work on my daughter’s home in Georgia, to even think about this. Besides, it’s football season and I growl at the TV too much.
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