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re: Why Is Calling a Woman 'Crazy' Their Ultimate Trigger?
Posted on 4/27/17 at 1:23 pm to NoHoTiger
Posted on 4/27/17 at 1:23 pm to NoHoTiger
quote:
You never know when you might get stabbed in the back or have your dick bitten off and put in the garbage disposal.
I hereby retract my offer of marriage made sometime back.
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Posted on 4/27/17 at 1:25 pm to tke857
If you really want a show, try the other C-word.
Posted on 4/27/17 at 1:28 pm to tke857
women can't stand when a man says it probably because until a man carries another human being in their bellies for nine months with roaring hormonal changes and ribs and bladder kicked. Then have the baby and then feel overjoyed and then the baby nurses more pain with the pure joy...
THEN MEN CAN BE REAL CRAZY. So calling us crazy pisses us off.
THEN MEN CAN BE REAL CRAZY. So calling us crazy pisses us off.
Posted on 4/27/17 at 1:28 pm to Big EZ Tiger
Four things I learned some time ago to do when I have a female guest spend the night:
A.) Put all of the valuables in the safe and lock.
B.) Give the dog run of the house after sex is over.
C.) Turn the alarm system on and don't give the guest a code.
D.) Keep a loaded gun somewhere around my side of the bed, with its presence and location known only by me.
A.) Put all of the valuables in the safe and lock.
B.) Give the dog run of the house after sex is over.
C.) Turn the alarm system on and don't give the guest a code.
D.) Keep a loaded gun somewhere around my side of the bed, with its presence and location known only by me.
This post was edited on 4/27/17 at 1:30 pm
Posted on 4/27/17 at 1:30 pm to NoHoTiger
quote:
meh...I can always just kill him and get rid of the body. I'm pretty sure bleach destroys blood evidence. I'm good.
That's insane
...how would you go about all of that being restrained every night? Suddenly I feel much more ahead of the curve & less of a meanie by the tactics I employ to neutralize the cray at night
This post was edited on 4/27/17 at 1:32 pm
Posted on 4/27/17 at 1:56 pm to Anonymous95
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Too bad they don't ACTUALLY want to be educated, but since they follow all. my. posts. I will answer them. Hi guys, I hope you read this. Doubt you will, but you can no longer claim ignorance ?? Why is calling a woman "crazy" triggering? Let me explain. Because it is psychological abuse and manipulation. There is a term for it actually, it is gaslighting. It is 2017, so there have been MANY articles published on this very thing, but allow me to, once again, do all of this emotional labor for you, dear confused man who just cannot understand and needs an explanation. It is a man discounting a woman's VALID reaction as "hysteria" simply because she is a woman and has feelings (hormones are also highly involved in the convo when research shows that women's hormones have no effect on rationality vs irrationality, it just might make women more prone to NOT have the patience to deal with your BS as she would at another time). It is a tactic to shut a woman up and make sure she has zero credibility in a discussion that usually indicates wrong doing on YOUR part. It is also followed by and used as a tool to shape a woman's behavior. A woman must change what the man deems "crazy" or be viewed as irrelevant, continue to face ridicule, and even face being left, while the man is never held responsible for any self-evaluation or understanding of the truth. There is NOTHING loving or caring or helpful or positive about calling a woman (or anyone) "crazy" when they are sharing their experiences, reacting to something, or showing emotion. Emotion is not bad. Why is it triggering? Because it is one of THE most common tactics that narcissists, psychopaths, and sociopaths use to control women (Shameless plug for "Psychopath Free" here, go read it), so, of course, it is triggering when we realize that abusive tactics are being employed against us. Knowing that you are being abused SUCKS and the reason it TRIGGERS us is because it is dangerous and it kicks up our fight or flight response. Because we need to get away for our own protection. It has NOTHING to do with our own mental health (which is definitely more healthy than any man resorting to gaslighting us) or any "subconscious recognition" that we may, in fact, be crazy. Spoiler alert: "crazy people" don't recognize their crazy, nor are they offended by the idea that they are. They feel their most SANE when they are at their most INSANE. The following comments on the thread show that you men not only KNOW that it is abusive because you recognize the harm it causes a woman, but you also ENJOY employing it as an abuse tactic to get an emotional response out of a woman (which you will then punish her for when she has). So there you have it. Why is it triggering? Because you are a harmful, dangerous person and a woman knows deep down with all of her being that she needs to get away from your abusive influence on her.
