re: Wife’s Photo Album

What is wrong with you? Use your f..king brain. You put that shite in a safe place where she can't find it and I guarantee you at some point if it really matters to her she will start dropping little hints here and there. Sooner rather than later she will start asking you did you get everything? Did you get all the boxes? And other such bullshite. Then you can lower the boom. BTW: My wife suggests you hide the binder under your mattress. Somewhere in the middle. That's where she hides her shite from me. Don't give her the satisfaction of knowing this bothers you or she won't respect you. It's shitty but true.

I’d throw it out.

Oddly enough, I just found out a few months ago an ex of mine from HS has the same “book” from our time together.

She is now my nephew’s MIL and she told my sister about it during one of the marriage showers. She says she still has every letter I wrote her from basic and while I was deployed. Weird part? I don’t remember ever writing her.

She told my sister she would still “be with me” if I wanted to and is married. She literally said her husband doesn’t matter if I’m DTF. I don’t particularly remember her.

Bitches be crazy and your old lady would frick this ex given 1/2 a chance.

If she’s a redhead with a pedo mom and a shitload of horrible tattoos run the other way. Did I say that out loud?

I wouldn’t open than can of worms. It’s weird that she had issues with the party cups as well.

lol sorry it's over OP

Of course, everyone here will give you shite.. but seriously, I know the only reason I keep pics of past relationships is not wanting to totally let go of that memory(and still wanting to see the xxx pics of us in action).
She isn't wanting to let it go...

You've only been married 4 years so maybe you haven't figured it out yet but women are irrational, unreasonable and hypocritical. She didn't forget about the album and she was well aware of her hypocrisy when she made you get rid of your party cups. Unless the guy died or something then this is unacceptable imo. If this is an album of just the two of them and the guy is still around in some form or fashion or if they have any contact at all then you have a problem. If the guy is alive and she's not willing to get rid of the album like she made you do with the cups then you have a problem.

But most likely, if she is a half way reasonable person, she will get rid of the album if you let her know that it bothers you.

Rub a few out on the photos and put it away. Assert your dominance

Nothing you can do in this situation to help yourself. She's irrational and will get defensive.

Once that trust is busted, it don't return.

Don’t act like a girl