What a crazy bitch.
Posted on 4/27/17 at 2:30 pm to tke857
crazy is not the ultimate. try calling one of them a count and see what happens
Posted on 4/27/17 at 2:37 pm to LSU Rules07
If you call them crazy and they flip out = Crazy
Posted on 4/27/17 at 3:14 pm to tke857
quote:calling someone crazy = emotional invalidation
Emotional invalidation is when a person's thoughts and feelings are rejected, ignored, or judged. Invalidation is emotionally upsetting for anyone, but particularly hurtful for someone who is emotionally sensitive.
and of course women are more sensitive than men, we're designed that way. so it's more commonly seen in women
clown question imo
Posted on 4/27/17 at 3:17 pm to Paige
quote:
clown question imo
yep I was clownin for sure and got blasted on her FB too
Posted on 4/27/17 at 3:19 pm to Paige
quote:
calling someone crazy = emotional invalidation
Calling a crazy person crazy = articulation of fact
Posted on 4/27/17 at 3:35 pm to tke857
People are only upset by a label if:
1. If it's not true and hurts their reputation or the reputation of a loved one (Dorothy Mantooth is a SAINT!), or
2. It is true and they are ashamed of that fact.
If it's not true, and it doesn't matter, no one gets mad. If someone calls me a c@cksucker, it doesn't bother me because I know it's not true, and so does everyone else.
If it is true, and you're not ashamed of it, you won't care. If someone calls me a jacka$$, it doesn't bother me because I am one. I'm stubborn as a mule, just like my daddy and his daddy before him. I come from a long line of jacka$$es.
Short: they know they're crazy, but they're ashamed of it, so they pitch a fit.
1. If it's not true and hurts their reputation or the reputation of a loved one (Dorothy Mantooth is a SAINT!), or
2. It is true and they are ashamed of that fact.
If it's not true, and it doesn't matter, no one gets mad. If someone calls me a c@cksucker, it doesn't bother me because I know it's not true, and so does everyone else.
If it is true, and you're not ashamed of it, you won't care. If someone calls me a jacka$$, it doesn't bother me because I am one. I'm stubborn as a mule, just like my daddy and his daddy before him. I come from a long line of jacka$$es.
Short: they know they're crazy, but they're ashamed of it, so they pitch a fit.
Posted on 4/27/17 at 3:38 pm to tke857
My favorite line is "you're an irrational bi-polar crazy c u n t"
That usually sets the them frick off. They absolutely despise the truth. Hurts too much.
That usually sets the them frick off. They absolutely despise the truth. Hurts too much.
This post was edited on 4/27/17 at 3:39 pm
Posted on 4/27/17 at 3:43 pm to SuperSaint
There sure are a lot of single downvotes happening in here.
Posted on 4/27/17 at 3:46 pm to Jester
quote:
There sure are a lot of single downvotes happening in here.
I did a little experiment with the above post. It took under 2 minutes from initial posting for the downvote to appear.
Posted on 4/27/17 at 3:50 pm to Jester
Same thing. Less than 2 minutes. Someone is working that refresh button like a crazy lady trying to win porcelain cats in an ebay auction.
Posted on 4/27/17 at 3:51 pm to Jester
20 seconds..... Must have been outbid. Time to order that colorful hair dye, I guess.
Posted on 4/27/17 at 3:52 pm to Jester
Downvote test
Posted on 4/27/17 at 3:52 pm to Jester
Down vote for Scruffy?
Posted on 4/27/17 at 3:52 pm to upgrayedd
quote:
upgrayedd
You're asking for a double dose of single downvote.
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